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Posted: 11 years ago
#51
thank you for the post!! lets get unite guys!! lets become parud fans and RR fans all in the same side :D lets make RR rock and fly in the sky !!!!!!!!!!!!!! :D
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hi Hiral, heartful thanks for making this post and trying to bring back some of our wonderful writers.😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hiral, that was so heartwarming and heartrending!
We must never stop appealing to the good ones! They are needed, they are the essence, they are the spirit!

And am
I sure they will see this and be back!
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Posted: 11 years ago
#54
@TM
Can I hug u for this post???😊
I guess this was in the minds of all the forum members but we couldn't post it but u did it woman! and I can see positive effects of this posts on the forum already.
And all the lovely writers of the forum,we love u,we may be silent readers but we adore,admire and love what u write for all of us.It just increases the fun of watching RR so plz keep writing and don't let the negativity spoil this lovely place.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: napstermonster

I dont think I've ever been more flattered, more touched or more ashamed of myself, all at the same time! I truly am so honored that you thought my contributions helped you feel anything at all in the forum, TM, and I have to admit, I have stayed away (reading posts now and then, but mostly checking in on PMs) because of the negativity which was pretty vivid for the past few weeks.


Can I tell you how proud I am you included me in your list? Because I am! I think I'll say some things I normally would have kept quiet about, just because if even one person who reads this then realizes it pays to be less negative, I will have done something good for myself tonight.This was the first forum after IPKKND that truly made me feel good about posting, Its been a safe and nurturing environment.


When anyone posts, there will be a few open comments on the thread--but behind the scenes, there are a LOT of PMs where people can be more blatant. Either sweeter and more private, or...meaner, more painful. A comment on the open forum is different from PMs posters can get, and negative PMs can really hurt. A lot of us (serialjunkie, princesssunara and naach basanti, for example) --are from the older forum, where things got ugly real fast, onscreen and online.I dont speak for them but for myself when I say that I am once bitten, twice shy. Readers who've read my past fiction know I am very susceptible to negative stuff even if I try to stay away from it. It totally zaps my writing. I DONT mean criticism or discussion of my analysis, or comments on my writing, which I LIVE for. I mean nasty little PMs asking me to stop writing since I am butchering the character, or a snide comment saying that I should just stop watching if I hate xyz so much. I saw the trend before on IPKKND and that was horrible, so this time, seeing a very mild version of that here made me over sensitive, perhaps.


BUT, TM, YOU are RIGHT. You are absolutely goddamn right. You have beautifully and poignantly reminded me that its my forum too, not just the negative people who react so stupidly to rational discourse. You people are my friends too, what the hell am I doing, acting pricey and staying away and missing you lot? I am staying away from updating, and from posting and all ALL THE WHILE I am MISSING you people! I think I have over-reacted, in staying away and just choosing to go silent.



My dear, you have given me a shot in the arm, and I will make a conscious effort to be more present post, update the stories and interact with my friends, because hell--MY friends, MY forum, MY Rangrasiya!

Love,
Navin

Alrighty then! This is wonderful! So now that we are back in business can we get some hard timelines on when we can see the yesterday and tomorrow series moving forward? I read your new rebirth that is part of that series... But would really really like to see you take the others forward...
:-)
Edited by deep0909 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#56

Originally posted by: napstermonster

I dont think I've ever been more flattered, more touched or more ashamed of myself, all at the same time! I truly am so honored that you thought my contributions helped you feel anything at all in the forum, TM, and I have to admit, I have stayed away (reading posts now and then, but mostly checking in on PMs) because of the negativity which was pretty vivid for the past few weeks.


Can I tell you how proud I am you included me in your list? Because I am! I think I'll say some things I normally would have kept quiet about, just because if even one person who reads this then realizes it pays to be less negative, I will have done something good for myself tonight.This was the first forum after IPKKND that truly made me feel good about posting, Its been a safe and nurturing environment.


When anyone posts, there will be a few open comments on the thread--but behind the scenes, there are a LOT of PMs where people can be more blatant. Either sweeter and more private, or...meaner, more painful. A comment on the open forum is different from PMs posters can get, and negative PMs can really hurt. A lot of us (serialjunkie, princesssunara and naach basanti, for example) --are from the older forum, where things got ugly real fast, onscreen and online.I dont speak for them but for myself when I say that I am once bitten, twice shy. Readers who've read my past fiction know I am very susceptible to negative stuff even if I try to stay away from it. It totally zaps my writing. I DONT mean criticism or discussion of my analysis, or comments on my writing, which I LIVE for. I mean nasty little PMs asking me to stop writing since I am butchering the character, or a snide comment saying that I should just stop watching if I hate xyz so much. I saw the trend before on IPKKND and that was horrible, so this time, seeing a very mild version of that here made me over sensitive, perhaps.


BUT, TM, YOU are RIGHT. You are absolutely goddamn right. You have beautifully and poignantly reminded me that its my forum too, not just the negative people who react so stupidly to rational discourse. You people are my friends too, what the hell am I doing, acting pricey and staying away and missing you lot? I am staying away from updating, and from posting and all ALL THE WHILE I am MISSING you people! I think I have over-reacted, in staying away and just choosing to go silent.



My dear, you have given me a shot in the arm, and I will make a conscious effort to be more present post, update the stories and interact with my friends, because hell--MY friends, MY forum, MY Rangrasiya!

Love,
Navin

Navinsa,
I rewrote my post several times before posting because it did have the capacity to trigger yet another conflict in an extremely toxic atmosphere where in a member would be seen appeasing the other and also lamenting on those who are perceived to be posting only one sided posts..

Baisa, it's an honour for me to read something which you would have sealed within ourself otherwise, you really really don't know how much you have been missed here. And if I can speak for all those members of the forum who agree with me... not even a single day has gone by missing your writing.

It is extremely sad that the negativity took a toll on on your writing and therefore you..

And this is the crux of my problem, my hurt, that the leads of my family have walked away... leaving the chotus like us .. wandering helplessly... a TM echoed on Vikcy's thread: bhatakti aatma ki tarah roaming around the forum to read a balanced piece and then share views...

But the fact remains that it the sanity will come back only if all you... and many more whom I missed mentioning return with the new enthusiasm and a renewed spirit, which will match step by step with Rudra's unfolding passion for his Paro as they discover each other and slowly lit the fire for demanding each other..

I have two connections with the previous show that cannot be named. My niece Aditi, who is a die-hard die-hard fan of Ms Irani, who actually mirrors the love this forum has for the leads of that show, and lovely people like you in this forum who are still so so committed to it and its characters and actors...

Baisa, the PM is an excellent tool which helps us choose what we would want to read or delete. Also one suggestion, though you have not even sought it... I think it is important to steel yourself when the vulnerability is super high.

Do even realise that you actually gave in to those who did not want you to write.. if people do not like what you write.. they should not read what you write. Kissa Khatam. Aison ke liye aap humse kaise door jaa sakte ho.. we are a surely deprived lot here..

A lot of us (serialjunkie, princesssunara and naach basanti, for example) --are from the older forum, where things got ugly real fast, onscreen and online.I dont speak for them but for myself when I say that I am once bitten, twice shy.

And yes, I am reiterating here again:

This is Your forum, Your Rudra, Your Paro, Your Rangrasiay, Your friends and Your family.

Baisa, you are not at all acting pricey and staying away because of that. You are hurt and we need to be with you to nurse your wounds... virtually hi sahee... dil ke dard ko to sirf pyaar aur mohabbat se hi kam kar sakte hai... aur woh aapke liye hum sab mein koot koot kar bhara hai..

Ab thodi hamari izzat afzaayi kijiye aur kaam pe lagaye... woh third part jiska hum dil thaam ke intezaar kar rahe hai.. woh pesh karen...

Loads of love and hugs and kisses

Hiral

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Posted: 11 years ago
#57

Originally posted by: Tess77


YEAH!!! I am so happy!!🄳

Tess ... i was on the verge of choking with the absence of the fresh air these lovely writers provide.. and happy that your are happy
Edited by hiralnehal - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ArnavKhushijodi

Hiral Baisa thank you for making the post to encourage all the star writers to return and post on RR forum!!šŸ‘šŸ‘ Great to see some of them responding to the love shown to them through your lovely post, hoping others return too!! 😃

Hi darling,
it is an ongoing team effort.. i just happened to initiate something which almost all of us were missing and a few were even scared to speak out...
The challenge now is to ensure that they resume their excellent writing and i am sure this would usher in a new phase of our affair with RR...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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[QUOTE=SherryGS]Hi there... I think you voiced an opinion a lot of us share. We are all similar and I know for myself also came to IF first for info then got all wrapped up. Good to meet you and hope we hear from you again. thank you for responding dear and good to meet you too... i am a big fan of your stories.. just love them.. we all are on the same side of the coin.. with Rudra and Paro on the other side... joint at the hip...
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Posted: 11 years ago
#60

Originally posted by: KhushiParo

Want this post on the first page so that most of the members can see and understand the pain of the good writers and also the viewers who miss them.

@princesssunara---- missing your captions very much. Can we have a bargain 3times a week or 2 times please...
Napster Baisa read most of your stories and eagerly waiting for updates.

Hi, dont know about the first page thing... i am completely technologically challenged.. but yes would like many others like me and you to come to this thread and speak up so that our writers are super convinced and they resume...

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