Is Urvashi really..... - Page 3

Originally posted by: giakabir

come on what????

why did saloni talk about children and toys in front of Tara when she knew that she was in a bad no-child phase!

hey i really dont agree with you i am sooooryyy
becaz before she came at that time also tara was not going to have baby but she was not very very sad like this till urvashi came here and actually at every moment she is making tara realise that she can not have baby so she is actually making tara unhappy and no one else plus she is trying to increase distance between tara and saloni
what do you think guys?

from what i saw Tara walked in while saloni was showing toys to evryone...okkiee in this situation one can either try n hide the toys and say ohhh its nothing at alll and the urvashi like charaters would say 'yeah she will hide the toys casue she deosnt want tara'the bannjh' to see the toys and touch them and put an omen on it or one could have done what saloni did.....show it to tara to ake her feel invloved and not hide and make her more out of place.....

there is no win win situation for anyone except urvashi...and from what i see she is the one who harps and blows the horn of tara being banjh and all.....

Originally posted by: sabiha123

hey i really dont agree with you i am sooooryyy
becaz before she came at that time also tara was not going to have baby but she was not very very sad like this till urvashi came here and actually at every moment she is making tara realise that she can not have baby so she is actually making tara unhappy and no one else plus she is trying to increase distance between tara and saloni
what do you think guys?

No...i do not agree, if u remember, Tara began brooding about not having a baby, long before Urvashi came into the scene. It started when the real truth of Chandni's death came out...when bec. of chandni, Tara fell and lost the baby etc etc. She had started whining abt it since then, its only after Saloni was given too much imp. that Urvashi, sided with her sister, so that she's not left out.

...and if she had not said anything..and stood silently there, like the others..who only nod their head when Saloni says anything....then Tara would be all alone.

alone??? brijesh is one of best hubbys onscreen...he has always beeen there and they both have brought the best in each other....after urvashi's enterance she ven started blaminh brijesh for not having a baby...if this continues even looking at aditis son willl make her cry....urvashi is just bad influence nothing else and i dont see where is saloni given more importance than tara??? just becasue urvashi says it thats why???

Originally posted by: giakabir

alone??? brijesh is one of best hubbys onscreen...he has always beeen there and they both have brought the best in each other....after urvashi's enterance she ven started blaminh brijesh for not having a baby...if this continues even looking at aditis son willl make her cry....urvashi is just bad influence nothing else and i dont see where is saloni given more importance than tara??? just becasue urvashi says it thats why???

brijesh never says anything in front of saloni the great!

you need to see previous episodes when brijesh used to exert his authority on saloni as he considered her to be the culprit for ruining nahars life.....

Originally posted by: mamis

Do u guys think that Urvashi is really bad?

I don't really think she is doing anything wrong. All she does is state the facts.

1. Yes, if Saloni has a baby, she will be put on a pedestal, that's a fact, bec. even w/o a baby she is treated like a queen... and Tara obviously will feel left out, not to mention...when a baby appears

2. She is insisting that Tara have a baby, she never told her that the baby shld be Brijesh's, she cld hv meant adoption too. Its not her fault that Tara does not know anything abt adoption.

3. When she spoke to Kaveri, she mentioned that rift between husbands and wives are usually bec of relatives. She never mentioned any names.

So what i'm saying is that if we pay attn. and keep a positive look, Urvashi is not creating problems like Kaki or Kaveri, its the way others react or behave listening to Urvashi....where is Urvashi's fault in this!

I'm a Saloni-Nahar fan, just wanted to clear that. It's just that when i look at Urvashi's character, i always think, that however a person maybe, its how we react to it, is what matters. Tara is totally wrong in behaving the way she is, she could easily be how she always was, and adopt a kid, be happy, and nobody would be able to brain wash her.

So far...Urvashi has done nothing wrong, not sure about the future.

I would describe Urvashi as a grey character. She's the female version of Iago from Shakespeare's Othello. She knows people's weak points and uses them to her advantage. I would say that she is extremely shrewd and manipulative. For example:

She knows that Tara's weak point is that she can't have kids and keeps using words like Baanjh to remind her of her inability to bear children. Tara was not like this before Urvashi came but her personality has changed after Urvashi has started instigating her and taunting her by calling her Baanjh (in yesterday's epi)

Tara was not even jealous of Saloni's position in the house, but now Urvashi has put things into her head. Agreed she spoke the truth, but some truths are better not spoken. She is again using the fact that Saloni is liked by all members of the family to her advantage by trying to create a rift between Tara and Saloni.

Again with Kaveri, she knows Kaveri has never liked Saloni and was just trying to test waters by commenting that relatives are often the cause of rifts between a couple, thereby hinting at Saloni. She basically wanted to test her reaction.Kaveri took the hint but did not bite the bait saying that Saloni di is really nice.

What I'm saying here is that Urvashi presses people's weak points and changes her tracks according to their reaction. She is like Iago in that respect. And because of this, she is evil!

well kartikeyaa I couldnt have put it better myself....

and tara doesnt need any saving from anyone....these people are her family they will never do anything to hurt her ever....its urvashi she needs saving from and from where i look at thinngs...if urvashi couldnt take care of her own family then she is not the best person to advice on relationships ......