excellent thoughts vinu..........i am speechless
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Originally posted by vinuchand
Hi guys and gals,
My assessment of Suman's Journey:
An orphan to whom the family life and surroundings meant a lot. Kaddu selects her for karthik, sh loves Karan by mistake, Karthik unites Karan and Suman.
But cruel fate intervenes and Karan is presumed dead only to be resurrected later.
The period between Karan's death and Suma marrying Karthik is tumultuous to say the least.
A young widow who has no one to fall back on, no one to share her feelings with, no one to wipe her tears , no one to understand that her loss is as grave if not more as the others. But there is an exception in DC, Karthik and Kanchan.
Dc and Karthik stand tall and hold her hand and show her the path.
The young widow wants to live life on her own terms and makes an effort to be independent. But its thwarted. Her very life and leading life dignified is being threatened and questioned beyond words.
In all this, through thick and thin, there is one and one man who is unflinching in his support, does not question her , except when he knows something is wrong and he wants an answer as she does not want to confide in him.
True Karan gave up his life for her to save her. One question why didn't he jump out himself?
Karthik did the same but not once twice over. Both times he came back alive.
Finally when all hurdles were cleared, Karan makes his entry.
How on earth can a woman who has moved on in life say, my first love has come back so I belong to him and not you, especially when he has just taken her marriage vows with the man who means the world to her now? So when he makes his sudden appearance can she say, okay Karthik, wait for me because I have unfulfilled dreams with karan let me fulfill it!!! Did any on give her the space and tie to understand the trauma which had hit her. But no they were rather interested in trying to put her down, making her stay in ghai ghar, giving her no food, driving her to suicide, etc.
If Suman did not care about Karan and if she once did not love him, she would have never agreed to pretend and be his wife especially when is trying to get noting but physical with her. She and Karthik have never been impatient to get on in life with each other and neither has she thrown away karan's memories. But when your existence and your dignity is in question how long can a woman sit and mourn for a dead one.
She is one hellyva of a dignified woman, who has grown a spine ever ince Karthik has come into her life and has made a choice. Which choice is for everyone to accept.
She does not know the address of Yama for one to get Karan back, She did no have any prophecy told to her that karan will die, unlike Savitri, She did not approach any crystal ball reader to tell her that Karan will come back.
She never loved tanmay as she was forced to accept it for Kanchan's sake. Tanmay was happy that Suman agreed. But when he knew the truth what did he say 'kisika mazboori ka fayda uthana' to his BD.
I am glad when Karan came back she was not confused as I would have been mightily socked if she was confused whether it was Karan or Karthik.
Kaabarz::
I liked this post so much that here is the theorem 4 it:
''Kavya's theorem of moving on in life'':
This theorem states that''a person shud move on in life to find his/her happiness if and only if the person is unknown about the existence of his/her life partner[life partner-the person who is supposedly dead].ππ