Ahem's dilemma - current track!!

Well, caught up with the last 2 episode's live updates and posts. Also, saw the new promo.

In real life Ahem would be able to say something like that to his family without it being a big drama!

Aham is starting to doubt his abilities as a father. Good! Cos he sucks as a husband!

I think that at this point both Gopi and Ahem can help each other. If Ahem just tells her that he wants to spend more time with her and that he's not ready mentally to be a father, I'm sure Gopi will understand that. Even yesterday, Gopi had said that she just wants Ahem to be happy, so if the baby is causing him to be fidgety, I'm sure she can help him through this. Ahem, on the other hand, also has to reassure Gopi of his feelings. I feel like that once he reassures her, he'll also reassure himself that he won't be the only parent to the baby and that, Gopi will be there with him every step of the way. It's like killing two birds with one stone.

I agree that an outburst will not do anything, but if that gets Ahem's feelings out, then I'm sure the ball will get rolling towards a resolution.

From the precap, it looks like Ahem is irritated that his laptop broke (I would be too! Kids!) I think he'll want to yell at her, but he won't. Gopi might apologize, but I think she'll be terrified first because she's been there before--with him being angry at her for ruining his laptop (when she washed it). At the same time, however, I remember what that elder employee told Ahem. He needs to spend more time with his wife. Will he listen? He knows that his employee is right because even he feels that way. It all boils down to the extent that Ahem is willing to make himself vulnerable. The more he lets out, the vulnerable he feels and I think he's not comfortable with sharing his feelings with Gopi yet. (Remember, he hid the rose from her) He's more comfortable sharing his feelings when he knows she won't know and when she's not aware of it.

Sorry for the long-winded answer! I hope you feel better Ruchi! Congratulations!

Originally posted by: ShaunSA

Aham is starting to doubt his abilities as a father. Good! Cos he sucks as a husband!

Too blunt, man! It's like a sucker punch to the gonads. 🤣

I got an idea where this storyline could go. I have the 'perfect' direction for it. For Ahem to come to terms as a man and for Gopi to realise her self respect and dignity. Pm me if you would like to know.

Originally posted by: RachP

Too blunt, man! It's like a sucker punch to the gonads. 🤣

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Originally posted by: ruchisahay

Well, caught up with the last 2 episode's live updates and posts. Also, saw the new promo.

I completely sympathize with Ahem at the moment. If he feels he's not ready, it means he's not ready and great that he's letting it out (as per the article). And neither is Gopi - seriously, the girl is delusional as she trusts Rashi and not Ahem, has no confidence and is still a child-woman. But the way CV'sare portraying pregnancy is so distorted - nothing is stopping Ahem from getting close to Gopi (except a little nausea) and all that sleeping separately is plain silly.

Since it's indian soap, I don't think his outburst will serve any purpose as such (no abortion for sure) except create more mess and more misunderstandings between Gohem. I hope the CV's handle it in matured way - the way they handled Hopi revelation to Ahem. I don't think he will even suggest abortion - he might just explode over something and admit he's not ready before everyone causing a lot of heartburn for Gopi / Koki.

I also don't understand what's the resolution for this track - except Ahem's acceptance or compromise. I mean with Anita / batwara /separation, there was always a logical end to the track. What's the end for this one? It's a point of no return unless Rashi or nature plays a bad trick.

What do you guys think - where is it headed?? Also, how long will this track last - I hope they don't drag it for the entire pregnancy (which by SNS calendar would last for an year as least - i.e. is SNS stays for that long)

This track is good to see. It actually mirrors what many couples go through. OK maybe they don't have the doubting love element but so many couples go through weird adjusting periods when they first get pregnant.