They never loved rudr

Originally posted by: fiza005

PLEASE don't bash me up ts just my POV

its basically mala and dilsher never loved each other. rudr baby was not so wanted i guess an unexpected baby.

U may think mala was right but i don't . she witnessed and bared torture all along. she should have waited a lil bt more , as a mom she should have secued her baby's future. Imagine agar tejawat na mila hota to. i feel a woman has power to change a man, its god gifted talent ( some psychos are exceptional) she loved tejawat more than rudr. if she dint attempt to change her hubby then she never loved him. tejawat was so rich dnt she made othe attempts to take rudr or meet him. phone calls to danveeer dose not justify

dlsher he seemed to be such a good person a father in law more than father. if paro changed him than mala should have. i don't understand them.

rudr baby has really donated gold shiv jis to get wife like paro. she s only one who loves him unconditionally.

Originally posted by: vann

No she doesn't. Don't waste your precious time efforts and energy doing that ever. It will be waste and loss of your years and dignity.

Originally posted by: Shweta1691

Paro didn't change Dilsher. She was just the triggering point which drained all the poison in Dilsher. Nobody could have changed Dilsher if he didn't want to change himself . I guess by the time paro entered the father -son duo's life, Dilsher had had enough of his own poison and paro's love for both of them gave him the courage to let go of all that he had been holding onto. To let go of 30 years worth of poison inside a person has to be first willing himself to change . So he might think that because of paro he changed but it wasn't just that.

Mala gave more than fifteen years to an abusive relationship. She should have left much before. And she couldn't have changed Dilsher if he decided to be an egoistic stubborn male. When his own son didn't mellow him down then Mala was just a thorn in his side. And saying that she should have loved him and made him a better person is not how it works. You don't MAKE someone love a person. Dilsher never loved Mala. Mala never loved Dilsher. So why should she act like she is in love and behave like it's all roses and fun when it isn't? Agar tejawat na mila hota tho koi aur hota. It was just a matter of time before she would have taken a drastic step. She didn't leave the house because she was in love with tejawat. She left because she was in an abusive relationship. But yes , not fighting for Rudra was wrong. She didn't do right by her son. He was her responsibility and she should have made a planned escape instead of doing the midnight running sequence.

At the end, both parents are wrong. Not because they didn't try making a dying relationship work but because they let their problems affect the life of their child. That was selfish and immature and something that they should be made paid for.

Originally posted by: vann

No she doesn't. Don't waste your precious time efforts and energy doing that ever. It will be waste and loss of your years and dignity.

Originally posted by: kutkut12

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<div>I agree there is no point in wasting your time in an abusive relationship and I don't know why people keep comparing MAla to Paro. Paro came to Rudra as a suspect and he thought that she was with Tejawat so his treating her like a criminal was justified but Mala was Dilsher's wife...a wife he had preferred over Mohini and then he abused her...and people say she should have been more patient?

Though Rudra married PAro in a most dishonourable way he never treated her dishonourably. He was angry because he thought that's he had tried to kill his father...anybody would be but then also he never hit her. What abt Dilsher? He hit wife regulary.

You say that she should have waited more after Rudra's birth and waited for Dilsher to change. OMG seriously...don't you think that 13 or 14 years(whatever was Rudra's age at that time) was enough to make a man realize that he is a father now😕and he should be more responsible towards his family.

Lastly, dear don't believe too much in the power of a woman to change a man. These things are far too romanticised in fiction. Reality can bea rudeawakening.