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Posted: 11 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: evenjleena28
I think she is disconnected...yes she was a victim of domestic violence and my sympathies are with her for that but I don't think she understands the severity of the situation as yet.

that seems true , now and before too

i remember the scenes that you mentioned , i was also taken aback when she said lets bring rudra and his wife home lol

the only explanation that i have is in mala mind she is not at fault because its like she tried and dilsher didnt let her or they were long gone from chandangadh and no one knew their whereabouts or something , and so she thought rudra was in the same page , wanted to meet his mom but didnt cos of his father

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Vibha

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Posted: 11 years ago

#32

Originally posted by: ttt1

that seems true , now and before too

i remember the scenes that you mentioned , i was also taken aback when she said lets bring rudra and his wife home lol

the only explanation that i have is in mala mind she is not at fault because its like she tried and dilsher didnt let her or they were long gone from chandangadh and no one knew their whereabouts or something , and so she thought rudra was in the same page , wanted to meet his mom but didnt cos of his father

I disagree Priya,, in her mind she is disconnected, its not fathomable for an adult woman to think her son would be okay if she just comes and says hello...that's childlike. And regarding whereabouts she had the means to hire an investigator and look for the boy...or to go to his school that month when they were in chandangarh...

I am thinking of her as nave...and not connected with the situation because its not possible for anyone to behave the way she has and does...not judging her I will not do that absolutely not judging her but playing devil's advocate...and that's the reason Rudra should hear her side and decide where to go from there...otherwise you,me and the whole forum can sprout out theories after theories until and unless we have the full story that's what they are...theories...no facts.

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tttttt1

@tttttt1

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Posted: 11 years ago

#33

Originally posted by: evenjleena28
I disagree Priya,, in her mind she is disconnected, its not fathomable for an adult woman to think her son would be okay if she just comes and says hello...that's childlike. And regarding whereabouts she had the means to hire an investigator and look for the boy...or to go to his school that month when they were in chandangarh...

I am thinking of her as nave...and not connected with the situation because its not possible for anyone to behave the way she has and does...not judging her I will not do that absolutely not judging her but playing devil's advocate...and that's the reason Rudra should hear her side and decide where to go from there...otherwise you,me and the whole forum can sprout out theories after theories until and unless we have the full story that's what they are...theories...no facts.

i already agreed that she seems disconnected twice :-)

frankly i dont want to see mala as clueless , i want to see her as someone who is bold enough to take decisions . its a village vibs, investigator i am not sure i think she did what she thought was best kept in contact with danveer to know any thing and the moment she realized rudra is in town and his where abouts she came to meet him

ten years is way too long , i agree she could have done something else , but my point here is her confidence of facing rudra , the first time is because she assumed he would understand that they are on same page ,that means there is a strong reason,s we might see what it is soon

ofcourse theory , fact i think max in 3 episodes , because i think this track is coming to an end

Edited by tttttt1 - 11 years ago

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farheen75

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Posted: 11 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: evenjleena28
The thing though is none of this has been shown yet...I don't think Mala is playing the victim card, she was like this when she was with Tejawat as well...everything will be well when it obviously isn't it and Dilsher I think he does want to save himself but also mend the gap. Rudra is an adult now so as an adult he has to atleast give his mother a chance to say her side ...according to the spoilers seems like Mala got kicked out..so I don't how that will work. I agree with your last line though that in order to make better life for themselves they ended up damaging the child who has now grown into a very bitter adult.

I personally believe everyone deserves a chance to tell their story...as yes I mean criminals as well...then after hearing their story one can decide to forgive or forget. That's fair...we would expect to be given one chance to be heard then why cant we do the same for others?

No mala was very happy with Tejawat and why wouldn't she bcz no matter waht Tejawat was for the outside world he was a great husband to mala plus mala never knew abt his villainous side so life was heaven for her.

Dilsher as u rightly said wants to mend every damage but to do that he has to tell the truth and then hope that rudra will forgive him.

In an ideal world rudra should be forgiving or at least give his mum a chance but in a real world these things very rarely happens, one parent has to be the villain, what he went through as a child and how it damaged his psyche is simply unimaginable and then to expect him to give a chance to his parents who never given him a chance to have a normal or at least near normal childhood is a very daunting task and kids don't do that, yes from inside rudra is still the same child who never grew up mentally and emotionally... kids like rudra either becomes mature in a very early age or just stop growing emotinally and mentally and in rudra's case its the latter, he is volatile and possessive like a kid who doesn't wanna share his relations with anybody like he doesn't wanna share paro with anybody else.

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Jungli Billi

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Posted: 11 years ago

#35

Mala seems the most confused soul right now

Wont comment on her selfishness , dont know her past story

But What i think is that that the abuse went beyond her limit that she was not able to take any more of it and she left or

dilsher was the one who had a doubt on her character and created a situation where she had no choice but to leave

She wanted to take rudro but DIlsher didnt allow it despite that she left because she may have thought that he has a family of uncle aunt , cousins and father who will take care of him

PS: may be Tejawat at that time was her saviour

Disher is turning out the biggest culprit right now

I hope i made sense because i am very bad in writing long replies😆

Edited by MesmerizingSanz - 11 years ago

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DiyaS

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Posted: 11 years ago

#36

Enjoyed reading all the discussions here ... awesome post!!!

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FairyLiquidSoap

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Posted: 11 years ago

#37

res cos I love you and how you put up with my erratic appearances ❤️

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Vibha

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Posted: 11 years ago

#38

Originally posted by: MesmerizingSanz
Mala seems the most confused soul right now
Wont comment on her selfishness , dont know her past story

But What i think is that that the abuse went beyond her limit that she was not able to take any more of it and she left or

dilsher was the one who had a doubt on her character and created a situation where she had no choice but to leave

She wanted to take rudro but DIlsher didnt allow it despite that she left because she may have thought that he has a family of uncle aunt , cousins and father who will take care of him

PS: may be Tejawat at that time was her saviour

Disher is turning out the biggest culprit right now

I hope i made sense because i am very bad in writing long replies😆

This is perfect, brilliant and correct...because as we saw this is the story...love what you wrote here...I don't know what to write because you said it all dearie😊