What is Mhyra's fault here?

The answer is...she has none...I just don't get this...why does she have to bear Rudra's insults...accusations...and judgemental words each and everytime. She doesn't know that she is a look a like of Rudra's wife or the kid's mom...? She absolutely has no inclination...

She is a carefree woman who is in India to get married...Cvs...keep it to that...why does she have to get involved with a man with a baggage and that too of his wife or she has to be a mother to his kid...? This is absurd...so in your imagination...a NRI woman ...who is progressive...educated...independent...falls for a man who repeatedly manhandles her...insults her...you've got to be kidding me ?

It seems that you guys have some pre conceived notions about NRIs and that too about Americans...being an American myself...I find it extremely offensive.

Right now, I don't see a single reason that Myrah can fall for a man like Rudra. She can feel sorry for her actions which hurt him (she already does), she can respect him for his love for his wife, she can even admire him for the father he is to Dhruv. But a girl like her fall for a guy like him? I cannot imagine why she would do so ... he has been nothing but rude to her and completely and irrationally judgemental since the first day they met ... because of his own issues, not even anything much that she has done.

Originally posted by: DiyaS

Right now, I don't see a single reason that Myrah can fall for a man like Rudra. She can feel sorry for her actions which hurt him (she already does), she can respect him for his love for his wife, she can even admire him for the father he is to Dhruv. But a girl like her fall for a guy like him? I cannot imagine why she would do so ... he has been nothing but rude to her and completely and irrationally judgemental since the first day they met ... because of his own issues, not even anything much that she has done.

She is childish, she is immature, she is careless, she acts without thinking ... these are her biggest faults. But she has been kept in the dark deliberately about the root cause of Rudra's problem with her ... so how is it her fault? It's been shown time and again that when she realises her mistake, she feels truly bad and tries to make amends. She has repeatedly asked Rudra, what problem he has with her, why does he hate her so much?

When is Rudra going to realise his mistake about keeping her in the dark ... and apologise to her? IS he ever going to do so?

*edited * ... and currently, I think Myrah deserves someone better than Rudra ... a man with a mountain of emotional baggage, a child, unresolved guilt, still in love with his wife (I refuse to call Paro dead) ... what can he offer to Myrah? He can't even give her his love ... that is reserved for Paro and for Paro's son, Dhruv.

exactly...he is nothing but rude to her...I really don't get this guy...he just hadn't changed...he was rude...judgmental ...manhandled Paro...later realized he was wrong...and now he goes the same...if he really cannot stand Mhyra...be a man enough and let her know his problem...walking around all judgmental is just been hypocrisy...

For me Paro died...we all saw her in the blood pool been cremated...Mhyra cannot be Paro...I love Mhyra as an individual and honestly want to watch her interaction with her fiance...Rudra and Mhyra aren't going well...there is no chemistry and honestly Rudra looks like a man in his 40s...he is too old for her. I just cannot digest this age difference...

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

exactly...he is nothing but rude to her...I really don't get this guy...he just hadn't changed...he was rude...judgmental ...manhandled Paro...later realized he was wrong...and now he goes the same...if he really cannot stand Mhyra...be a man enough and let her know his problem...walking around all judgmental is just been hypocrisy...

For me Paro died...we all saw her in the blood pool been cremated...Mhyra cannot be Paro...I love Mhyra as an individual and honestly want to watch her interaction with her fiance...Rudra and Mhyra aren't going well...there is no chemistry and honestly Rudra looks like a man in his 40s...he is too old for her. I just cannot digest this age difference...

I think he is in pain and all this accusation of spoilt rich girl are his defence mechanism to cope with this pain. He wants to keep her on distance by being rude to her and accusing her of being a spoilt, rich girl who doesnt know anything. I think everytime he looks at her face he is in pain and he lashes out verbally.
Rudra might have changed in many ways but one thing didnt change: When he is in pain that he doesn't think about what he is saying. I think this trait is too deep within him and unfortunately I don't think this will change.

the most logical think would be if he says the truth to her. But he doesn't...

And I don't understand why Myra puts up with him. Which normal girl would spend her last ten days before wedding at place where the house owner is totally rude to her...She seems to be a confindent clever girl but in Rudra's case she doesn't seems to think normally...

Right now I don't understand which way the CVs have choosen, but in my opinion the story between Rudra and Myra makes no sense. I understand them individually but not as a pair.

I'm gonna just talk about the prank. Excluding the manhandling, I'm on Team Rudra. Myrah doesn't know that she is Paro's humshakal. She knows nothing. That's fine. However, her prank was just stupid and rude. She is in THEIR house as THEIR guest, whether or not it's BSD property or she pulled political strings to stay there. Rudra and his family still reside there - she doesn't. Plus, Rudra laughing at her was SPONTANEOUS. She pulled that prank purposely and maliciously TO CAUSE HIM PAIN. Tell me, that's okay to do? Yes, she she doesn't know she looks like Paro, but is that the way to behave? Hurt somebody intentionally to get your way? This isn't about knowing about his dead wife, this is about common courtesy and basic manners. You all say Rudra has no manners and is rude, but nobody considers what she did rude? She saw Rudra and Maithili talking about how that song makes him feel sad and ajeeb and she still does this? Why are any of you excusing this?

I am actually blaming both lol 😆

Originally posted by: Deedeepa1

I am actually blaming both lol 😆

Totally agree.

Originally posted by: SanayaIsBest

Totally agree.

I am sick of this on going perpetual coping mechanism of Rudra.

He is unable to cope with his baggage, so he piles on his frustrations on someone else.

He hasn't changed one bit.

Of course Myra is no Paro either. But I would not blame her so much because she is kept in the dark, whereas Rudra knows and is not telling the truth.