Gopi and Koki do not deserve Ahem - Page 2

Originally posted by: varshu27

i dont know what to think anymore...the more we analyse and think the more the cvs treat us as fools...if gopi indeed develops a backbone or even becomes a little smart...she would see she has been used by almost everybody...my fond wish is for her to leave MM and understand the real world and be independent...develop her own identity...ahem now might be friendly with her...but we cant just forget the way he treated her for almost a year of their marriage... and koki after today the less said the better...all 3 need reality checks...hope the cvs have a decent plan for them...but my brain just hurts trying to figure it all out...

Varshu, truthfully I was not analyzing anything.. At the end of the day Ahem still needs to prove his love or by the look of it, fall in love properly. But I think like Gopi had it before, this cannot be a one side job.. Gopi and in this relation Koki also need to do their part..
🤗 A hug for you. Don't feel bad. The serial had a few good months with Gopi and Ahem in peace.. Now it is time to change that a bit and that is what is happening..
@Bold.. I totally agree with. It is long overdue...

Originally posted by: 5cents

Awww Harini 🤗 calm down hun. All this shock treatment for TRP & mark my words they'll get it too😡. Colorful drama always sells.🤢

This is called provocation & drama at its BEST!! Whether we hate it or love it but surely we'll not be able to ignore it🤢. See we are all venting our frustration but not ignoring it. We'll be glued for the drama to unfurled & wait patiently for Ahem ji to redeem himself in Koki's eyes. Story for next 6 months fixed.

This experience what Ahem got from KOki was brutal.It very naturally knocked him down and off course us too😡. But I'm very positive that when Ahem will come out of this guilt & Koki's punishment, he'll be much stronger, and he & Gopi will have a greater understanding and respect for one another😊. I'll wait for the CV's to dish out the drama & then comment & will not predict anything as of now.

Just to make things bit light...Why Ahem got into trouble??

I'm reminded of a old saying: "How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time." The same philosophy holds true for making changes in your life. Trying to bite off more than you can chew will only make you choke. This is exactly what happened to our dear Ahem ji lol😆 tried to be Gopi pati too fast😛 so Mom Koki choked him with her anger😆

Tina.. Thank you ... A 🤗 for you too.. I am really not in a bad mood today..Actually felt nice and happy... Something just popped in mind and I gave words to what my mind was going thro'..😆 Didn't know it sounded emotional.. But thank you so much 🤗
As you say Ahem really will come out wiser after this. Actually I think this is ok. The more brutal Koki behaves now, the more softer she will become after she realizes her error.. 😃
Again totally agree that Ahem too made a mistake in taking up the task so carelessly. He missed all the symptoms and here is the result. 😉

Originally posted by: poshah

Loved to read your take on it..

But I think, every human has some good side and some not so good side. At times the forum ppl are criticising ahem as not being romantic etc and then vice versa.

All the three people have some good and some not so good sides to them, and the key in the relationship is to accept the bad things.

I wont comment on Koki much, but Gopi, yes she is at times too naive or maybe naive always..to the point of being dumb. Agree in real life if someone is like this it is next to impossible to be living a safe and happy life. But for sake of serial, even if Gopi is as naive as she is i mean, she is always ready to help others even if they have left no stone unturned to make her life hell, finally its gopi only who has everything..not Rashi.

Gopi has managed to win over ahem and koki. they do get angry at her for a while, but then they are the two people who will always be there for her. Rashi got the kangans and has been forgiven by others, but the family doesnt care for her as much as they do for Gopi, wonder if Rashi had met with an accident who all would ahve cared and how much they would have cared for her. So yes Gopi's life has been made hell by all the evil people, but she has still managed to win over people and has more or less got the love she deserved.

And on Ahem having to suffer because of gopi's naivity, i think before when gopi was single, she suffered coz of her kindness, and now that Ahem is attached to her, he will many a times have to suffer coz of her so called helping nature..he has to accept or live with it. Just like when he is proud or happy or admiring her wife's goodness, he will have to bear the brunt of it at times.

I think its Gopi's nature and probably cannot be changed. And yes running a house can never be Gopi's forte, she will always be taken for a ride, so she is a nice human being, but if all decisions are left to her, they will have more pain in their life and always suffer, unless she has good hearted people like Hetal around her..Well ppl say, with good people good things happen, so who knows if rashi and urmi arent around, Gopi may have only good people in her life !

Poshah.. Very true.. We all take each other with their goodness as well as their faults. So true that Ahem has to take Gopi as she is.. And that is exactly what he is trying to do. Actually it is her very innocence that has finally made Ahem's heart melt a bit. So no question there..
Even today, I think Ahem took the blame mainly because he knew that Gopi would feel guilty otherwise.
I love Gopi's faith in humans and their innate goodness.. All I wanted to convey by the post was that, it was high time that the CVs take a proper look at the plot and see that they are goofing up by ruining the very thing that this show was so popular for.. Gopi's innocence an Koki's fairness..
By showing that these things are the very reason a most beautiful relation has broken (that of Koki and Ahem and also Koki and Gopi), they are making a mockery of the USP of their own serial.. That is all😆
And @ Bold, I think that is where her dear husband and Saasuma will jump in the future by protecting her against these very evils that surround her.. So no problem there.. 😊

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

harini excellent post... was not posting much today...happily working on my FF...but was waiting for nazma's analysis... but here you are with the excellent title and write-up...

loved the title... these 2 women do not deserve Ahemji...

on the other hand he is more than a perfect (if that phrase exists) son and and the perfect husband lately,...

more than a perfect son:

- never ever seen in fictional or real life a son like Ahemji, who is married, who runs the business successfully, stood there in front of his mom...he just tried to tell her...but did not argue or raise his voice or try to reason with her...

here he just sees his mom's reasoning that helping rashi and ignoring work is the reason for her being hurt ... seeing his mom being hurt by his actions... he took it upon himself as being the reason for his mom's hurt...

- the way he said "mom is very upset with me...because i was not concentrating on work" ...mom has lot of expectations from me... which is true...i have hurt her... when i did the mistake ,,i should be enduring the punishment as well.even when he hurt his hand...he still says... i can't see mom's hurt anymore... please leave me and let me do my work..."

here again it's all about mom...mom..he is hurt for hurting his mom...he is angry upon himself for causing the pain to his mom...he is upset with himself for letting down his mom's expectations..everything for mom...

perfect husband:

in this whole set of dialogues he made sure that RaJi name is not taken...he knows the reason is helping rashi thereby ignoring work...but when when gopi asked why maaji is upset... all he says is i was not concentrating on work...he did let gopi know the reason for not concentrating on work...and when she was about to take the blame he immediately stops her from it..and says mom expectations are more and i have hurt her...

here he did not want to hurt gopi by saying that helping rashi irked mom...he kept it to himself... did not want gopi to feel guilty that because of her insensitive decision...his mom is upset on her son...protecting her from guilt and blame that she would have taken if rashi was mentioned as a reason for the ignition...

taking into account her recent health condition he did not want to see her stressed on all these matters and asked her to leave as he is the one who did mistake so he will be the one going through the punishment.

Mom:

He is your son ...not an investment company asking for returns for your investments...

A mom is supposed to see her child's heart and pain just by looking into the child's eyes...can't you see the pain and hurt in ur son's eyes...

Her insecurities will be revealed more tomorrow ... in the precap she says "Finally u were able to distract Ahem from his lakshya"...Mrs.Kokilaji ...your son and DIL have a relation for themselves as a husband and wife...and they are supposed to influence each other...all through their life...

If all you wanted is a son who should work... then why the hell did u get them married...

i tell u gopi would be better off in urmi's house sleeping on the kitchen floor...

almost more than a year her husband did every mean thing and now when they are trying to get into a relation shouldn't u be happy for them and help them... instead now u r telling off your DIL for distracting your son...great thinking Mrs.Modi...

Wife:

She might be a true saathiya...but her in-sensitiveness is the limit... girl use your husband to work on your relation not on others' relation...knowing your MIL's nature..of how men are supposed to work... u still could influence him with your innocence... i must appreciate your courage and confidence in dragging Ahemji into all this

agree with harini dear... u both don't deserve my Ahemji until u get back to ur senses...

sorry harini for the long ramble😕 couldn't help it🤗barney hug from my side

p.s:Made many posts defending koki...analysing her... but today ... could not do those things sorry koki

Aww Munni.. I am so glad you were able to get this all out.. Here is a 🤗 for you.. Hope you felt better. Don't worry... Things will be alright very soon.. Don't give up on the ladies just yet...
Ahemji is doing a very nice job and he took a year to come here.. The ladies have just now started their journey. They will get there...😃
As for Gopi, I think the poor girl is too sensitive to all around. And so she does all the wrong things at the wrong time.. 😕

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Aww Munni.. I am so glad you were able to get this all out.. Here is a 🤗 for you.. Hope you felt better. Don't worry... Things will be alright very soon.. Don't give up on the ladies just yet...
Ahemji is doing a very nice job and he took a year to come here.. The ladies have just now started their journey. They will get there...😃
As for Gopi, I think the poor girl is too sensitive to all around. And so she does all the wrong things at the wrong time.. 😕

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

@bold is she too sensitive or too insensitive to her surroundings😕

Too sensitive.. That is why she immediately takes every guilt onto herself. Just like she will take the blame tomorrow without actually thinking if it is the right thing to do. To her, if she gets the punishments her Ahemji will be absolved by her Maaji ans both will be happy. She is too naive to see how short sighted this solution is..

I agree that kagdi does not deserve ahem but i still feel ahem does not deserve gopi.

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Too sensitive.. That is why she immediately takes every guilt onto herself. Just like she will take the blame tomorrow without actually thinking if it is the right thing to do. To her, if she gets the punishments her Ahemji will be absolved by her Maaji ans both will be happy. She is too naive to see how short sighted this solution is..

Originally posted by: vibz88

I agree that kagdi does not deserve ahem but i still feel ahem does not deserve gopi.

Ahem Vibz has a lot of proving to do.. No doubt.. This is just the start. But he has started right. This is the only character the CVs have done right till now..
I will say nothing about Koki..😆
As for Gopi, I do not mind her being the Gopi of the past year except that somewhere along the way she has forgotten to be a wife and has become too much of a sister an a niece. Like there is a limit to everything, Like there was a limit to the hate we could take from Ahem, there is a limit to the amount of blindness we can take from Gopi.. That is all..
Too much sweetness is also not good for health especially if you are already a diabetic.. Gopi is already naive so too much of looking out for others will not work out well.. That is all😃

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

i thought her insensitive nature is getting her into trouble,..she cannot sense what troubles she is going to get in when she does a particular event... without thinking sensibly she jumps into helping someone ...she cannot sense the motive of others seeking her help...or the repercussions that follow

Naive and Gullible.. Yup she is too much of both and has blind trust.. On the wrong person all the time. 😆