For Every Member-Especially those leaving - Page 2

Just because they have been accused of bias should not make them leave - i have been accused of it time & time again & I too was going to leave in January but decided not to - after all, why let those people win???

I have spoken to both srianne & zahida & Varshaji & all have been such great members in this section....

Please wapas aajao 😭

Originally posted by: CLS2U

You don't have to agree with me, bottom line is Zahida has finally agreed to what I was telling her all along. She has spoken highly of some people in this forum and that includes you. I am glad she had some positive experience from some members in this forum. I am sure she will be around as silent observer. Anyway, I honestly don't think its worth going on and on. She has made the decision and I agree with her decision, wise choice.

Karim, if I am not mistaken, you are Zahida's husband. I respect you for being supportive of her. I have personally enjoyed Zahida's posts over the months and wish her the best in future.

arre chukkna... tu abhi rukh naa?? 😆

Heartss... one thing... don't confuse the action with the person. None of us know what is in the heart of the person who does something that turns out to be hurtful.. I am only speaking about how I think it would feel, not about the intention behind that act. And even less about the person. I don't want anyone to leave...

Hi this is Vijay (Mr. Petlover).

After what I have seen my wife go thru for last 4 months and specially in last 4 days I have forbidden her from coming on forum. She has not only spend her precious time but opened her heart to many members on this forum like her own family members. She has told me that only few female friends have stood up for her and not even single male species have guts to support these women. Not they need any man's support. They definately can take care of them selves.

I myself being on several forums and with that experience I had warned her that forum is not for the people like her because of her open hearted and loving self.

As far as I am concerned I do not want her to hurt by some baseless remarks or bashing or attacks. What has totally crashed her is the comments made on our god which she won't be able take, forget or forgive. It went by most of the members unnoticed because they don't understand sanskrit or some words. But my wife does. Let me give you this example and you decide for your self should she even come back to a forum where her and Srianne's religion, zahida's religion has been insulted. This mess has been started by some respected forum members and now it has come down to this. How low are some forum members going to stoop down??

http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=218576&T PN=1 4


hari aum hari aum hari aum hari hari
aum namoha shivaya namaha
hare ramaa hare krishna
krishna krishna hare hare
shiva shiva shiva shivamboo samarpa yami

If anyone does not know "Shivambhu" means Piss (Urine). Shanti bai is pissing on our 3 beloved gods Rama, Krishna and Shiva. Enough is enough.

I would like to thank my wife's friends Srianne, Zahida, Nonny, shesthebest, tellus and other women who have supported her in this last 4 days. She has tried to do the same for others.

Sangeetaji,

I agree with what you have posted above. Thank you for supporting these women. Hopefully forum will be a better place for the others but not for my dear wife. I support her completely and whole heartedly.

Thank you for reading my post.

PS: Now if any one wants to debate or bash. Go ahead and make my day!!!!

Let me first know who is leaving? I dont see any one leaving? Can some one provide the list? Are we sure they have not change their ID?

Dear Vijay-ji - I never realized about that verse. Did not understand it at all at the time. Thank you for explaining this, now it makes more sense. And I can understand why Varsha-ji feels the way she feels. Honestly, I do not understand why anyone would want to stay when such an atmosphere is created. There is a limit to everything.

Now I can only say to those who are departing this forum: I respect your decision. Wish you all the best. Be happy, be merry and if you get a chance, stay in touch.

My email is: sangeetaa_sify@sify.com

chukkna-ji jab tak yahan ka maholl aise rahega, lagta hai log rukh na nahin chahenge. Abh hum sab is jagah ko gaane aur hasi se sajayen, to shayed yeh log vaapas aajayenge.

qwerty-ji: WhenI do something that he's disappointed with, my dad uses this line on me that really devastates me... I'm gonna say it here... i'm not pissed off at the people concerned who said these things (I don't really care to take names even)..
I'm not mad at them, I'm SAD at them...

Sangeetaa<---turns on mike and taps to check volume

Dear Shantibai: It appears you have something to say about me, though not to me. Let me assure you that even if I were ever inebriated, I would have the courage and decency to address you directly if I have something to say to you.

Here it is, if you can digest it: People don't feel betrayed by people they don't care about or like or in some way admire.
Chew on that between your Vitriol and Caustic.

Peace and Love to you... 😳

Here is a truism, if there ever was one:

Words can only make sense to a discerning intelligence.

Shantibai: Thank you for having the grace to address me directly with your concerns.

You suddenly seem very sensitive to abuse. That's a good sign. However, perhaps you could alleviate my befuddlement by pointing out exactly where I hurled abuse at anyone.

You see some of us feel the need to acknowledge our errors in order to correct them. So, if you would do me that favor, it would be most appreciated.

And my dear friend, peace, love, admiration, vitriol, caustic - they are all equally wasted upon me...

Here's more peace and love anyway - if you don't want it just put it back in the ether marked "Return to Sender - Address Unknown". 😃