before when aham insulted gopi in the beginning she never dwelled upon it he never had to apologise because he was the great aham modi, even before anita arrived if aham got angry with gopi she would not talk n he apologise d very quickly it was over she always forgave quickly n they would be back to normal so whats changed, Rashi is changing gopi n very quickly. Aham hurting gopi each time he is with anita he needs to take a stand against anita n tell her that this is not right