Why is it we have to write Warning

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Rashi, Jigar and Hetal fans stay away Please, I am not going to apologize to anyone if I start blasting
I am using this from shilpa's post (apologies shilpa i did not pm to ask you if i could copy)
why do we have to start off like that this we have never done it before so why should we now the forum use to be fab n now we have some members who are fans of rashi, jigar hetal etc who start to taunt make fun of individual members. Remember we are dealing with fictional characters, very good actors playing these roles. Rather than taunting the members how about having a discussion about the actual topic in hand.
I have been with saathiya with other members from the beginning it has never been like this before so why has it started now?
If you dont like my topic dont taunt me dont make fun of me, dont reply to it i would never do it to you so dont do it to me. i come on the forum to have fun n write about my frustration, happiness, joy etc. i am sure others feel the same way.


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Posted: 13 years ago
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yeah I was thinking the same...it all started with someone writing something about bashing Rashi fan so maybe they got irritated...this all mess shouldn't have happened...but will get sorted soon if we go the peaceful ways👍🏼
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well said Suk.. 👏 The topics are being taken a bit too personally... It is a daily soap and we just discuss the characters for fun.. There is no need to take these discussions as war or a battle to see who wins or loses.. 😉 And please no personal attacks... 😕
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Let them bash they have no life... I am one of the members bein bashed which am on amd off here.
I agree with u suk
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Posted: 13 years ago
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this is not an healthy habit. basing rashi is not new. we have already bashed we koki, aham and gopi.
i first think i noticed was the creation of raji land. i m not against its creation. but it created a divide. when i pointed out why rashi was being bashed and even koki, aham and gopi were not spared, i was told not to disturb them in that thread. so i backed off.
there was also arguement that earlier people used to be supportive of raji now everyone bash them and the forum has become vemonous.
i dont see that.
each one has their own point.
after all this is a soap and the forum is a place were we went our anger and disappointment.
hope this phase will pass off.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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It's Okay Suk, I actually added the warning as a second thought.

In the recent times I noticed people doing this when they are getting ready to bash Koki, although I refrained from answering back, I read them and moved on. Some I answered but some I just skipped. I don't want them to get offended by anything I write and this is the only reason. Friday's show just brought my frustration with the CVs out full force.
You are right though we shouldn't have to post a warning before we post our thoughts on things. Thanks for bringing this to our attention.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well said Suk and well pointed out.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I think the issue is that the fans getting upset are newer members from late last year, maybed joined IF around October last year. Also they don't fully understand what the characters of Hetal, Jigar and Rashi's actions are doing to us, so yes sometimes we bash the character, but that should be allowed I think because they are characters and for them to succeed in bringing out these emotions in people that means they did their job well (the actor/actress) so that's a good thing.

Now the fans of these people should try to understand the point of view of those bashing the character and you can only do that if you understand someone has done something evil or has blinkers over their eyes, if you understand that, you won't get offended when someone is bashing that character because what it all boils down to is people on the forum being upset at some character for being blind or being evil.

Also us that are being frustrated, just bare in mind it's just characters playing the personality to the extreme, Hetal's character being so passive and being taken for a ride to this extent can only ever happen in a serial.

So lets not bash forum members for our views, rather try to communicate why you don't agree with someone's opinion, if you are unable to communicate effectively to get accross your objections without bashing a person then perhaps staying away from the thread is better for you. But give it a go, try and communicate your point of view, why you disagree, without bashing that forum member personally.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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i'm totally agree with u suk, for me this forum is best medicine to get rid of my stress, sad, anger.,
we r just like one family and discussing things in a funny and entertaining manner...its really happy to read posts and giving replys in a friendly manner...but sometimes i'm really upset cz some of them r misunderstanding our loving efforts as we are trying to bashing them...i dunno what happen to here in the forum as earlier we make our topics and threads freely and no one here to warn us to don't try to bashing us, its really pain full

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well said suk things have changed a lot in our forum

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