Originally posted by: FollowYourHeart
no no no nooooooooo anuuuuuuuuuuu u cant nd u so cant escape this...u have to telll me whether u believe in what ranveer said in the end or no....u just have to telll me...u cannot an u so cannot escape this....and by god so many questions...whats got into ou here i toh was waiting for you to come and just go maaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaad over this scene pouring in whatever just whatever you felllllllllllllllt....i would answe all those qs anu but first you pen donw whatever you felt yaaaaaaar...i don't want to bias your feelins first i want it all out from you then i would add my own to the base of whatever you yourself are feeling...but only after heaing first hand account form you..chal shuru hoja with your dil ka haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaal keep the qs aside keep all doubts aside and just live this moment here...fir i wld add on
and lol no fight yaar when have we all ever had same wala views here...hamesha all of us have different perspectives but i feel as if this is something very very fundamental...i mean here we ae being asked to accept some dreams cant come true...our own ashi has been asked to do that....thats just i dunno its totally against the faith with which ashi ay and we alllllllll as individuals live yaaar....it totally against it....thats why i feel this is fundamental...I for one totally am repulsed by it coz it defies the very meaning of life for me...it so does!
Well, i thought abt it all night and pushing to the side all the stuff that's going on right now, this is how i really feel abt the whole dreams qns. I think ranveer is partly right and partly wrong, and i'm not just saying that to be diplomatic. Yes, there are gonna be dreams that never get fulfilled. But see, ranveer was speaking from a different place. Natz got it spot on - both ashi n ranveer r missing each other's point. See ranveer, i feel anyway, never believed in anything. He never thought he could achieve all that he wanted to. Even when he reached a goal, like getting tia, he couldn't hold onto it, he let it go, and so of course the dream broke. See this is what he is not seeing, that we all have dreams, and yeah some won't get fulfilled, but it's not a simple case of dreaming and saying 'i wanna be this......or i want this to happen' - you have to make it happen, but more importantly once it does get achieved you can't just sit back and say, 'i've done that, now it's all over' coz it's never over. Once you have fufilled a dream you have to work to keep it alive, to hold onto it with both hands and never let it go. Yes, new dreams will come once one is fulfilled, and you will start working towards these new dreams too, but you never forget that old dream and never let go off it either. And that's what ranveer never did. he never worked to hold onto anything. ashi, on the other hand, did. See look at how she is still fighting for yuvi, still trying to make him see the error of his ways even when some part of her feels at times that she's fighting a losing battle. She knows that it's all about fighting, all about keeping that faith all along. Ranveer, i feel never had any faith. And i don't say this intending to bash him, i just feel because of certain things that happened in his life he never found the ability to keep faith. And there are many ppl like this in the world. So many who look at life and see the glass half empty, who can only doubt their every step. I know, because for the last few months i have been one of them.
But, coming back to the main point, i think it's wrong to say that you have to accept that all dreams won't come true and that by doing so you're grown up. I think that dreams only come true if you really believe in them and in yourself, and that is what ashi did. More than anything she believed in the ppl around her, and that is why she fought, that is why she never gave up hope. To believe, to aspire is the most important thing, because if you don't truly believe in yourself then yeah you'll end up feeling like ranveer. But i also agree with Natz, that the end result is also really important. I said that not all dreams will come true, but i think that in these cases it's because we didn't believe in ourselves enough. For example, i wanted a 1st right? I didn't get it. Why? Because i told myself i'm not clever enough. Now, maybe if i had believed in myself i still wouldn't have gotten that 1st, but i think that if we truly believe we can achieve the impossible. It's learning how to believe in yourself that can lead you to that final goal, and then learning how to keep that dream burning even when you think you have achieved it, because you always have to fight to keep every single dream alive. Ranveer never did, that's why he said those lines. But ashi knows that even if a dream goes wrong, that you get distanced from it, you can find a way back, you just have to keep fighting.
Someone's def into spanish these days na? 😉 Man it's such a beautiful langauge.......it just feels so poetic na. So wish we had been given classes in it at school! 
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