I want Munni to explain this...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I am not that accurate in my forsightedness... Munni has it perfectly

Kokila's expressions yesterday were just unpractical...

I felt bad when she again started work is worship lecture...

It was unnecessary.. further It was Valentines Day... she should have been a lil liberal...

Does not she understand that ahamji is BALANCING EVERYTHING NOW...

Initially he never paid attention towards Gopi... It was work for him always... Now he is trying to balance...

let him do that.. I agree to wht parag/chiraag (Kokila's husband) said.. i dunno his name.. highly confusing for me...

I would like to request Munni to explain this.. if i am unable to forsee something...

please dont take it otherwise

Please members.. I M NOT STARTING ANY KOKILA BASHINg THREAD...


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Manish I have an answer

1. Koki was teary eyed for Ahem when he didnt have dinner out of love and affection which was very visible since she was thinking of him since morning and nothing wrong's in it!
2. She got upset for Ahem picking Gopi as she didn't know that all the meetings have been cancelled in his office, secondly Ahem always informs Koki about everything but yester he forgot doing so when he stopped for kulfi, so her getting upset was bound to happen. These changes in relation will happen and are very natural.

3. Now it is for us to see how Ahem falling in love will take out time to spend with his wife at the same time keeping her mom happy...sure some tiffs are bound to happen otherwise how some spice will happen in SNS. CVs doing this all delebrately😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: shruts18

Manish I have an answer


1. Koki was teary eyed for Ahem when he didnt have dinner out of love and affection which was very visible since she was thinking of him since morning and nothing wrong's in it!
2. She got upset for Ahem picking Gopi as she didn't know that all the meetings have been cancelled in his office, secondly Ahem always informs Koki about everything but yester he forgot doing so when he stopped for kulfi, so her getting upset was bound to happen. These changes in relation will happen and are very natural.

3. Now it is for us to see how Ahem falling in love will take out time to spend with his wife at the same time keeping her mom happy...sure some tiffs are bound to happen otherwise how some spice will happen in SNS. CVs doing this all delebrately😆


Okay .. there is a point

Hmmm... about meetings cancelled... Communication Gap is the biggest villain...

Okay for the sake of spicy SNS .. i agree with u

Looking forward how does munni explain it...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Manish.. Munni will be able to give you more practical explanations but let me give you the one that comes to my mind..

I understand the heartburn that you feel when you see her say he has to balance work. But remember, it is not too long ago that he was punished. So Koki is still not sure if Aham is concentrating on work again or not..
One other thing why Koki insists he work is, apart from her aim to make him the responsible person he is, Koki is also looking at long term.
When she said she does not want love and the feelings of romance to blind him from his responsibilities, it is not only for now.
See Koki knows her son best. She knows that Aham may be currently smitten and besotted with Gopi and forget his work. But if something goes wrong, he will not be able to take it. Yes. He did not blame Gopi for losing the Kite competition but then it was not work.
If by any chance, Aham loses a deal, Koki is also worried that he may blame Gopi. We know Aham will not because he is head over heels in love. But Koki has not seen the stares, the words he talks to Gopi. So she does not know.
In the long term. it is good if Aham finds the balance between all 3, his work, his wife and his mom.. We know that Koki is not jealous now.. She herself told that today. She does want closeness between her son and DIL, But she just wants to make sure that he not be swayed by emotions of today in the process, destroy all he has done till now.
Even Gopi will not want that..
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For a better logical explanation, I defer to Munni..😃
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: manishmodh


Okay .. there is a point

Hmmm... about meetings cancelled... Communication Gap is the biggest villain...

Okay for the sake of spicy SNS .. i agree with u

Looking forward how does munni explain it...

Sorry to disagree with you ... the biggest villian is Rattie the rat. lol
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Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Manish.. Munni will be able to give you more practical explanations but let me give you the one that comes to my mind..

I understand the heartburn that you feel when you see her say he has to balance work. But remember, it is not too long ago that he was punished. So Koki is still not sure if Aham is concentrating on work again or not..
One other thing why Koki insists he work is, apart from her aim to make him the responsible person he is, Koki is also looking at long term.
When she said she does not want love and the feelings of romance to blind him from his responsibilities, it is not only for now.
See Koki knows her son best. She knows that Aham may be currently smitten and besotted with Gopi and forget his work. But if something goes wrong, he will not be able to take it. Yes. He did not blame Gopi for losing the Kite competition but then it was not work.
If by any chance, Aham loses a deal, Koki is also worried that he may blame Gopi. We know Aham will not because he is head over heels in love. But Koki has not seen the stares, the words he talks to Gopi. So she does not know.
In the long term. it is good if Aham finds the balance between all 3, his work, his wife and his mom.. We know that Koki is not jealous now.. She herself told that today. She does want closeness between her son and DIL, But she just wants to make sure that he not be swayed by emotions of today in the process, destroy all he has done till now.
Even Gopi will not want that..
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For a better logical explanation, I defer to Munni..😃



thnx Hrini (sorry i dunno how to spell your name.. which is very unique...) u mean to say that Kokii is unknowingly doing it...

okkk thr is a point...
But then koki would never come to know abt real love blossoming between Goham.. and she would keep on reacting like that...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: manishmodh



thnx Hrini (sorry i dunno how to spell your name.. which is very unique...) u mean to say that Kokii is unknowingly doing it...

okkk thr is a point...
But then koki would never come to know abt real love blossoming between Goham.. and she would keep on reacting like that...


Manish.. @Bold.. She will.. She just expects that kind of an expression to be after work😆 Seriously, to Koki love cannot be life but a part of it.
Currently she has only seen Aham coming home early, missing meetings and such.
But I think this is where Aham would step in to tell her his side of things. She is not unreasonable and Koki will understand.. I am pretty sure Aham will not ignore work for Gopi and he will make his mother understand..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: shruts18

Manish I have an answer


1. Koki was teary eyed for Ahem when he didnt have dinner out of love and affection which was very visible since she was thinking of him since morning and nothing wrong's in it!
2. She got upset for Ahem picking Gopi as she didn't know that all the meetings have been cancelled in his office, secondly Ahem always informs Koki about everything but yester he forgot doing so when he stopped for kulfi, so her getting upset was bound to happen. These changes in relation will happen and are very natural.

3. Now it is for us to see how Ahem falling in love will take out time to spend with his wife at the same time keeping her mom happy...sure some tiffs are bound to happen otherwise how some spice will happen in SNS. CVs doing this all delebrately😆




I still see Koki over stepping her boundries. I mean she was a newly wed DIL of the house, did Koki have to fight for her right to spend time with her husband, then why should Gopi. Once a child is married (especially one who is as old as Ahem) a mother needs to realize her work is done and have enough confidence that she has taught good values to her child to let the child do the right thing. Also I understand all this tradition of always respecting parents and I love our that part of our tradition, but there is also such a thing as having respect for your children to live their lives as long as they are doing their job. I think Koki cannot handle anyone taking her place in Ahem's life. I have many a times cooked my childs favorite food and he has not eaten it. I mean he is still a child and I can make him eat it, but why force? Let the child learn to make their own decisions. And for Koki to get teary eyed was a little too much for me...way over the top...sorry couldn't side with her on that😕

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