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I thought I would never say this. But I really think neither Koki nor Gopi deserve Ahemji in their lives. Until a few weeks ago, all I wanted was for Ahem to realize his mistakes to Gopi. But the way the CVs have decided to take the plot, I think we do not need that. Ahem is getting punished for his deeds by just being Kokila's son and Gopi's husband.
Ahem proved that he is a good son and also a good husband today.
Reasons..
1. He knew his mother was angry. He saw through that anger to see the hurt she was going through.
2. He took up the punishment without a word against it and decided to make his mother happy. As a smart man, he knows that his mother would see the light when she is pacified. TO defy her would be adding fuel to the fire. So he smartly decided to do what she said even though it demeans him.
3. He tried to explain not once but twice but stopped when he found that his mother is nowhere close to listening.
But in all this what I liked the most was that he did not demean Gopi along with him.
1. He did tell her his problem and also accepted sole responsibility for it
2. He told her that he will fix it and he did not want her to take the blame.. He stopped her from feeling guilty.
Now he has proved that he can handle both of them and with only a little more communication he will be able to do a great job..
Now to the ladies.. It is time that both Koki and Gopi pulled up their socks..
It is all well to feel guilty all over for getting her Ahemji in trouble. But Gopi should start to have some sense and get a backbone. I am pretty sure tomorrow's confrontation with Kokila is when Gopi is confessing to her 'crimes'.
Taking responsibility of somehing as a martyr is ok as long as you know that you will not have to repeat the same thing again. If even after this Gopi continues to keep looking into other's problems before fixing her own relations, we can be rest assured that she will never be worthy of Ahem. Her intentions may be pure but it is time she also started thinking about her husband instead of all the time doing her Rashi ben chant. And remember just keeping away from your husband thinking that your MIL will be happy doesn't make you a good wife nor a good DIL.
As for Koki, She really needs to realize that her son will go nowhere. He could not have made it any clearer than this. If she continued being angry then she is not as smart as she thinks she is. She also needs to realize that her anger and her desperate need for success is making her son suffer. She needs to learn to let go.. If she wants Gopi to stop distracting Ahem for family matters, she needs to tell her that directly. Accusing her of taking her son away when she knows her DIL is a simpleton will not get the job done. Loving is not just protecting your loved ones from outsider's hurting them. It is also protecting them from ourselves. Like her son who read her hurt, she needs to see the hurt and humiliation she is piling on him. Tit for tat is not motherly love.
Will these 2 women make these changes to themselves? Very questionable. If Gopi's very innocence and Koki's dominating presence are both turning negative then I am wondering if there is any USP left. By portraying their intial strengths in such a bad light, I think the CVs have now managed to totally reverse the plot and created a mess...
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