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Laila Banu

@Laila2009

Rocker

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Posted: 14 years ago

#61

Originally posted by: simran15
@ laila-- I think u have worn out ur welcome.....just don't distrub the serenity of this forum.cya.

You mean, do not change the status quo?

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tellyaddict

@Telly_Addict

Stunner

+ 5

Posted: 14 years ago

#62

@laila..

hvnt read all the posts after page 4 onwards will do it for sure once wake up but for the updated part...

i'll hv to say...

If Aham should no Like Gopi just coz we do.....so he should not stop liking her just coz u dont.

and we are not jumping into the conclusions w/o reading ur posts.....here members are mature enough to to decide what to respond and how to....

and If we like someone then its always a personal choice completely...

and here we all are just trying to prove Gopi is Worth Enough to be liked for.

And same goes in real life.....some people like me some dont so m least bothered abt who dont like me.....as This world never comes to me when I am in problems but this world is always there to point me in my life for the ways i live my life....

so who cares abt them , this is my life and I know how to live it.....who cares abt the So Called World......

and We want Gopi to be same....if all the people around the world like her and few dislike her that should not make her any difference coz its just a character and as i said earlier it all depends on u can relate urself with a character......if one can the Character has everything that one can like abt and if one cant then 1000 things can be raised to Prove dislike.

Thats it....

If for u she JUST cooks and cleans and nothing else then should NOT be liked just for these two qualities then i'll say Just see beyond her cooking and cleaning....she is A Woman Who wants her family to be united, her husband to be happy and she is always ready to keep them United and Happy on the cost of her own happiness, what is lacking in todays modern world..........

Edited by -tellyaddict- - 14 years ago

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Tammie

@saomom

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 14 years ago

#63

Originally posted by: Laila2009
Again your post it one of INTOLERANCE. You want a forum of people who only agree with each other and pat each others back. You cannot see a different opinion. I am sorry, but I do not find your in the slightest bit broad minded or intolerant since you came here and told me to get out as you said that I do not belong here because I brought a different viewpoint here. I am not here to gain your LOVE or acceptance. I am here to give everyone a bit of a JOLT in how to see things.

Why do you not think I cannot see a different opinion? Of course I can see it! I just don't agree with it. Apparently that makes me intolerant. As long as I agree with you I have tolerance? Rubbish! How about seeing things from my point of view?

I never told you to get out. In fact, this is what I said: If you would like to be a part of this SNS family, I will be the first to welcome you. If you come here only to be argumentative, then we would rather you not visit our little part of the world. No one here has a problem with a different opinion. What we do have a problem with is the way that opinion is delivered. Most of us here prefer to be gracious to each other in our differences. While we may not agree, there is an unspoken respect amongst the members.

We have grown up discussions all the time on this forum. People have differing opinions about Aham and Gopi. Some like Rashi and some don't. Heck, we can't even agree if this show is worth watching! And yet, no one throws a tantrum. The opinions are stated and no one feels attacked.

In the real world, adults speak nicely to each other. They know that when there is a differing opinion, you don't start lashing out and tell people they are intolerant because that only makes you appear to be the intolerant one. We discuss - not accuse.

The accusation of my close mindedness baffles me. I came to this forum with nothing in common with any of the members here. I took a leap of faith and came to help myself learn the language and the customs of the Indian people. By my good fortune, I was embraced by the members here when they had absolutely nothing to gain from welcoming me. I would say the people on this forum have been tolerant beyond measure when dealing with me. I have made blunders and mistakes as I have tried to learn and yet I was still welcomed.

I've been on the internet for over 16 years. One thing I have learned is that when you come to a new place, you lurk for a while to get a handle on the feel of the place. You introduce yourself to other people on the forum. You start off slowly and pretty soon you're part of the group. Here on the forum, the GupShup thread is the best place to introduce yourself - and the best place to meet the other members. Please drop by there and meet the other members of the forum. You may find that they are not the intolerant, close minded group of people you seem to think they are.

ps - tellyaddict's name is Sadhli not TD. And for the record, we would appreciate you treat her with a bit more respect. We happen to love her. And yes, in this instance I am talking for the other members of the forum.

pps - please keep in mind that the reality is, we are talking about a TV show. It's not real! Most of us here are hopeless romantics that want to see Gohem together. We know full well that the Aham character is deeply flawed and so is the Gopi character (along with every other member of MM). We simply don't really care. We just want to see them happy together. We know that the CVs have totally screwed up the characterization and we are trying to figure out how they're going to make this right. So to get so riled up is ridiculous. The brutal truth is that it's all pretend. We just choose to spend a bit of time each day in this pretend world - hoping for a bit of romance to blossom between Gohem.

Edited by saomom - 14 years ago

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monalidp

@NotYourType

Voyager

+ 5

Posted: 14 years ago

#64

Originally posted by: Laila2009
Here is the problem I have with this show and the people who are supporting Gopi on this forum. It is assumed that when women are educated and clever or outspoken, that makes them evil, cunning, mean or ugly as humans. While women who are uneducated, submissive and good at cooking or cleaning, that makes them good at cleaning. Sorry, but I disagree. Ahem is not right for bullying Gopi - NEVER supported this action. What is wrong is that Kokila should not have married him to her and vice versa. She was wrong and unfair to BOTH of them.

She cooks and cleans - that is it. That does not make someone qualified to fall in love with. If that was the case, then every man in India would marry their housemaid!!!!!

Yeah...cooking and cleaning are not the qualities for someone to fall in love with...but you are very close to the truth. Men DO want their wives to do cooking, cleaning, laundry, etc.😆 If a girlfriend aspires to be a wife someday, she must demonstrate these essential qualities or she has slim chance to succeed.😕 Gopi has much more to her than cooking and cleaning which you are failing to understand. She deserves to be loved for her goodness of heart not for cooking and cleaning. Also, Aham is not 'required' to fall in love with her. Big Deal. She can get much better person that rude Aham Modi. But I am sure he will do it by his on volition when time comes.

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Rafeal

@Rafeal.

Rocker

Posted: 14 years ago

#65

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Tammie

@saomom

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 14 years ago

#66

@Jake - I was wondering when you were going to show up! Wasn't so good this time, was I? 😳 😆

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Rafeal

@Rafeal.

Rocker

Posted: 14 years ago

#67

Originally posted by: saomom
@Jake - I was wondering when you were going to show up! Wasn't so good this time, was I? 😳 😆

mom, u rok as always.. But i dont want to pollute this "sacred" thread😆
I even removed my shoes n covered my head while posting here.. Upkeeping sanctity..

Edited by Jake-neil - 14 years ago

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tellyaddict

@Telly_Addict

Stunner

+ 5

Posted: 14 years ago

#68

Bro u too rock, loved the emergency cal pic.
I was also waiting 4 u.

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Rafeal

@Rafeal.

Rocker

Posted: 14 years ago

#69

Originally posted by: -tellyaddict-

Bro u too rock, loved the emergency cal pic.

I was also waiting 4 u.

i had an early night, so missed a lot of activity here.. But i'm happy that i stayed away

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Tammie

@saomom

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 14 years ago

#70

Originally posted by: Jake-neil
mom, u rok as always.. But i dont want to pollute this "sacred" thread😆
I even removed my shoes n covered my head while posting here.. Upkeeping sanctity..

🤣 🤣 🤣

ps - is that you in the pic?

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