Rukmani was blue in color, butterflies are seen as both imagery and as an actual living entity (though always blue when appearing as a living entity), and all we ever saw was that she only appeared to be visible to Paro and Myrah
For Paro, Rukmani was a sort of messenger or guide, sent by her parents from beyond the grave, but not actually Paro herself.
But for Myrah, Rukmani was Paro herself, Paro, due to Bholebaba's grace somehow was able to manifest herself in this form from beyond the grave.
Rukmani is a subconscious manifestation of Paro for Myrah - related to her precognitive ability to imbibe Paro - guiding her and able to be recognised by Dhruv due to him being Paro's son...Myrah and Dhruv have an instant connection while Rudra took a little longer to realise his emotions.
The only time Myrah ever saw Rukmani, it lead her to Rudras wallet which took her to the haveli, whereby she immediately felt a connection...
...when Paro rhetorically ask Rudra to find out what lead Myrah to Rudra, she is telling us that it was she (Paro) who manifested herself into Rukmani to guide Myrah to these events that were unpredictable, and seemed to be connected to her emotions, and she had no control over them, but she then started to become the person she was always meant to be">Paro even though they show us that they never knew each other.
Both Paro and Myrah's relationship with Rudra began the same way, they obviously trusted him and felt safe around him, though they did not always agree with him.
Paro always meant for Rudra to understand that even though the world is dark, he should try to like a little part of it, not to run and hide away. If he gave a little of his heart, only then would he be able to live each day because Life doesn't wait for too long...
...if we remember when she found out about Laila, she wanted to know if Rudra loved Laila, and if Rudra was capable of loving then she was happy and she knew he wasn't a complete lost soul, half her work would be cut down, but even though she was relieved that what Rudra felt for Paro was EVERYTHING and what he felt for Laila was NOTHING, she was still so distraught when she found out that he had a heart of stone to so coldly use Laila, she is a woman who loves him as well and she felt that hurt for Laila...coz it would mean how much worse would she fare in this relationship...
Rudra already lost more than anyone ever should. Paros dream was to tell him not to lose her again, don't let him lose her just when he found her again.
I am satisfied with the way I feel today, I know I will be able to move on still loving RangRasiya and letting my mind wander once in a while and letting it act as guidance for my own life...
Thank you for being a part of my life...for opening my heart out just a little bit more.