What is Mhyra's fault here? - Page 3

Originally posted by: harshu.sundas

its amazing that how everything that happens has to be blamed on Rudra and his behaviour, he is a jerk for mandhandling Myrah, he is rude for calling her spoilt, he is this and he is that.

First of all why is he supposed to even let Myrah know about his wife, when she constantly pricks him in that zone ? even before a few times she had insulted him and talked a lot of nonsense about him and his wife, and last straw was the prank with the song, after so much of crap from her, no man in sense would even expect a girl like Myrah to understand the depth and devotion he has for that face.

And its really is woman power when Myrah calls him rude and arrogant on his face, but its jerkness when he calls her rich and spoilt on her face ? Why is that so ? what has she done which doesn't prove that she is exploiting her money ? she has not given him any reasons to think her mature and well behaved . Moreover, he is an insecure father, he hates to see his son cry, he knows his son is happy with Myrah, he knows that Myrah's involvement in his life can make things harsher, so why would he ever try and let Myrah know about Paro and make her behave like a mother to dhruv ? thats wrong ..

Myrah is spineless obviously, the owner of the house is pathetically rude towards her and she still behaves like a school kid and barges into everything that happens in his life ? its shameful, that on one side she tries to be the woman with power and self respect and on the other side she herself has no basic manners and attitude to deserve respect. No wonder even a lady like Maithili was also pissed at her.

A man like Rudra who suffered so much, is not a piece whom Myrah can understand or can handle, and its not Rudra's responsiblity to make her realise that as he does not owe her anything, it was her own decision to stay with him and now when she wants to attach herself with everything he does, she deserves this, be it Rudra's rudeness. And about manhandling her, well she herself falls on him for 1000 times a day, and once he holds her arm for an arguement he becomes the manhandler, and gets a lash from her , and thats why the show and its female lead character never amuses me, may be because of the biased attitude the male lead character faces.

Originally posted by: ttt1

@bold she falls on him 1000 times or 10000 times , doesnt matter , he holds her hand once without her permission its manhandling ...thats the way it is

rest i cant comment , i dont watch the show any more , i am not sure whether i will like myrah's characterization or story

Originally posted by: harshu.sundas

@bold she falls on him 1000 times or 10000 times , doesnt matter , he holds her hand once without her permission its manhandling ...thats the way it is

rest i cant comment , i dont watch the show any more , i am not sure whether i will like myrah's characterization or story

Originally posted by: ttt1

yeah thats more because she accuses his wife to doubt his character.. sometimes manhandling/womanhandling doesn't get restricted to just physical terms.. Rudra was wrong no doubt, but i dislike the fact that he is being painted as the wrong and worst one whereas Myrah is being treated as ohh she is the best, cool and have no faults, while thats not the case. And here i do support Rudra more, even if he is rude or arrogant, atleast he isn't exploiting his mardaangi, otherwise Myraah could face worser from him..

Originally posted by: harshu.sundas

es because i am sure ppl use the word MANHANDLING in what perspective, when it means something more worse and which Rudra has never shown, not even with Paro when she was a supposed terrorist.. and no i do not mean that Rudra should have been worser to Myrah, he is not that low of a character or of a man. Its on the context of how this forum thinks off and how it actually is, obviously Rudra calling her spoilt on her face is mannerless while her calling him arrogant on his face is cool, Rudra telling her that she doesn't know anything about love is rude while her telling him that his wife suffered in his hands is cool, so in that context Rudra's manhandling isnt equal to what actually manhandling is.

Originally posted by: ttt1

Originally posted by: harshu.sundas

like i said ,i am not sure of myrah characterization , so i cant really comment on it , from the WU i am not sure whether i will like her , the entire premise is rubbish , to barge into a house for her 'wedding' among st strangers and people who dont want her around is plain weird

but saying that i cant justify the host (unwilling host ) corner her to prove his point

Originally posted by: ttt1

lol he never cornered her to prove his point ..

and yeah, the whole premise of her stay in that house leaving her self respect behind is bullshit, because as i said at one side she warns him to behave well with her, tells the kids to have manners while she herself has no manners , throwing 30000 rupees and buying sumer is not so cool and also staying in the house after being repeatedly insulted by the manhandler

Originally posted by: harshu.sundas

Originally posted by: ttt1

really ? ignore her ? the face ? well i am sure that he wants to thats why he behaves like that with her, but that face did a lot of damage to him, and isnt ignorable atall, but the girl is, so basically he trie sto ignore the girl but the face puts him into a strange situation.

i will be happy and easily watch a widow Rudra, but cannot see him with Myrah, because already Myrah is loud and OTT, not a character i will ever like..

Indian shows lack here, they never etch a perfect male and female character, and incase of female sthey overdo it, be the whiteness, greyness or the NRI angle..

no wonder the actors get typecast and limited to tv and even if they try in movies, nobody gives them a damn, while pakistani superstar drama actors alreday get so much acknowledgment here..

anyways, back to Rudra, i love his bond with his son, and i would hate it if the last love of his thats Dhruv forces him to marry that Myrah , this is a really harsh sacrifice to make, but may be he will do it as a father and moreover father to paro's son