Anita's Enrty - Positive vs Negative - Page 4

Originally posted by: upasana.diya

initially she was all nice and befriended Gauri... then both Ipshita and Shiv backstabbed Gauri... this is what i understood as i stopped watching the series regularly once iqbal khan made an exit

Ughh! What a character! No, Anita is not THAT bad i don't think, but anoyying the way she just wouldn't let go till the very endd...

Originally posted by: Mountainbreeze7

First of all, MAYBE Ahem will have a LITTLE bit of brain not to go back to Anita and reunite, which i don't think will happen, but anyways, And IF Anita EVER comes back, then Kokilla will soon find out, and show Anita her place in this world. And anyways, i've seen anita in some epi's and she was at her WORST, i can see where Kokilla was thinking when she went to Anita's house and looked her short dress up and down, ANOTHER thing, COMPLETELY shameless, she would start having to wear sari's in Modi Mansion if she became kokilla's vahu, Which i don't think could EVER happen, and it won't. And she's SO aggressive!! The way she was screaming at Ahem- Cheat, liar ect, and - ''I HATE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!'' and the way she went demented when she heard Ahem say '' I can't marry you'' so she REALLY is NOT marriage material, After ALL this, Ahem has ENOUGH Himut to go and look at her scary face? If i was there i wuld have sat a fire to the picture....😡 rlly disliked tht character...
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saba....u gave a good Description of anita's character loved it....i was not able to put it in words but u did it very well....

Originally posted by: -tellyaddict-

saba....u gave a good Description of anita's character loved it....i was not able to put it in words but u did it very well....

Thank you! 😃 I STILL can't believe ahem is STILL mourning for his lost love.... 😲

Originally posted by: Mountainbreeze7

Thank you! 😃 I STILL can't believe ahem is STILL mourning for his lost love.... 😲

no one can belive it but its the truth of his life....as he is still under the impression that anita is his life so until she comes and make him understand that she is not the same now and he has to forget her.....
and m W8ing for the day when he will get a hard hit from her and will be in front of Gopi on knees, with tears in eyes and folding hands for forgiving him "diya see m also so much rude to him"

Originally posted by: -tellyaddict-

no one can belive it but its the truth of his life....as he is still under the impression that anita is his life so until she comes and make him understand that she is not the same now and he has to forget her.....
and m W8ing for the day when he will get a hard hit from her and will be in front of Gopi on knees, with tears in eyes and folding hands for forgiving him "diya see m also so much rude to him"

Yeah! I would LOVE to see that day when Anita will say ''it's too late now, enjoy your life with your wife, I've lost the love i once had in you'' and then she goes leaving ahem with that shocked music playing in the background, i felt REALLY angry when Ahem asked Umung ''How is Anita?'' i mean, WHAT do u MEAN how is Anita?? And why ask that when Gopi is around?! I'm suprised Umung didn't say anything like: ''What you did was wrong with my sister'' 🤔

Originally posted by: taral83

Ok everyone can hit me for this if they want but I will be honest...lol..😆😉....I really don't want Ahem to wake up and smell reality because of Anita, good or bad. Multiple things can happen and I will explain my opinion.

If Anita has turned into a negative person and hates/insults Ahem: As much as we would like to see Ahem get some spanking, I really would hate for this to happen. Why? Becaue I don't want Ahem to fall in love with Gopi out of pity. Or because he knows that Anita doesn't love him anymore, so if not Anita then Gopi. I don't want that.

If Anita still loves Ahem: Yes this will be harder for Gopi, Ahem, Anita and all us poor viewers. But if her love is true then nothing in this world can separate Ahem and Anita. And Gopi, needs to take a step back. There is no reason to ruin three peoples lives. In a sense, its neithers fault, not Gopi not Ahem not Anita. AT that point it becomes Koki's fault and lets be logical, will Gopi ever be happy with Ahem if he still loves Anita whom loves him back???

What I would like to see :is that Anita still loves Ahem, but only to come to one conclusion that they are not made for each other. That infact the love they thought was true love was only a infatuation. I would like to see Gopi walking out of Ahem life, proving to him that she loves him more then her own life. That she is willing to do anything for his happiness. That she wasn't here for money, luxary or name, but she was here just for him. I wan't Anita and Ahem to realize how different they are. Dating and living with your love is two very different things. I wan't Ahem to realize what he had (Gopi) was what he was looking for all his life. I want him to repent and redeem his actions. I want him to go to Gopi out of his own will. Then and only then will I feel that Ahem knows Gopi's worth, not because of pity, sympathy or a weak moment. But because she deserves it.

@taral.....I also dont Aham to go to Gopi just coz he wont have Anita in life, as then it will be Pity/Sympathy not Love, which Gopi does not deserve for her Unconditional Love.
If Anita still loves him, then I'd love to see Aham having Gopi's FB while being with Anita, which will make the sense that Who is there in his Mind and Heart when Comes the word Love in conversation.
Gopi leaving Aham's life will be a Good move and we are w8ing for that to happen for a very long time period but it dint happen. So may be Anita is coming to make it Happen.

Next thing is....I want Aham to Understand the difference between having
A Hot n Happening Girl Frnd and Having a Sarvgun Sampann Wife
A Sexy GF and Innocent Wife
An Ultra Modern n Loud GF and Simple n Calm Wife
A Literate GF and Understanding Wife
A Demanding Selfish GF and Selfless Always Giver Wife

He should understand that b4 marriage all those qualities which made him to fall for Anita was Enough for being a GF but for A Wife/ A DIL something else is The Criteria which Anita Does not have. And Gopi is the one who made it Perfect Definition of A Wife and DIL.

And being in Love is not just to Party Together or to Share Happy moments together, its some thing much more than that,,,,its like Living Each Others Life, Giving ur own Llife for Other and never demanding anything in Return.

And Anita's presence will make him Understand the Difference between GOPI as WIFE and ANITA as GF............and m hoping his Sleeping Brain will wake up soon.

Originally posted by: ladydivine

CVs didn't give us the chance to see the entire personality of Anita, but my flashback about her says that she was very aggressive type. I am not saying she was argumentative. But Koki did compare her to zaher. And after seeing her in a few episodes I had to agree that Koki was right.

She is the domineering and independent type....at the same time very shameless (our Gopi is the opposite) I called her shameless because Ahem kept telling her that he wanted to break up with her, but she "dared" to enter in his house and that is also during his engagement! Also she turned into a psycho and threatened to kill herself if he didn't listen to her. That explains a lot a lot about her.

So what I am trying to say is that Anita's reentry can be either a curse or good news for us. If she knows the meaning of love then she will stop chasing Ahem. If I were in her place I would have seen Ahem as someone not deserving of my love because this man couldn't even mention my name in front of his mom properly.

And if she rejects Ahem he will get to have a flashback of what he did with Gopi. "Rejection" hurts, but this man didn't get a chance to experience it because he has been the one who was going on rejecting women (first Anita and then Gopi). I want him to feel the pain of being rejected. Only Anita can make it happen.

However, if CVs goes by the old formula where the first lover turns into a vamp (Tumhare Disha plot) then the serial is just going to be a drag.

@ladydivine...
Good comparison by Koki and thnx for mentioning it here..I completely forgot abt what all Koki told her........She is A Zahar no doubt and as Koki said that "Parents cant give it to Kids after knowing that it will be harmful for them" so Koki just saved her Dikra from A Poisonous Anita and gave him A Amrit Called Gopi.
And till now he had Amrit with him and never had chance to compare it with the Poison, that he dint have, not its time for him to See/Observe and Fee the Difference between the two and Which is for his Life and which is Dangerous for him.
If Anita rejects him he will surely feel the pain that he gave to Gopi and Anita too, but if this is to happen I want Gopi to leave the house b4 this so that Aham wont be able to get rid of Pain/Suffering and Guilt for torturing Gopi so soon, he should Search Whole Earth and Universe to get Gopi back and till then he will Die Til til Kar Ke, He will die every moment by feeling the Pain that Gopi went thru due to him.

And if she does not reject him, and will still run behind him seeking his Attention, asking more and more Gifts, showing her Beauty openly and if she does not get it then Behave like A Kid.... then i want him to have Gopi's flash back Always Hiding from him, never looking in his eyes, Hiding her Beauty with in the Pallu, never seeking any attention, never asking for a Gift and being so Calm and Composed even after not getting anything in return.

One more addition, the way Gopi saved him from Snake, it will be a treat to Watch Anita running to save her Life when she is in front of A snake and asking Aham to Help her, wouldn't it be gr8 to See Aham's expressions then.........

Originally posted by: -tellyaddict-

@ladydivine...
Good comparison by Koki and thnx for mentioning it here..I completely forgot abt what all Koki told her........She is A Zahar no doubt and as Koki said that "Parents cant give it to Kids after knowing that it will be harmful for them" so Koki just saved her Dikra from A Poisonous Anita and gave him A Amrit Called Gopi.
And till now he had Amrit with him and never had chance to compare it with the Poison, that he dint have, not its time for him to See/Observe and Fee the Difference between the two and Which is for his Life and which is Dangerous for him.
If Anita rejects him he will surely feel the pain that he gave to Gopi and Anita too, but if this is to happen I want Gopi to leave the house b4 this so that Aham wont be able to get rid of Pain/Suffering and Guilt for torturing Gopi so soon, he should Search Whole Earth and Universe to get Gopi back and till then he will Die Til til Kar Ke, He will die every moment by feeling the Pain that Gopi went thru due to him.

And if she does not reject him, and will still run behind him seeking his Attention, asking more and more Gifts, showing her Beauty openly and if she does not get it then Behave like A Kid.... then i want him to have Gopi's flash back Always Hiding from him, never looking in his eyes, Hiding her Beauty with in the Pallu, never seeking any attention, never asking for a Gift and being so Calm and Composed even after not getting anything in return.

One more addition, the way Gopi saved him from Snake, it will be a treat to Watch Anita running to save her Life when she is in front of A snake and asking Aham to Help her, wouldn't it be gr8 to See Aham's expressions then.........

Wooow ...you took the word right out of my mouth, 😉i bet something BIG will happen that will shock everyone, but mostly Ahem...just waiting for it...🤔

@sADhli.... Ohhh dear... you won't be rude even if he hurt u directly... coz u totally adore him😳

ab maine kya kiya...???

all i wrote was abt how Positive Anita's come back can be..