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Posted: 11 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: squivi

Basically the point of my rant. If you call out one, you gotta call out the other because both of them did things that aren't cool.

I feel the saying"the pot calling the kettle black"adage suits them bot at this point.

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Posted: 11 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: DN2012

I feel the saying"the pot calling the kettle black"adage suits them bot at this point.

Yep 😆

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DN2012

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Posted: 11 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: squivi

Why would and should Rudra change? This is his character, his entire essence. It might be annoying for some, but it would go against his characterization if he wasn't this way as his coping mechanism. Rudra is already watered down, so what would be left of him if he changed? His is literally the only source of intensity left on this show. Add to that this new girl looks exactly like Paro, of course he can't deal. She looks just like her, but is totally different in mind, thought and deed. That's bound to set anyone off, especially when they're stuck in close proximity with each other.

I agree Rudra shouldn't keep Myrah in the dark, but for the story's sake, they have to. Otherwise, there's nothing to show. What I blame her for is her insensitivity. She just barges into their home and then that prank. Of course she didn't know that song was Paro's, but doing something like that to cause someone pain intentionally is just wrong.

It just baffles me that everyone sees Rudra's fault, but Myrah gets a clean sheet. Both are idiots.

OK, the basic character need not change.usually it does not change in people.characters dims or heightens that is it.and Rudra is not any better than any average human being..

But my question is why should he keep Myra in the dark?.what is so special about Paro that Myra has to be kept in the dark?nothing.it is just that Myra has Paro's face.so what?if Rudra tells her that then what?what is going to happen?Myra will have a better Understanding of Rudra.myra will see Rudra and the kid in a new light.She will be more tuned to the family's pain.she will be more careful.she maybe childish,but she is not heartless.

He is hiding Paro's picture like Myra is going to commit some crime,if she knows she is lookalike of Paro.i think there is going to be a big revelation.but in the meantime Myra us hurting and I blame Rudra for it.

The Prank was uncalled for.but the punishments Myra is receiving is uncalled for too.it is high time Myra left Ranawat haveli.she is not needed there.

oK my ranting is over.off to read some gutter posts...😉

Edited by DN2012 - 11 years ago

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DiyaS

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Posted: 11 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: squivi

Why would and should Rudra change? This is his character, his entire essence. It might be annoying for some, but it would go against his characterization if he wasn't this way as his coping mechanism. Rudra is already watered down, so what would be left of him if he changed? His is literally the only source of intensity left on this show. Add to that this new girl looks exactly like Paro, of course he can't deal. She looks just like her, but is totally different in mind, thought and deed. That's bound to set anyone off, especially when they're stuck in close proximity with each other.

I agree Rudra shouldn't keep Myrah in the dark, but for the story's sake, they have to. Otherwise, there's nothing to show. What I blame her for is her insensitivity. She just barges into their home and then that prank. Of course she didn't know that song was Paro's, but doing something like that to cause someone pain intentionally is just wrong.

It just baffles me that everyone sees Rudra's fault, but Myrah gets a clean sheet. Both are idiots.

So Rudra gets a clean chit for his insensitivity and his rudeness because "it's his character"?

Then Myrah should get a clean chit for her carelessness and her insensitivity, because "that's her character" too.

Why call out one and not the other?

Myrah's prank was out of ignorance ... not excusing her for that, it was still a stupid prank to play. The prank itself was harmless ... it's not a prank that would HURT. But only if played in the right circumstances ... it was the kind of prank one would play with close friends, and it would be fine then ... everybody would have a good laugh about it.

But definitely not with hosts in a house where you don't even know them well, have gatecrashed ... all those reasons hold true. But she didn't know it would hurt Rudra so much.

And that is Rudra's fault ... he has decided she doesn't need to know she resembles Paro ... but he's continuing to misjudge her because she resembles Paro.

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squivi

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: DN2012

OK, the basic character need not change.usually it does not change in people.characters dims or heightens that is it.and Rudra is not any better than any average human being..

But my question is why should he keep Myra in the dark?.what is so special about Paro that Myra has to be kept in the dark?nothing.it is just that Myra has Paro's face.so what?if Rudra tells her that then what?what is going to happen?Myra will have a better Understanding of Rudra.myra will see Rudra and the kid in a new light.She will be more tuned to the family's pain.she will be more careful.she maybe childish,but she is not heartless.

He is hiding Paro's picture like Myra is going to commit some crime,if she knows she is lookalike of Paro.i think there is going to be a big revelation.but in the meantime Myra us hurting and I blame Rudra for it.

The Prank was uncalled for.but the punishments Myra is receiving is uncalled for too.it is high time Myra left Ranawat haveli.she is not needed there.

oK my ranting is over.off to read some gutter posts...😉

I feel like Rudra is hiding Paro's picture because he doesn't want Myrah to get involved in their family dynamics more. He doesn't want her to know anything. He just wants her to finish her wedding and leave. He doesn't want any drama, sympathy or anything. It doesn't make sense, but the CVs are waiting for a big revelation. Hiding things is Indian dramas' USP.

Originally posted by: DiyaS

So Rudra gets a clean chit for his insensitivity and his rudeness because "it's his character"?

Then Myrah should get a clean chit for her carelessness and her insensitivity, because "that's her character" too.

Why call out one and not the other?

Myrah's prank was out of ignorance ... not excusing her for that, it was still a stupid prank to play. The prank itself was harmless ... it's not a prank that would HURT. But only if played in the right circumstances ... it was the kind of prank one would play with close friends, and it would be fine then ... everybody would have a good laugh about it.
But definitely not with hosts in a house where you don't even know them well, have gatecrashed ... all those reasons hold true. But she didn't know it would hurt Rudra so much.

And that is Rudra's fault ... he has decided she doesn't need to know she resembles Paro ... but he's continuing to misjudge her because she resembles Paro.

I didn't say Rudra deserves a clean chit. Neither of them deserve it. My point is that Myrah's behavior is something that shouldn't be applauded, yet she's getting heaps of praise and "girl power" cheers. Yes, she's a strong and modern girl. I admire that. However, being tough doesn't mean that you can do whatever you want. It doesn't give her the right to barge into their home and pull tricks on people as if she knows them or are her family. Frankly, she is just intrusive to me. That prank wasn't harmless - she heard & saw Rudra's sadness for the song, yet was keen to hit him where that hurt.

I call both characters out big time. Rudra doesn't have to be rude, but yes, it's in his character to be. That IS his character. Yes, it's Myrah's character to be like this. However, I feel Rudra is more justified in his behavior than Myrah. The man is dying inside and having Paro's humshakal roaming around his house and bonding with his family kills him.

However, I also agree that Myrah is innocent because Rudra hasn't told her that she looks like Paro, which is stupid. I have no problem calling him out. He should tell her, so that she leaves. But he doesn't for unknown reasons - he doesn't want her pity or an attachment. She is his job. Unlike with Paro, he has no desire to be attached to Myrah because he feels nothing for her. So yes, He should tell her. However, Myrah's behavior is irksome and it's baffling to me that people are gung-ho about whatever Myrah does, but Rudra's harshness with her is just "oh he's a jerk". He is a jerk, but so is she. I still support Rudra more than Myrah.

Edited by squivi - 11 years ago

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Posted: 11 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: moni87
I think he is in pain and all this accusation of spoilt rich girl are his defence mechanism to cope with this pain. He wants to keep her on distance by being rude to her and accusing her of being a spoilt, rich girl who doesnt know anything. I think everytime he looks at her face he is in pain and he lashes out verbally.
Rudra might have changed in many ways but one thing didnt change: When he is in pain that he doesn't think about what he is saying. I think this trait is too deep within him and unfortunately I don't think this will change.

the most logical think would be if he says the truth to her. But he doesn't...

And I don't understand why Myra puts up with him. Which normal girl would spend her last ten days before wedding at place where the house owner is totally rude to her...She seems to be a confindent clever girl but in Rudra's case she doesn't seems to think normally...

Right now I don't understand which way the CVs have choosen, but in my opinion the story between Rudra and Myra makes no sense. I understand them individually but not as a pair.

Bold- Simple answer is the CVs, from the start the only way they have been able to move the story forward is compromising on one or the other character. Additionally they have to shoot on one set and what kind of story will they have with Myrah back in her hotel taking care of her wedding and Rudra being a dad in haveli. Right now pretty much each episode is about Rudra and Paro's tiffs and misunderstandings and Mohini, Shatabdi and Sumair's greed. So, Myrah is stuck in the haveli with her cold hosts.

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DN2012

@DN2012

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Posted: 11 years ago

#17

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True.Heros are best at hiding things.take IPK.the whole USP of the hate marriage was based on the hidden fact..

But if Rudra knows the fact that Myra is innocent,he should be more sensitive.he should be more careful in dealing with her since he knows the facts clearly.

There is a saying,you will catch more flies with honey than with vinegar.if he keeps yelling and throwing tantrums,Myra will get more stubborn.and it will be all Rudra's fault...

At this point,I feel Dhruv and Koel are the most mature people in that family.

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squivi

@squivi

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Posted: 11 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: DN2012
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I feel like Rudra is hiding Paro's picture because he doesn't want Myrah to get involved in their family dynamics more. He doesn't want her to know anything. He just wants her to finish her wedding and leave. He doesn't want any drama, sympathy or anything. It doesn't make sense, but the CVs are waiting for a big revelation. Hiding things is Indian dramas' USP.

True.Heros are best at hiding things.take IPK.the whole USP of the hate marriage was based on the hidden fact..

But if Rudra knows the fact that Myra is innocent,he should be more sensitive.he should be more careful in dealing with her since he knows the facts clearly.
There is a saying,you will catch more flies with honey than with vinegar.if he keeps yelling and throwing tantrums,Myra will get more stubborn.and it will be all Rudra's fault...
At this point,I feel Dhruv and Koel are the most mature people in that family.

Dont get me started with hate marriage in IPK. That was just UGH.

Rudra doesn't care if Myrah is innocent. She is a thorn in his side, a haunting reminder of Paro that he needs to leave. However, it makes no sense that he doesn't tell her anything because he should to get her to leave! Logic, what logic? Plus I guess he got told off by her uncle and since his job is to ensure her safety, he's stuck. If she leaves, he'll get in trouble, no matter the justification he has that Myrah looks like Paro. I don't know, Rudra's excuse for not telling is just a ploy from the CVs to keep these two under the same roof.

LOL Rudra and being sweet is not a thing at all and never will be. He can't tolerate anyone besides his Paro and family.

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Posted: 11 years ago

#19

its amazing that how everything that happens has to be blamed on Rudra and his behaviour, he is a jerk for mandhandling Myrah, he is rude for calling her spoilt, he is this and he is that.

First of all why is he supposed to even let Myrah know about his wife, when she constantly pricks him in that zone ? even before a few times she had insulted him and talked a lot of nonsense about him and his wife, and last straw was the prank with the song, after so much of crap from her, no man in sense would even expect a girl like Myrah to understand the depth and devotion he has for that face.

And its really is woman power when Myrah calls him rude and arrogant on his face, but its jerkness when he calls her rich and spoilt on her face ? Why is that so ? what has she done which doesn't prove that she is exploiting her money ? she has not given him any reasons to think her mature and well behaved . Moreover, he is an insecure father, he hates to see his son cry, he knows his son is happy with Myrah, he knows that Myrah's involvement in his life can make things harsher, so why would he ever try and let Myrah know about Paro and make her behave like a mother to dhruv ? thats wrong ..

Myrah is spineless obviously, the owner of the house is pathetically rude towards her and she still behaves like a school kid and barges into everything that happens in his life ? its shameful, that on one side she tries to be the woman with power and self respect and on the other side she herself has no basic manners and attitude to deserve respect. No wonder even a lady like Maithili was also pissed at her.

A man like Rudra who suffered so much, is not a piece whom Myrah can understand or can handle, and its not Rudra's responsiblity to make her realise that as he does not owe her anything, it was her own decision to stay with him and now when she wants to attach herself with everything he does, she deserves this, be it Rudra's rudeness. And about manhandling her, well she herself falls on him for 1000 times a day, and once he holds her arm for an arguement he becomes the manhandler, and gets a lash from her , and thats why the show and its female lead character never amuses me, may be because of the biased attitude the male lead character faces.

Edited by harshu.sundas - 11 years ago

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Midnight

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Posted: 11 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: Rupunzale
exactly...he is nothing but rude to her...I really don't get this guy...he just hadn't changed...he was rude...judgmental ...manhandled Paro...later realized he was wrong...and now he goes the same...if he really cannot stand Mhyra...be a man enough and let her know his problem...walking around all judgmental is just been hypocrisy...

For me Paro died...we all saw her in the blood pool been cremated...Mhyra cannot be Paro...I love Mhyra as an individual and honestly want to watch her interaction with her fiance...Rudra and Mhyra aren't going well...there is no chemistry and honestly Rudra looks like a man in his 40s...he is too old for her. I just cannot digest this age difference...

Same here, I want to see her interactions and scenes with Rohit more than Rudra.

Rudra looks like a man in his is mid 30's and Myrah looks like a girl fresh out of collage. They look mismatched in everyway to be honest. Myrah is no Paro who can cool him down, she's bubbly, carefree and childish. And this combination & Rudra just don't go well together.

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