In one post sometime back I said Jigar was a better man than Ahem for deciding that he will use the sofa & Rashi could use the bed...at that one instance maybe but over all I feel Ahem is much a better man than Jigar...
- He moved to the sofa & gave the bed to his wife & even when she is not there does not use it...it is her place & he treats it with respect. Touches wife's legs to massage as she was in pain. Never felt that he is way 2 high for her to do this. Indulged in small things which would keep his wife happy , playing ludo, eating kulfi. Took active intrest in ensuing wife recovers at the earliest. He came home early from work, kept track of her check-ups with doc, understood her fears & was with her to give support. He understood why the slap haapened & calmed her. Does not hesitate to accept his mistakes or his shortcomings before her. He explained it to her that his mom punished him. Told her she was the best judge in things which she was good like selecting & ordering bangles when he hated her he ensured she knows it & the family also knows it ...he did not mask it...when he is in love the same family is a witness to how he is taking care of his wife !! Listens to her counsellings...when she spoke about Rashi & Jigar, when she explained about the bird he understood her view point. In any situation he never took advantage of her, she is naive & he knows that. He never let her build any wrong dreams. He trusted her even when he he did not care for her much. cheating track, during the navratri lehenga track. He is a son who tries hard to keep his mom happy. He took care of his brother when he went thru difficult times. searched for him in the night, Rashi incident came to light, he supported Jigar. Misses his wife & does not hesitate to tell her indirectly that he misses her. He realised that he was little 2 late during the kiss , so next time he ensures his wife is fine 1st before going to work. He can so anything to calm his troubled wife. He took her to her mama's house. He followed her when she went to give the money to the goons.
- He plays an very active role in ensuring the business moves forward.
Initially in the hurt he was going thru, Ahem did not care for anybody but now he cares for his entire family & all its members especially his MOM...beyond his mom, he cares for his wife & wants to ensure she is happy at all times 😊
I could map some of it ...if I have missed any points...please add...😊