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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

I haven't watched the episode but here is my take on it.. His hesitation is actually a good sign 😃


During the accident, recovery and education track he touched her because he needed to do it to perform his duties.. Remember until a couple of days back, Aham thought he was but doing his duty by his wife.. So there was no hesitation then and if there was it was because both were aware of each other so much.

Today his hesitation makes more sense. He now is attracted to her and has realized that he misses her. So touching her now gives a whole new meaning to Aham. Hence the hesitation. But soon he will overcome that because he will not be able to stop.😃

Hila Harini spoken like a true optimistic romantic...me just think the CV's are at tug of war...are they or arnt they... trp for gohem or not...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: tangam

Hila Harini spoken like a true optimistic romantic...me just think the CV's are at tug of war...are they or arnt they... trp for gohem or not...


Tangam Thank you.😳.. It is more like waiting for 3 more weeks before he can realize his love.. Holi is not till then and we think Aham is going to realize his feelings by then, CVs have to slow down the attraction a bit and show Aham fighting himself😉
We know he misses her and he has come to realize that himself. The next step is to realize he is attracted and has even fallen in love.. How will that happen until he fights his feelings and finds that he come up loser everytime when he denies it..😃
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Posted: 13 years ago
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With Gopi being a bed ridden person, gave Ahem all the excuses in the world to touch and hold her. I don't believe that he never wanted to do this before. Right from day 1 he has been attracted to her. I remember when he helped her in removing her jewelry and such incidents. Only his ego had stood like a tall pillar to prevent him from acknowledging her presence.

But slowly with her goodness, he started melting till he reached a point being friends with her. But the accident let him open all his pent up feelings for her and he supported her whatever chances he got to make her feel assured and comfortable. It was all done on the pretext of taking care, though even then he felt the same. Only now he has simply got no excuse.

As if he touches her in public, it reveals to everyone that how concerned he's for her. While he is aware that the others don't know yet that how their relation is developing and how he's started feeling for her. So with all the emotions and love he has for her, it is not letting him stay back completely while at the same time not letting his feelings also to become known. For what is there in his heart now...desperation and eagerness to be with her, which is making him self conscious, more than what others might think of him, he is indeed scared of his ownself! That what he's doing is right at this moment or should he go slowly(dont kill me for making it even more slow😆 )But when he looked into her eyes when she was taking off the dust, I guess he got all his answers😃
Edited by shruts18 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sweetsugar

@Harini : reading your post makes me feel yes it could be a good sign❤️


Aww Thank you😳 Glad to be of help.. Love GoHem to bits.. and like another post, the CVs may be trying to bring another realization like Aham missing Gopi with this hesitation
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Ahem has never ever touched Gopi in public other than when she was invalid...so now his touching her has a different meaning altogether...so there's not to worry, no need to read anything negative...its just a progressive relation with CVs showing minor details. Maybe tomorrow he would be comfortable holding her in front of others😊And with pandit kalakaari going on CVs taking it easy and filling it up!😃
Edited by shruts18 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: shruts18

With Gopi being a bed ridden person, gave Ahem all the excuses in the world to touch and hold her. I don't believe that he never wanted to do this before. Right from day 1 he has been attracted to her. I remeber when he helped her in removing her jewelry and such incidents. Only his ego had stood like a tall pillar to prevent him from acknowledging her presence.


But slowly with her goodness, he started melting till he reach being friends with her. But the accident let him open all his pent up feelings for her and he support her whatever chances he got to make her feel assured and comfortable. It was all done on the pretext of taking care, though even then he felt the same. Only now he has simply got no excuse.

As if he touches her in public, it reveals to everyone that how concerned he's for her. While he is aware that the others don't know yet that how their relation is developing and how he's started feeling for her. So with all the emotions and love he has for her, it is not letting him stay back completely while at the same time not letting his feelings also to become known. For what is there in his heart now...desperation and eagerness to be with her, which is making him self conscious, more than what others might think of him, he is indeed scared of his ownself! That what he's doing is right at this moment or should he go slowly(dont kill me for making it even more slow😆 )But when he looked into her eyes when she was taking off the dust, I guess he got all his answers😃



Agree with everything, and the highlighted part is of course so true. I felt it too. I think he has admitted it to himself he loves her, he is hesitant because I don't think he want to hurt her again and so he wants to take his time in making sure he is right. Remember he is a shrewd business man and thats why he is going to go thru all the pros and cons before the confession. I do feel the confession will be Holi. I hope to God its Holi. I so want it to be Holi. I may be more desperate for his confession than Gopi😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dhabu89



Agree with everything, and the highlighted part is of course so true. I felt it too. I think he has admitted it to himself he loves her, he is hesitant because I don't think he want to hurt her again and so he wants to take his time in making sure he is right. Remember he is a shrewd business man and thats why he is going to go thru all the pros and cons before the confession. I do feel the confession will be Holi. I hope to God its Holi. I so want it to be Holi. I may be more desperate for his confession than Gopi😆


Rupal..😆 @Bold.. My thoughts exactly.. Let it be Holi.. It will be poetic justice if it is..😍
And I totally agree.. I think he wants to be sure now of himself before he leads Gopi on giving her hope and then crashing it.. Remember, he has been pretty straight forward in expressing his hate and has never given her false hopes. But he has seen her unwavering love for him through his hate, friendship and care.
But he is correct to be hesitant. He still does not understand why Gopi suddenly feels shy and avoids him. Like after the kiss, then a couple of days when his mom was angry. He saw that she avoided him but did not know why.
Then there was the feeling that she did not miss him like he missed her and he got his answer in her answering message. But the next day he still saw her scared about him and went forward to assure her.
Later that day though she did not share her troubles with him, she did take the rose he offered and wished him back. Now she is back to her own helping and caring self around him.
With all the above fluctuations, I think every action of his is to satisfy himself about her feelings as much as about recognizing his own for her.. And in the speed they are going, it will easily take 3 weeks right in time for Holi😉
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Posted: 13 years ago
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dnt knw y he was was hesitating gopi is his wife n he has gt the right to touch her its nt like he is doing anything wrng, the cv's need to change Ahem's character to flirty n mre opn...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Justlikethat1


Rupal..😆 @Bold.. My thoughts exactly.. Let it be Holi.. It will be poetic justice if it is..😍
And I totally agree.. I think he wants to be sure now of himself before he leads Gopi on giving her hope and then crashing it.. Remember, he has been pretty straight forward in expressing his hate and has never given her false hopes. But he has seen her unwavering love for him through his hate, friendship and care.
But he is correct to be hesitant. He still does not understand why Gopi suddenly feels shy and avoids him. Like after the kiss, then a couple of days when his mom was angry. He saw that she avoided him but did not know why.
Then there was the feeling that she did not miss him like he missed her and he got his answer in her answering message. But the next day he still saw her scared about him and went forward to assure her.
Later that day though she did not share her troubles with him, she did take the rose he offered and wished him back. Now she is back to her own helping and caring self around him.
With all the above fluctuations, I think every action of his is to satisfy himself about her feelings as much as about recognizing his own for her.. And in the speed they are going, it will easily take 3 weeks right in time for Holi😉


i dont know about others. but i have time only till april. after that i will be shifting my home, getting new job. i dont even know wther i will have time for sns or the forum. i desperately want to see some romance before that.
with the current track between hetal and koki, i dont know were we are headed.

okay he did not touch her, but sat close enough that their arms were touching each other.
Edited by shruthi2010 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: BlackSonic

We are in a marry-go-round. Don't get surprise if you see the same thing again.

👏 u r absolutely right...

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