I take back my words !!! Updated-pg 5

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Posted: 13 years ago
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In one post sometime back I said Jigar was a better man than Ahem for deciding that he will use the sofa & Rashi could use the bed...at that one instance maybe but over all I feel Ahem is much a better man than Jigar...

    He moved to the sofa & gave the bed to his wife & even when she is not there does not use it...it is her place & he treats it with respect. Touches wife's legs to massage as she was in pain. Never felt that he is way 2 high for her to do this. Indulged in small things which would keep his wife happy , playing ludo, eating kulfi. Took active intrest in ensuing wife recovers at the earliest. He came home early from work, kept track of her check-ups with doc, understood her fears & was with her to give support. He understood why the slap haapened & calmed her. Does not hesitate to accept his mistakes or his shortcomings before her. He explained it to her that his mom punished him. Told her she was the best judge in things which she was good like selecting & ordering bangles when he hated her he ensured she knows it & the family also knows it ...he did not mask it...when he is in love the same family is a witness to how he is taking care of his wife !! Listens to her counsellings...when she spoke about Rashi & Jigar, when she explained about the bird he understood her view point. In any situation he never took advantage of her, she is naive & he knows that. He never let her build any wrong dreams. He trusted her even when he he did not care for her much. cheating track, during the navratri lehenga track. He is a son who tries hard to keep his mom happy. He took care of his brother when he went thru difficult times. searched for him in the night, Rashi incident came to light, he supported Jigar. Misses his wife & does not hesitate to tell her indirectly that he misses her. He realised that he was little 2 late during the kiss , so next time he ensures his wife is fine 1st before going to work. He can so anything to calm his troubled wife. He took her to her mama's house. He followed her when she went to give the money to the goons.
  • He plays an very active role in ensuring the business moves forward.

Initially in the hurt he was going thru, Ahem did not care for anybody but now he cares for his entire family & all its members especially his MOM...beyond his mom, he cares for his wife & wants to ensure she is happy at all times 😊

I could map some of it ...if I have missed any points...please add...😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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You are so right when you say ahem is a much better person and jigar.
jigar brain is in his pants. he need to really relize what rashi has done and what she is doing now .
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Posted: 13 years ago
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navya ...awesome awesome awesome post..👏⭐️

i do remember the post where u said Jigar was a better man than Ahemji...

We had discussed about the same thing ...i was saying Ahemji was more gentleman and much much better than Jigar as a Man ...😳... but u said jigar gave her the bed...even though he hated her... but Na😛 Ahemji is just too good of a Man😳

loved all the points u made to show Ahemji is much better man and husband and son and a businessman compared to jigar👏
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Awesome awesome awesome post!😆

I agree, agree agree!😉

Although i still love my Jigar and in some aspects, he is a better man than Ahem!😳

P.S anji ^, That made me 🤣
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: CHIKA784

Awesome awesome awesome post!😆


I agree, agree agree!😉

Although i still love my Jigar and in some aspects, he is a better man than Ahem!😳

P.S anji ^, That made me 🤣


jabeen now don't get me started here... \

please highlight in what aspects Jigar is better than Ahemji ...

ok may be u are talking about him being stupid and idiot when compared to his Ahem bhai😛
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: munnihyderabad


jabeen now don't get me started here... \

please highlight in what aspects Jigar is better than Ahemji ...

ok may be u are talking about him being stupid and idiot when compared to his Ahem bhai😛


Munny, currently waiting to beat you and comment on Harini's update!😳😆 (Joke!)

I'll be back soon and shall explain!😉
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: munnihyderabad



jabeen now don't get me started here... \

please highlight in what aspects Jigar is better than Ahemji ...

ok may be u are talking about him being stupid and idiot when compared to his Ahem bhai😛

good one munni 😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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agree with you navya.
the only thing that made jigar better than aham was he never washed his dirty laundry in public. while aham made sure everyone was aware of his displeasure with gopi, jigar hid it.
but no one is better than our ahamji now.
every time he looks at gopiji he makes my heart go dhak dhak.
you forgot how he praised her cooking, made her eat, well he did not feed her, still he might be doing to soon.
showed his tools to her🤣 while jiggy is still not sure.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: CHIKA784


Munny, currently waiting to beat you and comment on Harini's update!😳😆 (Joke!)

I'll be back soon and shall explain!😉


will wait for u dear...

but u are fighting a loosing battle😛
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: shruthi2010

agree with you navya.
the only thing that made jigar better than aham was he never washed his dirty laundry in public. while aham made sure everyone was aware of his displeasure with gopi, jigar hid it.
but no one is better than our ahamji now.
every time he looks at gopiji he makes my heart go dhak dhak.
you forgot how he praised her cooking, made her eat, well he did not feed her, still he might be doing to soon.
showed his tools to her🤣 while jiggy is still not sure.


shruti dear...Ahemji never ever bashed or abused gopi outside the 4 walls of MM... it's not washing dirty linen in public...

MM is his house and all members are his family.. thestay together and they share things... and he made clear to everyone in his family... that he does not want her in his life... so that they don't live in false hopes or expectations and so does for gopi not to raise her hopes😳


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