DIRA (FF) : HUME TUMSE PYAR KITNA..UPDATE 13 on PG 39 - Page 3

Originally posted by: nancy505

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If someone falls in love and marries a girl at 21 he will not fell ashamed of his decision . And Ratans marriage was more like arrange marriage. Ratan married Diya at 9 age and now he is 21 and was not in touch with Diya for 12 years . In this scenario if he walks in to a club and see there is a girl but can not buy a drink to that girl because he remembers he is married and if he feels ashamed of his position, I don't blame him at all.

Originally posted by: VARUNI2014

yes but ratan marriage is not a normal child marriage to feel ashamed

his parents died and his life at stake ..so it was a much needed marriage ..i dont think even his true friends if known the circumstances will ridicule him for his mariage and those who r not his true friends he need not care for their remarks.

Originally posted by: nancy505

Vijaya chill!

When I am saying "he should feel ashamed" is my POV in Ratan's position. See, the thing is Arulya wrote the story, you read that and I also read that. You are thinking that Ratan should not feel ashamed of his marriage but I am thinking that Ratan should feel ashamed.

I know saying that "Ratan feeling ashamed of his marriage" seems harsh to listen but thats what I would had felt if I were in Ratan's position. It is not necessary that the Arulya's fictional Ratan would think like that. Her ratan can be different. If I had wrote the same story I would have shown "ashamed Ratan" instead of "sensible Ratan". Here you can say "Nancy your thinking is very wrong". yes, I know this type of thinking can seem wrong to you, but what to do, I am that kind of weird person 😃.

Again Ratan's backstory actually plays a big role here, His friends doesn't know it ,thats why they are mocking at him. Still in this age when friends or even a stranger or your enemy mocks at you , you do feel ashamed even if there is no valid reason to feel. Vijaya I am not "that" level strong enough that someone would mock at me and I would say "it doesn't matter ", at the end of the day it matters to all 20's people ( on an average). They want to show off that "I am cool". I have also seen many people at these age whom actually "doesn't gives a s*** to anyone" and sticks to their own thinking, they are actually very matured than their age.

Originally posted by: arulya

Gals, badi lambi discussions chal rahi hain, Ratan babu ke upar..😃😃😃

Bechaare Grown up Ratan ne to abhi tak dialogue bhi nahin bola... 😲😲

But m liking that u guys r expressing ur views😆😆😆..Healthy discussion is always good...

There are two points of views for every situation... and it depends on us, which opinion or which way we choose..

Lets see which direction, this DIRA story will head to...😊

Originally posted by: arulya

Gals, badi lambi discussions chal rahi hain, Ratan babu ke upar..😃😃😃

Bechaare Grown up Ratan ne to abhi tak dialogue bhi nahin bola... 😲😲

But m liking that u guys r expressing ur views😆😆😆..Healthy discussion is always good...

There are two points of views for every situation... and it depends on us, which opinion or which way we choose..

Lets see which direction, this DIRA story will head to...😊

Originally posted by: nancy505

Yahi toh kash bat hai is forum ki ,hum choti badi sab chiz main bohot jada discuss karte hai. 😃Agar bat Ratan ya phir Rohit pe aa jaye tab to koi bat hi nahi 😆

Originally posted by: plmzaq

Superb story

Love it

Continue soon

Originally posted by: arulya

Yes u r right, nancy... This is the speciality of our forum..👏👏👏

And, Rohit/ Ratan to humaraa ladlaa hai😳 to itni discussions hona to laazmi hai..😆

Originally posted by: arulya

Yes u r right, nancy... This is the speciality of our forum..👏👏👏

And, Rohit/ Ratan to humaraa ladlaa hai😳 to itni discussions hona to laazmi hai..😆