Not cool Ananya

Yesterday I made a post saying that Ananya's anger was justified. I still feel that.

Even I was angry about that. yes she is angry but let's draw the line somewhere, shall we? it was sadistic and below the belt considering the damage shreya did to his life. there was no need to bring shreya into the conversation. How can she think kabir is such a scum? really I hope she realizes what she said in anger and feels bad about it afterwards.

Exactly...this was hitting below the belt Ananya...a low blow...that too at Kabir Sharma who was once your hero...whom you love the most...but yes we can understand in your anger we don't know what all we think and blurt out but regret it later...but sadly the regret part will not be shown...I was pained to see Kabir agonised...surely Kabir loves Ananya more than she loves him...else a person like Kabir Sharma wouldn't have spared someone talking to him this way but he was just quitely going through this pain within and does not even have someone to hear him out

I just wrote a reply to another post on this topic, so pasting it here:

Oh how she is going to regret it...I don't want kabir to give any explanation now..let the lady find on her own..she .by bringing money ..Shreya ..and questioning his integrity has hurt him beyond repair...now she should repent..whatever said and done..atleast she knows the man..his beliefs...and not giving him chance to listen him out ...and calling him names...I am sorry...I want her to find out truth hard way on her own

Yesterday Ananya just crossed the line. Girl, you can be angry with him for not disclosing the truth to you but it was so unlike the Ananya we know to accuse him of selling the proofs to acquire a posh new house before his marriage with Shreya. Not that she does not know about his past. Not that she does not know how much Kabir is affected because of Shreya. I am sorry to say but such a one-sided relationship has absolutely no future. Kabir cannot be always giving. Yes, he made a huge mistake and lets even call it a blunder. IMHO, he should have told Ananya whatever happened with SK either when he first told her or before they confessed to each other or probably even on that night when he told her all about his past. But then he is not done yet. Every statement has a reference to the context and Ananya was obligated to listen to the complete story before passing a judgement. So far, in this relationship, Kabir has been more mature, more understanding, more giving, always ready to prove himself over and over again and never feeling bad at the insults hurled at him, be it Anita or Ananya. He always apologizes to them even when the fault is not his. Even when his past came up, Anita accused him without knowing that it was her daughter who was not interested in his past, that man was ready to disclose on day 1. And today Ananya just broke the proverbial last straw. By bringing up his past, she just blundered big time. Whether she realizes and apologizes is a different story altogether. If I had been in Kabir's place, I would thought to myself, is she going to bring up Shreya everytime we have a fight and that was out of character for Ananya. That Ananya who fought with Kabir to hear out Nidhi Rane, who pushed Kabir to prove himself in the Dr. Sinha case, that Ananya who so wanted to protect Mahi Malhotra and that Ananya who was not even ready to think Baby could be a terrorist.

I just hope the CVs show a real logical end to this MU track. Ananya should be shown repenting on her statements to Kabir. She should be shown apologizing. Anita should be shown apologizing to her daughter for not guiding her properly in her most vulnerable state. I know we don't have time to do all that. I just hope Kabir starts ignoring her and continuing with his investigation with or without Ronnie.

Arrey Bhai shant ho jao. Ananya is only lashing out becoz she's in so much of pain and bewilderment right now. Aur yeh to haq wali jhad hain, ki tumne mera vishwas kaise toda. I have no doubt that these 2 will triumph against all odds to be together, look at how much they love each other. Aur love mein lashing, screaming, gussa sab allowed hain. Let her cool down and she will understand Kabir. He has made a blunder and thodi grovelling to Usse karni padegi. But let's not be like Ananya, lash out at our favourite heroine and forget all times she has supported Her man blindly, takes a lot to accept such a past. Aur Ananya to Usse chodne wali hain nahin, aur Kabir uske bina rahega nahin, to soch lenge kuch dono. Hum bas Unki yeh roller coaster ride enjoy karte hain.

I agree with most views here

Originally posted by: LizzieBennett

I just wrote a reply to another post on this topic, so pasting it here:

I could relate to her pain and anger yesterday, but today I was shocked at the accusations she hurled at Kabir without even an iota of proof. This is the same girl who thought the world of Kabir, would stand by him against the whole world, even against her mom, but now she's unwilling to even hear him out and assumes the worst of him? How could she believe that the man she loves and was about to marry would be such a cad? Did all her love and admiration for the man only hinge on that one factor..of him being her dad's supporter?

They showed us flashback scenes of Ananya thinking back to the bomb incident and that only brought her more pain and anger? She didn't melt at the courage and determination of the man to save her or die with her?

I know trust once broken is very hard to rebuild, and this was a truth that affected Ananyya very deeply, but all I'm saying is he should be given a chance to speak up and present his side. I'm not even saying that she should forgive him! Make him suffer, fine..but at least hear him out! What if it had been Armaan who had done something wrong? Wouldn't Ananya have given him a chance however hurt and angry she may have been? Why can't we expect her to do the same for Kabir?

To add:

I can't help but feel that Ananya's love for Kabir is tinged partly by hero-worship, partly by infatuation, and partly by physical attraction. His love for her seems more evolved and on a higher plane than hers for him. I don't know how much of her love hinges on the fact that Kabir supported her dad when everyone else turned against him. It certainly seems to have started that way. The admiration, the respect, the fangirling, the stubborn refusal to hear anything wrong about him...all this speaks of extreme hero worship. Thus, the placing on the pedestal and saying things like "you're perfect" without realizing the pressure she's putting him under or the inadvertent projection of her own desires of what she wants him to be, on him. Thus when he fell from her eyes, he fell badly.

Does Ananya really love Kabir, the flawed, imperfect man or does she love the idea of the perfect man that she has of him? I really can't answer that.

Originally posted by: ...Lata...

Exactly...this was hitting below the belt Ananya...a low blow...that too at Kabir Sharma who was once your hero...whom you love the most...but yes we can understand in your anger we don't know what all we think and blurt out but regret it later...but sadly the regret part will not be shown...I was pained to see Kabir agonised...surely Kabir loves Ananya more than she loves him...else a person like Kabir Sharma wouldn't have spared someone talking to him this way but he was just quitely going through this pain within and does not even have someone to hear him out