Tia/Ranveer- objective evaluation.

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Hmm..This is my first annalisation so bear with me and my idiotic syncronies.

So lets talk about Tia and Raveer. For once, Tia put forth a hand of friendship, friendship in which she will do anything for the other person. Friendship which means the world to Raveer. Friendship, which brings an odd lull in the scheme of things.

Ranveer dated a host of other girls, including Meher before hooking up with Tia. He felt that she was too good for him. Was he right? Is she too good for him? Can we study what Ranveer has gone through because of his connection with Tia. For one: he went through humiliations at the hands of Arjun (who I don't hate at all, just objectively looking through the situation).2) He had his heart broken when she announced on stage she didn't love him and it was all a bet. 3) He got beaten up by Arjun. 4)He had to go through the entire year fighting with her and knowing absolutely nothing about how to handle the girl.

But Tia herself wasn't spared. She too went through her share of troubles. 1)The shock of discovering Ranveer's connections with Sanganer and his father. The entire revenge theory. 2)Finding out at the part when she lied about the bet, that Ranveer didn't actually love her. 3)Getting glares from Arjun (who let me mention again- I don't hate.) 4)not to forget all the 'mirchi' she had.

So, net solution: both these people have only hurt each other to great extend while in love. Yes, they've had their moments of love and tenderness, Which BTW I love, but they've got more moments of hurt and humiliation.

So I ask you, will this friendship of sorts be beneficial for them? Maybe they'll get to know each other better? Maybe this will give them a chance to see each other as humans and not the perfect lover image each one of them harbours. Maybe this friendship will work wonder for a future relationship? Maybe we will have a rebeled train scene too, because of this friendship. We don't know- but I sure as hell like this friendship.

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Very well said 👏 👏 👏 ...
Both gave each other equal amount of bitterness and both received equal amount of pain and humilation in the relationship...... and now its good that they bcame friends cuz after such an overdose of hardship it'll be diffucult to get back as lovers instantly.
I really want them to sort out all sorts of differences as sooon as possible.... its high time they patch up.... after 8 long months i am sure all their fans would love to see them once again as lovers... 😉

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Posted: 19 years ago
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I beg to defer. Im not sayin tia has not gone through her share of pains. but i will not agree that she has suffered equally as ranveeer. Ranveer has had to face her weird and confusing behaviour of sometimes being a darling and putting medicine on his wounds and otherwise insulting and rude statements abt him.
She has put him through a lot of pain. In the first place when she loved him so much couldnt she trust him enough to even talk to him about the whole thing that wrinda had said abt revenge ? how immature is she and how can she be so insensitive. take for example when ashi finds out abt uv having a bet abt luring her into a relationship she doesnt go out and announce wat a loser uv was ... she calmly takes her time out and moves on. whereas tia's ego was hurt and she chose to get back at him.
even in recent times if she is in any pain then its all bcoz she is asking it for herself. Everytime ranveer asks her abt her feelings she gives him a unanswered look and then sometimes even insults him. I MEAN DO YOU EXPECT HIM TO DREAM THT SHE LOVES HIM ????? especially when she makes totally contrasting statements. if today she had suffered all the listed things its bcoz she does not prefer to keeep her ego aside and put for her real feelings. its not abt the revenge bcoz tht she has no grudges against him. but what abt wat she feels for him ?
ok agreed only for one thing that she had to beasr to knw the truth abt the revenge. but still ranveer didnt do anything tht really spoke for revenge. she expects too much frm him

im not saying ranveer does not have ego or attitude. but now that everyone knows tht he wanted revenge from ahujas his pride has to be protected and thts why he is tht way. With tia he cant do anyhting bcoz every time he tries to talk to her she gives him the back off kinda comment. He has gone through a lot more than tia did...

if ranveer dated many girls b4 tia then it was fine bcoz he had not confessed of his feelings to her and the feelings wer backed by revenge. but tia chose to date otehr losers like Nakul(no offense to him) and Arjun(she was just using him and knew tht ranveer was hurt when he saw them togehter)
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Posted: 19 years ago
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i think that a friendship is a start!@least nw tia not going 2 b rude 2 him!but i do think ranveer has suffered more than tia neday!but in the end all i wanna c is them 2gether!
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Posted: 19 years ago
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oh dear ur rite.... i seriously dont remember soo many things bout tia-ran 😉
i was generally speakin ... but no abt the breaking up issue i kinda partly disagree with u.... the way ranveer behaved with tia before the break up .... the way he suddenly used 2 become violent and agressive with her was some real solid reason for tia to blindly believe vrinda....tia asked vrinda to gather info abt ranveer through aman since ranveer himself never discussed his probs with tia..... also considering vrinda's MATA VRIDESHAWARI DEVI image... who would'nt blive her... LATTY baby is a differnt case.... i dont think Tia would have believed latty if she was in vrinda's place..... but the bet thing was one seriously bad idea But all those stuff durin the birthay bash could have easily sorted out the differences only if ranvir behaved more sensibly.... and tia dated arjun cuz she seriously wanted to get over ranveer.... tho later things got change when she got 2 know of arjun's evil side 😛 but tia's usual senseless remarks was no less... she just coulnt stop insulting ranveer.... and ranveer behaving like a mad man with tia for the train tickets was also something unreasonable.... and the biggest of all these things is after hearing the real reason of the arjun-tia break-up..... ranv still couln't understand that she loved her .....nd actually prefered tia to get back to arjun.... if u notice tia said her dil ki baat and she is done with the basic confession after the party and its not her prob that ranveer couldn't read between the lines and nor could he understand an open confession..... i dunno what actually stopped ranveer to confess after the revenge plot got chucked out and not even once he said sorry to tia who reacted so sensibly regardin this revenge issue .... his mom had to do this on his behalf....

It is pure ego clash from both sides... when one behave properly the other behaves abnormally and when the other behaves like a civilised person the other behaves like a senseless thing 😡 .......now its enough of the heavy-duty sadness... dont care who had more or who had less but all i want is PEACE between the couple...😊
Edited by Anushka - 19 years ago
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Posted: 19 years ago
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i toooootaaallyyy agree wid anushka!! 😃
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Posted: 19 years ago
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The problem is not abt vrinda telling her abt the revenge or latty telling her. The reality is that without getting your facts rite u have no rite to humiliate the person in public. You have to discuss things openly with ur partner. And ranveer was weird wit her bcoz of the revenge thing at the back of his mind. And even if she wanted to end the relationship she cud have discussed it and then amblicably broken of it wud hurt less.. And if ranveer didnt say sorry to her its bcoz he himself had bigger issues like tht of realises that it wasnt anyone;s fault but his dad was a coward it changes perspective thts why tia had forgiven him. and seriously he didnt have to say sorry to her coz he didnt cheat her he realy loved her. and the first time they ddated she announced that it was a bet and she even confirmed tht it was just revenge earlier when he had talked to her. so he didnt believe her when she confessed specially bcoz ashi told him tht she was kinda drunk.
Also if u expect ranver to act like god and assume tht she loves him by her actions .. then u can say the same for tia. she never wants to take the step of discussing things. even after the ranveer n arjun fight. when ranveer asked her she preferrred to seal her mouth. shes a confused gal and she easily gets drawn to do stupid stuff.. like believing a guy like arjun.
and ya my point is the same tht she dated arjun to get over ranveer.. which is indirectly using arjun ... and if she realyl wanted to get over him ther are better htings to do than date others when u dont really care much.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Well I for one believe that both Tia and Ranveer have each suffered in the past, don't want to argue who's hurt the other more, cause thats simply a not important issue. If you're hurting someone you love, then you are plain and simply Evil. So in this case, both of these people are.
What they also are is Good people, people who believe in the power of friendship and loyalty to their friends. Which brings me to my point, maybe this friendship of sorts is the most beneficial thing that can happen to these two, since so much water has gone down the bridge. Maybe, friendship will lay the foundation to a stronger and much less ego involved relationship.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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😭 maybe im only wrong... but i still feel tia has hurt ranveer constantly even when she really truly loves him... whereas ranveer has hurt her probably a couple of times. regarding the whole revenger crap..
he cant force himself on her if she doesnt discuss with him her true feelings bcz she has earlier insulted him and she might do it again frm his side.. we watch the serial so we knw it.. but as the character ranveer doesnt knw wat she feels unless she tells him.. 🤢
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Posted: 19 years ago
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😊 FInally someone who agrees with me... thanks u guys

😕 i hope its not out of sympahty tht ur agreeing 😆

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