--Understanding 'The Misunderstanding'--

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A lot of problems wud disappear in relationships...If we talk to each other, instead of "About each other" to others.

Misunderstandings crop up not because we dont undertstand the other, but because we dont end up giving thought to other one's thoughts... or like Kabir said, sometimes we end up thinking "too much" ...we start our own assumptions...& over think situations, feelings, persons.

Only thing that can solve any misunderstanding is having a direct talk, a heart to heart chat with person concern...instead of discussing with others...Its happening with Kabir-Ananya, they are not able to talk with each other...what they think, what they feel...& just jumping on conclusions...& effecting their relation.

I personally feel these misunderstandings b/w them instead of drifting these two apart might actually strengthen their bond...they might come out morestronger once misunderstandings are cleared...This is more of their realization phase where they are unconsciously expecting something "more" from each other...They want other one's presence around...& when they don't find they become frustrated & disappointed...

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Didn't knew Khalid was literally serious when he said he will set up KKN set in hospital...I thought he was joking...no matter how funny Kabir looked coat-tie & hospital Pajama bottoms...but must say he managed his 9pm news quite well... I don't think audiences watching on TV wudn't have realized he read news from hospital...

It was almost like Kabir was in KKN itself, he attending the video conference, read the news...for once he didn't even complained about being in hospital & still Khalid is making him work...Kabir was very much at work, in his place anyone else wud have taken a month's off just because he is not well...& guess Kabir will never forget Manav bhai's appendix pain & will never let anyone else forget it... He still teases poor Manav for that till now..."shukr hai appendix ka pain nahi hai"

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As for Miss Kashyap, her breakdown was no doubts was sad to see, & was very much expected...but I guess she just needs to sit back & relax & sort out her feelings...coz at this stage she is seeing one thing, listening other thing, understanding another thing & just messing up her thoughts...she needs a clear mind to think over her & Kabir relation, just about the "relation" but keeping the "romance concept" miles away... Even if Ananya feels she deicdes not to fall in "love" with Kabir, why Tarini should be a reason? just seeing him happy with Tarini she is forming her assumption that they both love each other or are in relation...Like Ronnie is her best friend ...Tarini is Kabirs best friend...

Infact Kabir's aloofness & rudness when he talked with Ananya, & him being to back to Miss Kashyap is understandable as Ananya herself shutted him out, & More than finding support in him as friend Ananya found support in Ronnie...& Kabir knows about Ronnie's feelings too...so to a certain extent Kabir showing indifference towards her can be justified...though during conference Kabir was normal with her...

Both Kabir-Ananya most importantly needs to talk out with each other... instead of making assumptions or perceptions themselves & thinking other one doesn't need ME as they have various other relations, they need to share their thought with themselves ...instead of letting misunderstandings make way in their relation be it as friends, junior-senior ...

What they expect & need from each other...they need to sort out among themselves...instead of bottling up inside & just make assumptions that other one is Happy...

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Malvika hearing Kabir-Ananya's chat was technically unethical...she wud have backed off that moment...but she didn't, infact she was enjoying the banter...wonder if she gonna make a issue out of it...or will be content herself that there is tension b/w editor in chief & junior reporter.



Really wonder if Kabir's Singapore visit has some big twist in store for us😕😆😆... coz since all episodes uptil now K L just made one appearance dat too during Kabir's first day at KKN...& now bringing him in story may be he gonna provide some unexpected twist...Though I'm having doubts has Kabir really gone to meet K L in Singapore...or he went to find out some details on the current story or breaking news he is following...😆😆coz going to Singapore with a broken leg & just a day after accident...somewhere it sounds fishy. 😆

Whatever the reason of him vanishing in the story... For sure, "we will miss you Kabir, apni apni tarah se"... & Get well soon...& keep on taking medicines...or in Manav bhai's style "dawa aur daru ko kabhi mana nahi karna chaiye" 😛😆😆😆

The current story going of a mother asking right for the child, & lady getting into relation with a married man...it might be just a coincidence but it wud surely gonna make Ananya think more deeply about her relation with Kabir, though their stories are not too similar...but its about being in love with a man who already been in a relationship...It is to be seen if Ananya decides to persue her hero worship/love of 8years for him...or lets misunderstandings spoil her relation with Kabir professionally & personally.

All the best to both of them... 😃😆 hope this little distance b/w them will give them enough time to think about relation...😊😃😃😃 & will make them realise where exactly they stand in other one's life.

Hopefully this wud be their last share of misunderstanding...😊


The perfect relationships are not the ones which have a perfect understanding...
They have the expertise to avoid misunderstandings😊
--Episode 46
June 19,2015

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Fabulous analysis purnima as usual...
Superb.
You said it all...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I really like this quote of yours ... about perfect relations and misunderstanding as Kabir also rightly mentioned ki joh rishte mishkil waqt mein bante hain unhe koi pareeksha nhn deni hoti... I am sure they both will emetge as winners and come back with a bang !
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Posted: 10 years ago
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KL; I don't remember seeing that man. Is he as interesting as Khalid 😉 ? Excited to see him. If it is about removing Kabir, Ananya will forget about all misunderstandings and will fight for Kabir. It can't be promotion either, it does not add to the drama. Then what is the invitation about?

Tarini; If Ananya had not donated her brains to Richa, she could have realised the openness in Kabir's relation with Tarini. True, he does not shout about his relation. But he does not try to hide it either (like, how he did not try to avoid her during tele conference). This is very similar to Ananya's behaviour with Ronnie. When one is so transparent in the relation, what is there to proclaim to the world?
Kabir also has lent his brain. True, Ronnie did say how much he loves Ananya. But he must be knowing the other part of the story as well. How much Ananya missed Ronnie in jungle? Why was she texting him, when all her friends including Ronnie were around her?

When Kabir and Ananya went to interview Baagi and when Kabir received Tarini's call, he answered it in front of Ananya. Compare this with their behaviour, when they are texting each other. They always avoid others 😆. Brainless fellows. Dil lagtaa hei, kaan kheechloo in dono ka. 😡 😆

New assignment; Whether it makes Ananya to think deeper into her relation with Kabir or it does not give her any room (and time) for overthinking, I don't know. Personally, I would prefer the second one. Both are spontaneous people. When they are left to think, they think from totally opposite direction aur pura kabaada banaa lete hei. 😕. Give them no time to think, their heart trust each other blindly and they come together. Whatever way Ananya follows, usually every assignment brings them closer or make them understand the other more. So love the assignment they have now.
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Originally posted by: flipfl0p

KL; I don't remember seeing that man. Is he as interesting as Khalid😉? Excited to see him. If it is about removing Kabir, Ananya will forget about all misunderstandings and will fight for Kabir. It can't be promotion either, it does not add to the drama. Then what is the invitation about?

Tarini; If Ananya had not donated her brains to Richa, she could have realised the openness in Kabir's relation with Tarini. True, he does not shout about his relation. But he does not try to hide it either (like, how he did not try to avoid her during tele conference). This is very similar to Ananya's behaviour with Ronnie. When one is so transparent in the relation, what is there to proclaim to the world?
Kabir also has lent his brain. True, Ronnie did say how much he loves Ananya. But he must be knowing the other part of the story as well. How much Ananya missed Ronnie in jungle? Why was she texting him, when all her friends including Ronnie were around her?

When Kabir and Ananya went to interview Baagi and when Kabir received Tarini's call, he answered it in front of Ananya. Compare this with their behaviour, when they are texting each other. They always avoid others😆. Brainless fellows. Dil lagtaa hei, kaan kheechloo in dono ka.😡😆

New assignment; Whether it makes Ananya to think deeper into her relation with Kabir or it does not give her any room (and time) for overthinking, I don't know. Personally, I would prefer the second one. Both are spontaneous people. When they are left to think, they think from totally opposite direction aur pura kabaada banaa lete hei. 😕.Give them no time to think, their heart trust each other blindly and they come together. Whatever way Ananya follows, usually every assignment brings them closer or make them understand the other more. So love the assignment they have now.



Lolz K L was there in epi 2 i guess through video conference... Too short appearance to know how he was 😆 but bet not interesting boss like Khalid 😆

More than misunderstanding...two fools are not understanding each other 😆 just having their own assumptions 😆 😆

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