Should Kabir have not entered into a relationship with Ananya?

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Sanchari

@BedouinMe

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Posted: 9 years ago

Why so ? I mean, I am really not getting a valid point. Did he murder Mr. Kashyap ? Sell his truth ? Become a part of the conspiracy ? He was the only person who cared about his truth. The only person who handed over the goons to the police. Did all that he could do to bring justice to him and stepped back only when his nephew was in danger ! Later, all he did was to try and save his daughter from going his way ! So, why should it hurt his conscience to be with his daughter?

Still, I think we had much turmoil from his side before he finally confessed to Ananya about his feelings ! The reasons for that are best known to him.

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Lizzie

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Posted: 9 years ago

I think its a conflict of interest. A relationship works only if there is complete honesty from both sides. I'm telling you this from my own experiences. Its better to come clean right at the beginning than to face the consequences of hiding the truth later when shit hits the fan.

He told Ananya about his ONS..he was honest about that. But it had no real relevance to her.

He kept the truth about her dad from her, in fact, lied to her about his death. That's a deal-breaker for me. He may not have murdered SK or sold the truth or played a part in any conspiracy against him. But he still kept the truth from the person who's to become his life-partner. Whether or not he did any wrong isn't important. What's important is that she was unaware of the truth of her father's death, something that she has been relentlessly pursuing all her life. When Ananya accepted her father's suicide as the truth from Kabir, he should've backed away despite his feelings for her. I can understand him not telling her the truth for the sake of protecting her and her family, but not why he got into a relationship with her despite all that he knew. For all he knew, he might be endangering her by that too! Did he think the pharma company biggies wouldn't notice that the daughter of their fall-guy was dating the whistle-blower in their scam?

He couldn't help clear SKs name...it wasn't in his control. He couldn't tell Ananya the truth...he was too scared to. The only thing that was in his control was to put a brake on the relationship, knowing that he will have to keep on lying to Ananya.

And from a storytelling viewpoint it would make more sense..Kabir holding back from his feelings, Ananya being hurt and puzzled, and the story would have the required element of angst too! Guess this just proves the CVs didn't think this through and introduced this as just a sensational twist in a bid to increase TRPs or whatever.

Edited by LizzieBennett - 9 years ago

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Moner_Radio

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Posted: 9 years ago

ever watched the movie Ek Tha Tiger? there was a dialogue in the last scene, " jab pyaar ho raha tha tab pata nahi tha ki yeh meri dushman hai, aur ab jab pyaar ho gaya hai toh samajh mein nahi aa raha hai ki dusmani kis baat ki "

i think the same had happened with Kabir too. he was attracted to Ananya since the beginning for various reasons, but then he didnt know her identity as SKs daughter. and by the time he discovered the article in her locket during the Baghi episodes, he had already fallen for her subconsiously. although it took time for him to come to terms with his feelings , but thats a different issue. i dont think that it made any difference to him any more once he realized that he had lost his heart to her.

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Lekz

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Posted: 9 years ago

Sadly I am unable to connect to Ananya and Anita's reactions.

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Lizzie

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: Moner_Radio
ever watched the movie Ek Tha Tiger? there was a dialogue in the last scene, " jab pyaar ho raha tha tab pata nahi tha ki yeh meri dushman hai, aur ab jab pyaar ho gaya hai toh samajh mein nahi aa raha hai ki dusmani kis baat ki "

i think the same had happened with Kabir too. he was attracted to Ananya since the beginning for various reasons, but then he didnt know her identity as SKs daughter. and by the time he discovered the article in her locket during the Baghi episodes, he had already fallen for her subconsiously. although it took time for him to come to terms with his feelings , but thats a different issue. i dont think that it made any difference to him any more once he realized that he had lost his heart to her.

I assume this is in response to my post. 😊

I'm not calling Kabir out for falling for Ananya despite knowing who she was. I agree he couldn't control his feelings and was far too gone with his heart by the time he realized. What he could have done was held back from telling her he loved her. That is all.

I'm not against flawed, fallible leads. In fact, I love them. But in all the shows I've watched, the protagonists, however flawed they are, abide by a certain code. And usually that code remains consistent no matter the circumstances. In real life too, we all are forced to behave in a way that goes against our moral code or fundamental core, but when presented with a situation that we can be in control of, I don't think we'd stray far away from it. That's what makes us root for the protagonist in the first place, else he/she'd not be the protagonist!

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Sanchari

@BedouinMe

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: LizzieBennett

i assume this is in response to my post. 😊
I'm not calling Kabir out for falling for Ananya despite knowing who she was. I agree he couldn't control his feelings and was far too gone with his heart by the time he realized. What he could have done was held back from telling her he loved her. That is all.

This is where I am not getting it ! My fault ! I mean, I thought he could be a bit selfish to want some happiness for himself and her as well ! But, may be I am wrong here.

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Danseuse

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Posted: 9 years ago

I was disappointed with tonight's episode. Same old story. 😕 So Kabir lied and compromised too, to save his nephew. The script has gone completely awry. The man who met his lady love during a sting operation and was amazed at her dare-devilry, could not confess the truth to her about her father???? 😲 😲 It took him all of two minutes to tell Lakshman the truth and having revealed all to Tarini, what kept Kabir from telling the truth to Ananya? Only her safety? 😕

The story was too lame, today. Not at all impressed! Found it difficult to digest. And now, he is going to go all out to find the truth himself, is he?? Has he got a copy of the CD of Mr Kashyap's conversation tucked away somewhere?? So, won't the same goons ruin Ananya today? Or have they since retired? 🤣 Eight years, right? Or has Kabir become macho enough to protect her from all and sundry!?? 🤣

Ananya means the world to him and he had absolutely no intention to ever tell her the truth about her father! He considers this his pure bad luck and destiny where he finds himself in this mess. What do I make of Kabir's character? 😲 Is he trustworthy? Has Ananya made the right choice? I don't think so.

-Rekha

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Lizzie

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: BedouinMe

This is where I am not getting it ! My fault ! I mean, I thought he could be a bit selfish to want some happiness for himself and her as well ! But, may be I am wrong here.

Sure. He can seek all the happiness he wants. Is he certain he's going to have it after hiding such a big truth from his GF? Its like I pointed out, even in the Kabir-Taarini relationship..is it possible for them to have a healthy friendship, with Kabir feeling the burden of guilt and Taarini feeling the way she felt about Kabir?

Its similar, the burden of lies always would play upon him. Eventually relationships break even due to small untruths. And this was a biggie. Kabir is too evolved and mature a character to not have realized or even thought about how this would impact them once Ananya knew. It isn't fair to her and it isn't fair to him either ..to take the relationship this far and have it break. Isn't it better to not get into it at all? Then again, I maybe wrong, this is just my POV, no offence 😳

Edited by LizzieBennett - 9 years ago

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Sanchari

@BedouinMe

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: LizzieBennett

Sure. He can seek all the happiness he wants. Is he certain he's going to have it after hiding such a big truth from his GF? Its like I pointed out, even in the Kabir-Taarini relationship..is it possible for them to have a healthy friendship, with Kabir feeling the burden of guilt and Taarini feeling the way she felt about Kabir?
Its similar, the burden of lies always would play upon him. Eventually relationships break even due to small untruths. And this was a biggie. Kabir is too evolved and mature a character to not have realized or even thought about how this would impact them once Ananya knew. It isn't fair to her and it isn't fair to him either ..to take the relationship this far and have it break. Isn't it better to not get into it at all? Then again, I maybe wrong, this is just my POV, no offence 😳

Yes! Here you are right ! And may be that is why reality struck him just before the engagement ! He was actually anticipating this kind of a reaction from Ananya once the truth comes out ! Actually, things did happen in a haste ! They hadnt planned to get engaged all on a sudden ! It happened out of the blues and Kabir had to succumb to the pressure to keep Anita's trust in their relationship ! And the end of the day, there's no denial that he has made a big mistake, so may be this is how they will learn !

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Sanchari

@BedouinMe

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Originally posted by: Danseuse

I was disappointed with tonight's episode. Same old story. 😕 So Kabir lied and compromised too, to save his nephew. The script has gone completely awry. The man who met his lady love during a sting operation and was amazed at her dare-devilry, could not confess the truth to her about her father???? 😲 😲 It took him all of two minutes to tell Lakshman the truth and having revealed all to Tarini, what kept Kabir from telling the truth to Ananya? Only her safety? 😕

The story was too lame, today. Not at all impressed! Found it difficult to digest. And now, he is going to go all out to find the truth himself, is he?? Has he got a copy of the CD of Mr Kashyap's conversation tucked away somewhere?? So, won't the same goons ruin Ananya today? Or have they since retired? 🤣 Eight years, right? Or has Kabir become macho enough to protect her from all and sundry!?? 🤣

-Rekha

Hum mil hi jaate hain, you see ! Well I was not disappointed bcoz I was expecting nothing more out of this ! Hope you remember my speculation and your advice ! 😉 And as far as the investigations are concerned, I guess, they will have to start things afresh ! And NOW Kabir would have to do it, bcoz its inevitable. Whether he tries to investigate or not, Ananya would be in danger in either cases ! Isnt it ?

Do I sound like a Kabirite ?

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