Does Ahem really start loving Gopi?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Does ahem really start loving Gopi? I don't think so. I guess he started accepting her as a friend, a member of family, and ghar ki bahu. I mean he is impressed by her bravery and selfless behavior. But love is still few meters away.
He still does not move forward in the relationship :(. I don't see any effort from ahem's side to reach Gopi. If the situation comes in, he reacts positively. good news :). but he does not create any situations to show his change in behavior :( . Of course there was the navratri lehenga incident, where we got to see a jealous husband. But that was more to do with his ego than his love. He wanted to show off his beautiful wife wearing his his gift. If it is love that dominates, he would have happily stayed back at home with Gopi and enjoyed her company (when he got to know that gopi is going to stay back with rashi, he was irritated). Ahem was more concerned that he will not be able to show off his wife :(.. ahem come on... fall in love... what are you waiting for?

What do you think guys? am i just being pessimistic?

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gracious45 thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago
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all i can say is that they are married. They both have no choice but to force themselves to love each other. I mean ahem was rude and obnoxious to Gopi from the very first day so what quality did she fall in love with. She was raised to love her husband and that is exactly she had to do. She never though otherwise. Ahem knows for his mother's happiness he has no choice but to love gopi or at least try to make the marriage work. If these two were in normal circumstances they wouldnt look at each other.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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no,i think he has accepted gop's presence and her commitment to the family,but he is never there to protect her from his mum last seen where mim vitually threatened gopi not to speak about rashi,he heard the conversation he was on the stairs.he should have approached his mother to find out the problem and not accept his mums high attitude towards gopi ,also questioned kinjal on food episode.this indicates to me that u always keep my family happy at the expence of your feelings and happiness .is this love?no i dont think so,love is understanding when one feels rejected and monopolised and unappreciated.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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for me he has a feeling for her but love , he will realize when she must be away with him or the confision which nani has create about jigar wife i have seen the last year epd i think he care for her when gopie has taken her vows there was tears in his eyes . he dont know how to express his love .
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I think yes
he started to care for her to show intrest in her studies in her work in how people deal with her ... if not yet then he is gonna love her later but the most important thing is that he no more hates her...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I also think yes, he is starting to realize gopi's soft caring nature.. u can also see love in his eyes, when he was looking at gopis photo..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Ahem is a complex fellow.
I think he has developed feelings for Gopi which are the beginnings of love. The navratri episode, if looked at in its entirety shows this. With the giving if the sari itself he had a lot of tenderness in his expression, then when his mum made the announcement that Gopi would be staying at home he was shocked and upset. His behaviour towards Gopi in the bedroom highlighted his upset feelings. His change when he realised Gopi would be going was instant and he cheered up.
Also the way he looks at Gopi these days a lot more than friendship, although there is the friendship element to their relationship these days.
the most recent scenes especially the photo scene seem to be saying that Ahem is noticing things about his wife and his own feelings for her.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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You know, I never thought of that. Lol. But he does start LIKING her and then I'm sure that should soon lead to LOVE? If that makes sense. I mean there is a huge difference between like and love and I guess at this point he likes her. I guess with the sari thing at navratri, your being a bit harsh on Ahem baby! 😭 I mean he loved the fact that she liked his sari and that he bought her the best one. And, he notices the fact that she isn't even a bad person and it's not her fault they are married under such conditions. She takes such good care of him, so why not fall in love?😳
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i agree with what most of u have said...i dont think ahem is in love with gopi...i think he is kind of used to her being around him and taking care of all his needs...

if he was in love with her he would have gotten some gift for her on their anniversary...during navarathri he managed to order a saree during the night ,i presume,for he saw her folding the lehenga right before bed and the morning he had the sarees deliverd...so he could have done something like that...or at the least he could have wished her in the morning...the whole rashi mess started only after the aarti..


gopi has been toiling away for more that a year making all their life better...yet she has not received love uncondionally from neither ahem nor koki...i guess for now only ahem knows what his feelings are
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Posted: 13 years ago
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yeah, i agree..he is not in love..he is falling in love or had already fallen but not ready to accept it...
,ay be aham is not a type of man who can't really forget one girl and move forward with the next..He may thinking that he needs time..also whatever happened in navrathri was an egoistic husband's deeds..
we would clearly get a picture of his mind's structure in coming days when nani does everything to separate gopi from him or by the revelation of kinjal truth...

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