Kokilla - positive or negative !!!! (updated)

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well everyone is saying that Koki changed & she is not doing it right...Im not sure if she is doing it right or wrong but the fact that she has not changed from the start...
Go back to Kinjle's wedding & you see her in the same belief what she is telling Gopi...this is during diwali when Chirag gives Kokilla additional money than the shagun money so that she can use it for Kinjle's wedding...After that she takes on Parag & explains that a wife's respect is in her husband & as a husband he should take care of it...
And another instance is when Kinjle's wedding gets cancelled & she is crying in the room & Ahem is comforting her...she says all my life I have only lived my life for my children & it is thru them Im living...
All this & her current behavior are in tune with her beliefs...& she has gone thru difficult times with her husband not working & supporting the family !!!!
What Kokilla has not realised is that in her aim to make up for a non-working husband she pushed Ahem to the extent that all it matters was work...but in the overall process the feelings side of Ahem was pushed out ...Now with Gopi that part of Ahem is awakening & that is the change which Kokilla is unable to see...
For Kokilla if work is in place then other things she could handle...hence Gopi was choosen as she would not demand anything even time from Ahem...while Anita & Rashi would have wanted time & efforts & energy from her Ahem !!!
One thing which Kokilla did not take into account is that she ensured that her DIL was selected carefully but she did not estimate the power of love when it triggers what will it make the person do??? She knew even if the power of love was triggered in her DIL, her son will control it...but the power of love has triggered in her son & that is triggering the balance not in her favour !!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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👏well put facts...yup she's still the same kagadi🤢
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Posted: 13 years ago
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The fact that the son that she raised is not putting his office work first and trying to help the girl she has told him is no good in the past, Rashi, remember when Gopi told her about Rashi she is the one that revealed it in the end to mota bhabhi and everyone, so she has been consistent with her hate for Rashi and the fact that she was proud of her son's achievements at work and her dislike for Parag sitting at home, we always knew the reason she was pushing Aham so much to work is she at least got some respect that her son, who she raised was hard working unlike his father.

I think she is doing this for Aham's on good,Gopi is blind where Rashi is concerned, it would be better if Hetal and Jigar and everyone else other then Gopi remained upset with her, then she would still not have a firm footing in the house and keep her expectations to a minimum. So Aham listening to Gopi to help Rashi was wrong.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I know but whichever way you look at it we loved the way she interacted with Gopi and was the level headed one and it hurts now to see her character be so negative. We don't want another Bhaboo. They are two a penny.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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If it brings change to Gohem, then I'm okay with it. However, I still didn't like him being punished, that too with having to iron her clothes and staying at home (it was like having a whole weekend off--pun intended). We don't even let my dad near the washing machine (and he recently admitted that he doesn't know which one's the dryer and which one's the washing machine, but that's another adorable matter), making him iron clothes isn't anywhere close to the picture. 🤔
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Kagdi says she is like the mother of gopi but she hasn't behaved like one from past few days. Why wasn't she happy when ahem and gopi were flying kites without her. That expression was completely sick. Previously she tried to bring them closer but not now.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I still feel Kokila is not changed and I believe she had some hidden agenda. But I agree her approach is not appreciated and she will realise soon that she is going too much. We have some instances for that like she behaved same way with Gopi when she revealed Rashi's truth. I feel she is very mad at Ahem and Gopi helping Rashi neglecting Ahems work. Infact she asked Gopi many times about what is going on. We all know she doesn't like hiding anything.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: maddy311

Kagdi says she is like the mother of gopi but she hasn't behaved like one from past few days. Why wasn't she happy when ahem and gopi were flying kites without her. That expression was completely sick. Previously she tried to bring them closer but not now.


Oooh...maybe she wants him to ask for his permission for everything that he does with Gopi?? But did the brother ask for her permission when he fell in love with Anita? Oh no, he didn't!!! 🤣🤣
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: siri2006

I still feel Kokila is not changed and I believe she had some hidden agenda. But I agree her approach is not appreciated and she will realise soon that she is going too much. We have some instances for that like she behaved same way with Gopi when she revealed Rashi's truth. I feel she is very mad at Ahem and Gopi helping Rashi neglecting Ahems work. Infact she asked Gopi many times about what is going on. We all know she doesn't like hiding anything.


She just mentioned Rashi to Gopi and even then, it was just like a topic sentence. I need a whole paragraph (besides the obvious reasons) from her to analyze what she has a problem with when they're helping Rashi. 🤢
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: RachP


She just mentioned Rashi to Gopi and even then, it was just like a topic sentence. I need a whole paragraph (besides the obvious reasons) from her to analyze what she has a problem with when they're helping Rashi. 🤢
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Only Koki knows much about Rashi than any other person in MM. She still thinks Rashi should mend her ways on her own and its too early to forgive Rashi. She is the only person who believes Rashi is not the one who helped Gopi to stand and she could not defend herself at that time as Ahem himself said its Rashis miracle. Whatever Rashi has done till now she did leave any proof so that Kokila can prove that Rashi's true nature. Sorry Rashi fans. But she badly need to change. Hope I made some sense.

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