Ahem should not be forced to love.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I'm really glad Koki has realised her mistake and is helping Ahem and Gopi. But almost everything she is doing is by force. When she wants him to do something she just glares at him. Ahem feels forced to do it. Forcing them together is only going to lead to resentment by both. Ahem has to feel something towards her when doing what he does. Thats why i say they should have a friendship first, but how do you be friends with someone you can't even look at?
I'd love to read your ideas, so please post them.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I agree, he should't be forced to love her

But I think what Koki is trying to do is trying to make Ahem see the value of Gopi in his life. Trying to make him appreciate all that she is, all that she does for him, and all that she could be, if given the chance

Because only once he appreciates her, once he likes her, then they can fall in love

Right now, I think Gopi is infacuated with her husband. She hardly knows him either (obvious from her behaviour). They both need to discover love together

Baby steps for them both.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Ahemholds a grudge against Gopi for no reason - or more aptly, for no fault of hers. Even if she does something good - like helping them get the contract, he will never say a word of good to her. Its apt that Kokila forces him to pay attention to his wife! Had it been a normal case of not being compatible with someone or liking someone fine, and in that case kaangdi wouldnt have fored him either, but here he has already made up his mind and decided to hate gopi...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hey tomonna,

after so long good to see ur post. How are u?
And i agree that yes aham should nt be forced to love gopi bt he has to be forced to 'see Wt gopi is'
as he deliberately ignores gopi n her qualities so koki is just forcing him to 'see' n then he wil love her automatically.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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yes u r right no one cac someone to fall in love with someone.
i dont no how the person like aham will fall in love with gopi
gopi should how to seduce her husband
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Posted: 14 years ago
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What Gopi needs to do is leave the moron alone. When she is away, maybe then he will realize her worth. Kokila is simply wasting her time... If i was Ahem, i would be out of the house altogether
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: -tellyaddict-


Hey tomonna,

after so long good to see ur post. How are u?
And i agree that yes aham should nt be forced to love gopi bt he has to be forced to 'see Wt gopi is'
as he deliberately ignores gopi n her qualities so koki is just forcing him to 'see' n then he wil love her automatically.

I'm ok thanks, i'v been here quietly reading every1s post.
I just think its going to be weird seeing them all lovey dovey, I want to see a likeness between them then slowly ease in to love.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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i agree forcing ahem and gopi to get into relationship doesn't work here.
onething i want to say is koki should leave them alone they are couple they should be the one who should decide .
if ahem is not interested in gopi let go for gopi either she should move out of mm lead her life or live in mm as a daughter since she has no place of her own till she gets basic education and then move out to work and stand on her feet and cut down all the relation with ahem that will be the perfect twist in gopi life.
forcing them or emotionally blackmailing them will lead ahem hating gopi more.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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i think if gopi leaves and only then he will miss her, and realize what all she did for him

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