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It was not a pleasant experience. But thanks to my mom I didn't under estimate him coz I noticed when I used to get mad at him he got bolder! It took a year but in the end it stopped coz I didn't feel the need to create a scene or humiliate him. I thought about it, coz as any 19 yr old I thought I could teach him a lesson. My mom solved my problem without really stepping in. I rose to the occasion and became a bette and sensible person. When I turned 21, I got a rishta from New Zealand and guess who it was! The same guy, that was the first time I realized that he really did love me. We talked like civilized adults and I gently let him down. He understood and said he loved the fact I didn't make a spectacle of him when he was busy harassing me. We wished each other well and parted ways! Now tell me, if I had taken Sanchi's route, what would I have accomplished? Nothing, I would have provoked him to cause me harm and he would never have apologized! That's my personal experience! My mom gave me good advice and hope if I ever have adaughter, I could pass this on to her. Please do reply and let me know what you all thought!
Anupamaa
Iss Pyaar Ko Kya Naam Doon
