The craze for a child , especially when one cannot have it , is something that is pathetic and heart wrenching . This craze is mostly felt by barren women or women who cannot have children due to accident etc .........more than men who cannot have children . Women often feel incomplete if they dont experience motherhood physically . Their essence of feminity gets a jolt and it has to be remembered and understood here that they r never the same after experiencing this pain . Tara's character is one such sad character .
In this sense , is it fair to blame her for what ensued later ? All she wanted was a child , a biological child with atleast Brijesh's blood in it . The argument can be made here that cudnt she have adopted like Saloni did ? Why this surrogate mom stuff ? To this , i can only say that Tara 's insistence on the biological link to the child is a very very common one , felt by thousands of women over the world . Whereas Saloni's strength of mind in adopting a non biological child is not so common and requires great breadth of mind and strength too . But then , Saloni has always been uncommon and Tara , a common woman .
So is it right to say all happened coz of Tara;s adamant demand of her own child ? Jiji did wat she did coz she is an evil person . With this logic , isnt Saloni to be blamed for all the havoc that Kaveri has unleashed as she always shielded Kaveri from Samar and even made him take her back after he had thrown her out of the house during that great fraud of Nikita as her baby ? Is kaveri any lesser than Jiji ? She mentally destroys people and doesnt even spare children like Nikita . She , who cold bloodedly threw Nikita in an orphanage to get rid of her , involved Ambika in a poisoning case and endangered lives of children , helped a criminal like Jiji to escape , has flourished and gone unscathed largely due to Saloni's silence . But just as Tara never thought that jIji wud go to this extent , neither did Saloni calculate this about Kaveri .
And with this same logic isnt Saloni responsible for wat Kalika did to the family ? For it was she who plonked Kalika on her maayka and then sasural in her exasperating role of the perpetual do gooder . Infact , at one point I had given a post ' Why blame Tara ?' talking about this but at that point not one person agreed with me .😆
Also, remember how crazy our sensible Saloni had herself become when she lost her child while running to save Advitiya . She latched herself crazily to Advitiya to the point that she was seeing Advitya everywhere .....in food , water , bedroom ! If craze for a child can drive a Saloni to this point , then can one really blame Tara for her maternal drive ?
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