Gohem Marriage 2010-2012

SNS is being watched by many of us as i think many of us feel its an ideal and out of the way love story in the most dififcult circumstances of a married life and characterized in a practical way. And cvs are not rushing up, they are taking their time and going step by step, and its actually well appreciated by the audience as their this kind of approach makes SNS a cut off from the rest... I have been watching SNS since past 4 months...but i had missed more than a year of SNS...so had a lot to catch up with and have been watching SNS like crazy over the last month and watching it again n again to let it sink in...omg i just felt the pain of gopi as if it was in real...i thought her to be very naive in her dealings but as i watched SNS right from the start i realized that her bringing up is like that...she has lived a very subdued life, very much dependent on others, never got the kind of love she deserved...gopi has commited many mistakes in her married life some intenionally, other unintentional...basically first year of marriage is a combination of love n adjustment for many, for gopi it was hatred and adjustment...she has had a big heart n will power to overlook many things and carried on with her life...while ahem on the other hand abused her for illiteracy n for her blind faith on others...for if she had been smart enough to judge others, she would have not allowed others to at least not hurt her, and many kalakaaris would have been avoided.

Coming to present day situation, i feel that gopi helping rashi in her relation with jigar may put her in more trouble, though i would like some of the kalakaris coming out in the open because of that. This is high time when cvs should make gopi act a lil smart for she has got experience n education now, otherwise the help track would be a put off...i dont want cvs to change the basic character of ahem n gopi...since Ahem has got some sensibility in him now and rashi thinks at least once before doing something, gopi should also use some brains now (not switch on to lying and all that) ...

Now coming to Ahem, i feel he got blinded towards all acts of gopi whether right or wrong since the day he came to know of her illiteracy...and just could not judge anything properly n sensibly...though now he has started behaving with her in a decent manner n doesnt shout at her, at the same time doesnt express any kinda emotions other than his "lost in her eyes" stares... the intense, ready to die for affection n love is missing ...he's just attracted towards gopi n dependent on her for his needs as he has got used to a life with her around him. he's just giving gopi back what he has received from her over the past year - taking care of her. And when he didnt accept her love n made a shell around himself, how can he then give her that much-wanted love all of a sudden...first of all he needs to break that shell and let all her love surrounding that shell sink in him, i mean break his ego n hard to be pleased attitude n then he would be able to love her. His ego has started breaking down n that day it vaporizes in the air, he will see the real Gopi standing in front of him like an Angel brought down on earth...then realization would dawn upon him, of his past demeanour towards gopi n then he would cringe in pain n repentence...no effort and actions of his would be enough to rewrite the past...i want him to feel that pain in literal sense and look back on his deeds...else everything will go for a toss. Gopi should never feel comfortable with his touch and now she should be the one to have that shell aound her. She has passed the test with flying colors...now is his turn...Can he do so? Can he be patient enough to match gopi's perseverance even one bit? That would be more important a thing to watch now!!!!!!

guys i think i didnt bore u...this is quite long i guess, but could not make it shorter than this...

thank you munni...😊

thank you taniks...i am simply bowled over by the concept of SNS...so selfless n pure...and u guys have really made the forum such a success and fun place that i love to be here😊