Gopi and Koki do not deserve Ahem - Page 4

These 2 ladies are torturing him everyday, one with her ego and the other with her brainless head

Harini--my take on this is completely different...At the start of the marriage, Kokilla went thru the same insecurities...that was the time when she put Gopi thru difficult situations so that she does not lose her son...Gopi survived all of that alone with no support from Ahem & her relationship with her MIL strengthened... Now it is Ahem's turn on what Gopi had gone thru, it is not only DIL responsibility but also a son's responsibility to manage both the women in his life...it is time for Ahem to help his mother understand that even thou he is married she still is important in his life...with Gopi's help he is in a better place than what Gopi was at the start of their marriage...how he handles this situation will determine if he is worth of both the women in his life !!!

Originally posted by: navyab

Harini--my take on this is completely different...At the start of the marriage, Kokilla went thru the same insecurities...that was the time when she put Gopi thru difficult situations so that she does not lose her son...Gopi survived all of that alone with no support from Ahem & her relationship with her MIL strengthened... Now it is Ahem's turn on what Gopi had gone thru, it is not only DIL responsibility but also a son's responsibility to manage both the women in his life...it is time for Ahem to help his mother understand that even thou he is married she still is important in his life...with Gopi's help he is in a better place than what Gopi was at the start of their marriage...how he handles this situation will determine if he is worth of both the women in his life !!!

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

navya couldn't stop ...myself ...nice analysis but few questions

so if the first part strengthened MIL-DIL relation ,...then will the current track be to strengthen Mom-Son relation... weren't they having a strong relation..?

then what scenario will strengthen a husband-wife relation?

only peace maker is Ahem and he should be assuring his mom that gopi becoming part of his life does not sideline koki from his life

Munni my take is that so far Ahem had it easy where Gopi was concerned but today when he is in a difficult situation what will he do? Initially in their marriage, he gave upon her easily & he himself dropped her at her maamajji's place but now will he do that if his mom asks for it ???

Originally posted by: navyab

Munni my take is that so far Ahem had it easy where Gopi was concerned but today when he is in a difficult situation what will he do? Initially in their marriage, he gave upon her easily & he himself dropped her at her maamajji's place but now will he do that if his mom asks for it ???

My take is that he will fight everyone including his mom if Gopi is going to go out of his life. Now he is pleasing his mom but the day he knows that in the process of this he is losing out on Gopi, he will take everyone heads-on which includes his mom even if he is not happy doing it with his mom. If you go back to Rashi's bday , one lady reminded that Ahem had visited Rajpal nagar only very fewtimes...in fact if I remember he must have visited that place only 4 or 5 times...once to leave Gopi so that she is away from his life, 2) to get her back for nani's sake 3) for Rakhi, 4) for Rashi kidnapping !!!

So my assumption this track is for Ahem to see what Gopi means to him when everything & everyone he loves is against him!!!

Originally posted by: navyab

Harini--my take on this is completely different...At the start of the marriage, Kokilla went thru the same insecurities...that was the time when she put Gopi thru difficult situations so that she does not lose her son...Gopi survived all of that alone with no support from Ahem & her relationship with her MIL strengthened... Now it is Ahem's turn on what Gopi had gone thru, it is not only DIL responsibility but also a son's responsibility to manage both the women in his life...it is time for Ahem to help his mother understand that even thou he is married she still is important in his life...with Gopi's help he is in a better place than what Gopi was at the start of their marriage...how he handles this situation will determine if he is worth of both the women in his life !!!