Simple relations get complicated ...
When you dont give a chance to understand!!
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Few episodes back Kabir had said, "Rishte utne uljhe huye nahi hote, jitna hum unhe bana dete hai"...& guess it now holds for Kabir Ananya...& both have unanimously decided dat instead of sorting out things together that they gonna make things more complicated than they already are...😆😆😆 ...I dont think they need a third person to complicate things for them 😆
they think why to have simple relationship...aao milkar complicate karte hai 😆😆😆😆why to have a simple smooth love story 😆😆😆
Neither of them want to listen to whole sentence of what other one wants to say...not put in effort to understand the deeper aspect & make own assumption...only to later realise they have been wrong & just regret...& feel guilty...
--Like Kabir, he didn't think twice before comparing Ananya with ambitious GFs & spouses...end result Madam Ananya sulks, sulks & just sulks...not giving poor boy a chance to talk & clear his point...
--Same goes for Ananya, when did on earth Kabir said, he feels her undeserving or incapable of promotion...but Madam made her own assumption...Kabir just wanted to think over the matter from his point of view...what he feels...why he doubts Shreya's actions...but again she doesn't want to listen...
Kabir summed it up better in his jaane se pehle...
"Kuch baatein samajhna asaan hai...Mushkil unhe samjhana hota hai..." poor boy having tough time making Ananya understand things from his perspective 😆
If understanding someone is difficult...making someone Understand is all the more difficult...😆😆😆& Its human nature when things gets messy...sometimes our overactive brain just makes it more messier...😆😆 when we don't try to look into things deep & just be impulsive & unreasonable to understand things what other person is trying to say...
I'm not being biased towards Kabir, but I think the current situation Kabir-Ananya are in, both are equally responsible...😆 dono ne ek dusre ki baat sun ni nahi hai...na hi samjhni hai... 😆😆😆 though when alone & they ponder over, they do understand each other's point of view very well...but when it comes face to face they just have to mess up things 😆😆😆
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If in his stressed condition Kabir doesn't realize what he says & what he does hurts Ananya...she too is no less, takes every comment on heart & doesn't make an effort to understand if Kabir has said something, why he has said it...😕😕 & where actually he is coming from...
Like she could see Kabir is unhappy with her promotion...she instantly guessed it, that he feels her undeserving...😕😆 guess girl forgot during the whole conference, he not even once mentioned that Miss kashyap is underserving...& all these days working Kabir, has ever he has doubted her capabilities as Reporter...infact time & again he has supported her against Malvika & Khalid.
One important thing which Ananya needs to realize is, if Kabir is doubting Shreya's actions he has every reason to do so, irrespective of fact if she wants to know the reason or not...which directly related to his experience with Shreya in past...which Ananya madam doesn't wanna know...but still, atleast listen to what Kabir feels about Shreya's whole promotion thing...instead of just over reacting ...give him a chance to explain what he actually means...& why he is opposing in first place...
Its better that these two just sit down & sort it out ...instead making their own assumptions, "unhone aisa kaha, toh iska yeh matlab hoga"...😆😆😆
As a GF if its her right to argue with him...question whatever he says...but she also needs to understand his point of view too...why exactly he doubts Shreya's actions...😕😕
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Kabir's gut feeling might be right or wrong...may be Shrey have genuinely promoted Ananya without any hidden intention...but Kabir just wants to make Ananya realize to see beyond Shreya's actions...😊😊 He has known Shreya all along & as he suffered himself at hands of Shreya, he doesn't want something similar happening to Ananya... & I don't blame Kabir for being apprehensive & doubtful of Shreya's every decision & action when it comes to himself or Ananya...its age old saying "once bitten twice shy" ...
In past, Shreya may have managed to win over him & could make him suffer (whatever might have been the situation) scars of which are still fresh for him & he had already Tarini suffer alongwith him...
Kabir has experienced Shreya using Tarini to get back to him...& this time round Kabir cant afford to make same mistake...so this time he is being extra cautious & doesn't wanna give Shreya a chance to use Ananya...Tarini might be his friend, & may have been able to come through the situation strongly... but with Ananya, he sees his future ahead ... as life partner...& as a boyfriend he would be a big time failure, if he is not able to protect Ananya from Shreya...
I wont be surprised if Kabir might have guessed Shreya having a hidden intention behind what she did...😆😆😆 coz the way she promoted Richa & way she dealt with Ananya, there is a huge noticeable difference...😃😃😃
While interacting with Richa, she talked about her as a reporter she appreciated her work & gave her a exclusive bulletin...& then promoted her...after properly discussing with Khalid & Kabir...she had just proposed the idea, & when both agreed then only Richa's promotion was decided...😊😊😊
By the way congratulation Shreya, 😆 already Richa was your blind worshipper...now she gonna be your die hard fangirl...😆😆😆 in whole KKN, she gonna be your biggest support day in & day out...😃
Though I have a question to Richa, is now Kabir still a bad person?😆 or playing a power trip by supporting you? ...Does he gets in your good books?...as if he cares...😆😆😆
But during Ananya's turn,...😕😕😕Shreya was clear in her head what she wants to do with her,she wants to promote her even before she entered inside...Shreya was already had her decision made that Ananya gets the promotion...If all this is part of Shreya's plan as Kabir is guessing in that case promoting Richa along with Ananya is just an excuse by Shreya so as to her decision is questioned or doubted.😊😊
Biggest reason for doubt why promotions only for Richa & Ananya, why not for whole staff?? 😕😕😕
Richa, to make her more loyal towards Shreya...& for Ananya not because she is "part owner ki GF" but because Shreya might want to get back at Kabir once again...(Lolz, I'm doubting Shreya like Kabir😆 ...both me & Kabir could be wrong in our assumptions)
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The letter from Ananya, was highlight...👏👏& she deserves appreciation for showing her supportive aspect as GF, keeping her own hurt & disappointment aside...as i said, when alone they understand each other well... 😆
But felt sorry for the girl, she felt undeserving...as Kabir opposed her promotion... though Richa & Kabir said same thing to Ananya😕😕
Kabir has raised his doubt on Shreya's action...but the way Richa said it, she made it sound cheap...Kabir had own reasons to doubt Shreya...
But Richa really girl, after being friends with Ananya instead of being happy for friend being promoting you really feel Ananya got promotion because of Kabir...😕😕😕 whereas, girl fact is, if Kabir as an editor in chief wudn't give consent for your exclusive bulletin (as its Kabir as EIC who decides what goes on air) Shreya alone cudn't have done anything...😆😆at any stage Kabir cud have opposed the idea...😛😆
I support Ananya, for backing out from promotion...may be she has done it in anger or to show it Kabir...It might be her answer back to Kabir...but her action may indirectly work in Kabir's favour,😛😛😛 coz if his assumption of Shreya playing a game turns true...Ananya rejecting promotion is first step of failure for Shreya...😆😆😆
Hope Ananya realizes, that with every action & decision Shreya is creating rift b/w her & Kabir & its important for her...instead of fighting out with Kabir...it wud be better to understand & ask Kabir about his plan 😕😕 ...for once girl, just listen out how exactly he has planned to deal with Shreya...😕😆
It doesn't matter if Ananya doesn't want to know Kabir's past...but to deal with present & future...more than anything...its important for Ananya to understand Kabir's point of view...she needs to trust his judgement...instead of making it a ego issue or look up at him as MCP... 😆😆😆
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It was good to see Khalid, atleast supporting Kabir in some matters during the whole appraisal event...& Love you Khalid for your strong lecture dose to Malvika...ahhh, in Khalid's style "Shanti ki request"...& a very much thank you for bursting Malvika's little bubble ...😆😆😆 .though Ananya had already done the honours but still, coming from Khalid...hope it does have some positive impact on her...😛😆.as its really required & indeed very thoughtful of him...
Indirectly he made Malvika jealous of Shreya,😆 & must say for benefit of Kabir she needs to be jealous of Shreya...😆 so that she doesn't end up teaming with her... coz if these two come together..." junglee women" wud be disastrous for Kabir... 😆😆😆So, God save my Kabir...😆😆& Khalid keep continuing to keep two woman apart from each other...😆so that they don't come up with any "Vahiyat harkat"...😆😆😆
Must say, Khalid & his imagination....Malvika forcing herself on Kabir..."tum Kabir ke saath zabardasti karogi" ...😆😆😆 really Khalid, thank your stars Kabir was not around...else he wud have strangled you...😆& stop feeding ideas in Malvika's head...
Waise hope Malvika realized its not easy taking panga with miss kashyap... Mateh is sherni...😆😆😆 when it comes to how to put you in place...& girl indeed had a point...now, its important for Malvika to make her presence felt...coz with Shreya around, limelight is on her...
Lolz I was like ek do Richa ji ko bhi suna dena tha lage haathon...😆hope she got hidden message, if Ananya can make Malvika shut up, she can do that to anyone...on second thoughts Malvika ka attitude karna banta hai, after all she is owner ki beti ooops part owner ki beti...😆 but I wonder why Richa ji is having attitude...😕😕😕
Malvika darling don't take it to heart...Ananya's pent up frustration got dumped on you...😆😆😆 glad its on you, Kabir saab bach gaye...😆😆😆warna yeh khundak unpar nikalni thi...though still he had to bear her comments...😕😕
Manavi bhai, come back soon...😆😆😆 aapke peeche se aapki life mein tsunami aagayi...😆😆😆
Lolz, had fun thought why exactly Kabir supported Shreya's decision to replace Manav on "Aath ki Baat"...
After knowing Shreya replacing him, Manav bhai wud obviously never agree with Shreya in forthcoming matters...& wud surely hate her from day 1...& if a chance comes to oppose Shreya...what Kabir cant directly do, at given situation Kabir wud have a chance to instigate Manav bhai, against Shreya & make Manav deal with Shreya in his own way...😆😆😆.(lolz highly a possibility...but if Kabir is thinking this way...in dat case, a good option for him)
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So, Good luck to "Good boy" & his GF, that they sort out things b/w them as soon as possible...& dont make things complicated...& deal with Shreya together...instead of individually 😃😃😃
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There will be bumps and bruises in any relationship.
But if ya'll come together as one and help heal each other wounds.Things will work out just fine.
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Episode 75
July 30,2015
Kyunki Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu Thi 2
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