A request to my RR family - Page 4

Originally posted by: MoronsKiMallika

@Hiral.

Filhaal let me go and make a post for you because this post makes me feel guilty. 🤔🤔

wow! That was quite a post Hiral! you were standing on the soapbox alright! :-)

Originally posted by: deep0909

wow! That was quite a post Hiral! you were standing on the soapbox alright! :-)

I agree with everything you said. I found this website after I got hooked to watching rangrasiya and couldn't believe my fortune to find so many likeminded people discussing this as avidly as I would like to! indeed it was as exciting as watching the serial itself.

Everybody you called out above have contributed to making this place the warm, exciting and energetic place it is. Sad to see their voices go quiet...

princess sunara was like paro herself. so gentle and her posts even more so... finding positive in everything...

hope they hear your plea and come back...

Originally posted by: hiralnehal

Deep... Bang on... The soapbox is truly slippery and I am trying so hard to stay put... With ref to princess .. You are so right... Just discovered she has made a post on written update... Will try n drag her here ... Wish me luck...

Originally posted by: deep0909

Wish you all the luck and power! you go girl!

Originally posted by: napstermonster

I dont think I've ever been more flattered, more touched or more ashamed of myself, all at the same time! I truly am so honored that you thought my contributions helped you feel anything at all in the forum, TM, and I have to admit, I have stayed away (reading posts now and then, but mostly checking in on PMs) because of the negativity which was pretty vivid for the past few weeks.


Can I tell you how proud I am you included me in your list? Because I am! I think I'll say some things I nrmally would have kept quiet about, just because if even one person who reads this and realizes it pays to be less negative, I will have done something good for myself tonight.This was the first forum after IPKKND that truly made me feel good about posting, its a safe and nurturing environment.


When anyone posts, there will be a few open comments on the thread--but behind the scenes, there are a LOT of PMs where people can be more blatant. Ether sweeter and more private, or...meaner, more painful. A comment on the open forum is different from PMs posters can get, and negative PMs can really hurt. A lot of us (serialjunkie, princesssunara and naach basanti, for example) --are from the older forum, where things got ugly real fast, onscreen and online.I dont speak for them but for myself when I that I am once bitten, twice shy. Readers who've read my past fiction know I am very susceptible to negative stuff even if I try to stay away from it. it totally zaps my writing. I saw the trend before on IPKKND and that was horrible, so this time, seeing a very mild version of that here made me over sensitive, perhaps.


BUT, TM, YOU are RIGHT. You are absolutely goddamn right. You have beautifully and poignantly reminded me that Its my forum too, not just the negative people who react so stupidly to rational discourse. You people are my friends too, what the hell am I doing, acting pricey and staying away and missing you lot? I am staying away from updating, and from posting and all ALL THE WHILE I am MISSING you people! I think I have over-reacted, in staying away and just choosing to go silent.

My dear, you have given me a shot in the arm, and I will make a conscious effort to be more present post, update the stories and interact with my friends, because hell--MY friends, MY forum, MY Rangrasiya!

Love,

Navin

Originally posted by: napstermonster

I dont think I've ever been more flattered, more touched or more ashamed of myself, all at the same time! I truly am so honored that you thought my contributions helped you feel anything at all in the forum, TM, and I have to admit, I have stayed away (reading posts now and then, but mostly checking in on PMs) because of the negativity which was pretty vivid for the past few weeks.


Can I tell you how proud I am you included me in your list? Because I am! I think I'll say some things I nrmally would have kept quiet about, just because if even one person who reads this and realizes it pays to be less negative, I will have done something good for myself tonight.This was the first forum after IPKKND that truly made me feel good about posting, its a safe and nurturing environment.


When anyone posts, there will be a few open comments on the thread--but behind the scenes, there are a LOT of PMs where people can be more blatant. Ether sweeter and more private, or...meaner, more painful. A comment on the open forum is different from PMs posters can get, and negative PMs can really hurt. A lot of us (serialjunkie, princesssunara and naach basanti, for example) --are from the older forum, where things got ugly real fast, onscreen and online.I dont speak for them but for myself when I that I am once bitten, twice shy. Readers who've read my past fiction know I am very susceptible to negative stuff even if I try to stay away from it. it totally zaps my writing. I saw the trend before on IPKKND and that was horrible, so this time, seeing a very mild version of that here made me over sensitive, perhaps.


BUT, TM, YOU are RIGHT. You are absolutely goddamn right. You have beautifully and poignantly reminded me that Its my forum too, not just the negative people who react so stupidly to rational discourse. You people are my friends too, what the hell am I doing, acting pricey and staying away and missing you lot? I am staying away from updating, and from posting and all ALL THE WHILE I am MISSING you people! I think I have over-reacted, in staying away and just choosing to go silent.

My dear, you have given me a shot in the arm, and I will make a conscious effort to be more present post, update the stories and interact with my friends, because hell--MY friends, MY forum, MY Rangrasiya!

Love,

Navin