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Well it is practically impossible to keep personal life and professional
life separate especially in show bizz but I find it unethical to drag their
personal issues like this without knowing complete truth .Media people doit .... well they have commercial reasons , but why
should we ????
I don't know what is more wrong .......... saying some thing bad or
practically doing some thing wrong?????
Casting couch is common term ....... but nobody like to talk about it [/
P]I guess we can condemn some one who openly say something . but
what about the reality .......what is more humiliating ????
Well here is the other aspect of this personal-life/professional. We may
say an MD shouldn't have had an affair with his singer, or that a musician
should not have divorced his wife or drunk etc.. but it is quite possible
that their creative impulse is driven by the same things that drive their
behaviour. Their life-experiences - their weaknesses, their bitterness and
so on, can be the actual source of their creations.
Hence, we end up in a bit of difficult position of appreciating someone's
art and criticizing its inspiration.
I agree with Dawn about being judgmental... perhaps what OPN or Asha -
(couldn't Asha-ji be criticised as a divorcee who romanced her bosses?? I
mean a mean-spirited person could say that was how she climbed the
ladder no? PLEASE NOTE, that I DO NOT say that)- do is not what we
would ourselves do in personal life... but then most of us are not OPN or
Asha, for that matter... most of us don't make the level of contribution
they have either.
In judging a human being, let us look at both sides of the scale...