Originally posted by: CyberOstrich
Hi Ankita... I too want Rudra to let go finally...and I know what paro wants is the best for him...but i have an issue when one hand she says Jaane do but she also says that there is a lakir and she wants him 'that paar' of the lakir which I assume is 'her paar' which included the family as well. I have an issue coz the way Rudra is tired of all this ..maybe he should be let to set his own pace to paar that lakir..and what if he does not want to paar karo it and as he said he just wants Paro on his side of the lakir? I really feel in these situations its best to take a clean break and get away and maybe after a a pause when you are a little distanced from it all..you are more amenable generally? Also because the next thing is we see a display of his childhood things and him being prodded to talk again just because his parents remember everything about his bachpan? Really- Just because of THAT? I am not being negative but I have these issues...but again this is an indian soap world...so hum saath saath hain toh hoga hi more sooner than later!
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See, Rudra is given time, the only thing he'll do is continue running away. It has always been like that with him. Until and unless you get in his face, keep on prodding him, he never faces things that need realizations. Didn't that happen when he had to accept Paro's love as well??
It is just in his nature to avoid feelings, talking, and all things that gnaw him in general and take the easy route out. He did that for eight years by going to Laila.
But Paro, is different. She knows he needs to heal because she wants a real and healthy relationship with him.
And all Paro has been asking of him is that he talk. She is not asking that he LOVE them. She knows it'll take a long time before he can actually love his mother. Like maybe the next janam or something.
But he really needs to face them. Uptil now, he doesn't even meet eyes with his mother.
And even a single mention of hers makes him a volcano. How can a wife live with a husband who goes volatile every now and then? Isn't it better if he's psychologically healed? And the first step is that he stop running. That he stop being at war with everything and everyone in existence, including himself.
All your issues are real. And in real life, people tend to take time off. But to some degrees, it usually is running away from your problems. You run. You drink it away. You smoke it away.
What Paro is trying to do is what therapists do. Heal.
And after watching tonight's episode, for me it feels ki agar hum saath saath hai hoga bhi, toh his relationship with his parents will be like he is with Maithili... She matters to him only because she matters to Paro. Everything will be measured in terms of Paro. Kyunki uske liye Paro se shuru hoti hai zindagi... Aur Paro pe khatm.
Maine bahot pehle kahaa tha... Ab dekh rahi hu toh aur bhi accha lag raha hai... Rudra jab pyaar karega, toh toot ke karega.
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