Anita's Enrty - Positive vs Negative - Page 5

Originally posted by: -tellyaddict-

no doubt I adore him, I can feel his pain, i cant see him in tears coz his character is also going thru the pain n suffering, which makes me crying with him...
and yesterdays epi was one...where I was so sad while seeing him so devastated......for the Love he thinks he lost, but will be happy when he will realize it was not Love just infatuation...

Originally posted by: saomom

Fabulous post Taral and Sadhli.

I don't know how I feel about the whole Anita thing. I'm frustrated. I feel so manipulated by the CVs and it is making me angry. I know that serials have their ups and downs, but this one takes the cake.

It seems as if they don't know where they want to go with this story. Here we sit trying to figure it all out. The sad thing is, we don't know if Aham's going to stay with her or not, or if Gopi will leave or not. While we would all love for them to get together, do any of us know for sure that is going to happen? i mean really for sure. In your gut. I have no clue! What are the CVs trying to portray? The write up about SNS just says something about what girls dream about. It says nothing of the reality of marriage. It's almost like they want to portray that you can be good, live in a nice home and still have absolutely no hope for a nice marriage. Who wants to watch that? I don't watch TV to be depressed. I don't watch TV for reality. I want to watch and be swept away. Not that everything is always happiness and roses, but good heavens, NOTHING has turned out nice for Gopi. Yea, you can say the Dandiya was nice, but now Aham's all about Anita. Gopi heard him talk about her, and then had the flash back of him saying that he loved Anita. So what good did the Dandiya do us? While we drooled over Golden Boy and Gopi had a thrill, it did none of us any good.

I really wanted to go into the weekend thinking positively, but I'm starting not to care. Maybe Aham and Koki deserve Anita. Gopi can marry Ilesh.

Originally posted by: ladydivine

You know what? I have a feeling that since Gopi has been realizing that Ahem hasn't forgotten Anita she will lose all hopes and choose to walk out of his life completely. Its not gonna happen very early. But somehow I think she is the one who will also reject Ahem. So it is possible that Ahem will learn to blame himself for all the bad things he did to these two women. I wonder where this serial is heading to.

Originally posted by: loveanime

you know what i had a thought. my apologies if someone has already posted it.

what if umang is doing all this on anita's instigation. gopi finds out first that umang is going to ditch kinjal and ruin her life. and she knows the only way to stop this is to beg anita to change umang's mind. anita wants aham back by hook or by crook, so she says that she will let umang marry kinjal if she she leaves aham. same old same old same old story where no one will know the big sacrifice of gopi, she will ask for divorce and go away from aham life far away. gopi will break koki heart and trust, rashi will be super happy, aham will count his lucky stars and be happy as well good riddance. then tadaaaaaaaaaaaaaa like what always happens in every soap aham will realize what anita did just before deciding to marry her and ditch her and run after poor, lost and sad gopi somewhere.

Originally posted by: fanbidaai

i am looking at it in this way with Anita coming back kinjals marriage to umang, Gopis departure this is going to be a real challenge for the whole modi household, Gopi will realise that kinjals marriage to umang that means that Aham will be seeing Anita and as she knows that Aham does not love her she will leave and go leaving the door wide open for Anita, this as we know is going to cause confusion and hurt to kokila... as for kinjal she will get her just deserves when she marries urmang. Gopi will come out the real winner away from all of this i would like her to independant and successful

Originally posted by: Caramelxx

What Ahem has for Anita is not called love...it is called lust.

First of all most of us know that ''love conquers all'' if u love someone that bad u would be willing to go thru what ever to be with them no matter what. If Ahem has been with Anita for that long n he can't stand up to his mum for her then, that definitely isn't love.
@bold...Gopi's love will indeed Conquer everything in the end...m sure....

secondly, Ahem would not have speared Anita a second thought if Gopi was as Educated, Modern or Fashionable as anita. That is quite shallow... love isn't always sparkly n in order for it to last u must love the person for whats inside(thier personal qualities)....
@bold....never thought of this POV...thanx for putting it up grace.....
and ur definition of Love is the truth...Love is to love some one what he/she is not for what he/she looks...........

Thirdly if u love someone u will want d best for them n will b willing to sacrifice everything for them ...when Anita saw Ahem on his wedding day she said she hates him n his a liar n a cheat.. this means she would rather have him go against his will n be seprated from his own mother , this is entirely selfish as he will have to give everything up for her. But Gopi on the other hand sacrificed her rights as a wife( took back her vows n stays away from him) just so Ahem can be happy.
@bold....correct,, anita is a selfish gal and would love to have Aham as her only, not even of his mom's, ir-respective of what his happiness is...and Gopi is doing evrything for him only....as u mentioned all Vows things, saving him from snake then hiding her face form him....each n everything action of hers is just keeping Aham's happiness in mind and also to keep Koki happy...

lastly If u think bout it Ahem n Anita r too similar....they r both strong headed n if they did get married, they would have fought all the time n destroyed each other emotionally. Forget what you see in the movies n what they have mistaken love to be, In order for a marriage to work there needs to be a submissive person. Anita definitely doesn't fall into that category.
thats what i belive in..Opposite Makes A Perfect Couple....
One should have the qualities that ur partner does not have but u should respect what qualities ur partner has.....
in this way Gopi-Aham are perfect...
Aham does not have a single bit of Calm, Patience, Understanding that Gopi has.
Gopi does not have Self Confidence, Self Belief, Anger, Attitude, Proud that Aham has.

Sorry for the long text i get carried away sumtimes😊.
i love reading long posts dear...loved it..its superbbbbbbbbbbbbb