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Losing someone is painful,voluntarily moving away from that someone, dreading that the moment would come any time,when every touch might be the last,trying to cram every word,every glance in your mind fearing that tomorrow would be different...
Some might argue that if Paro loved Rudra,how does that explain her promise to Bholenath when she oh so easily decided to leave her husband,someone she loved with all her heart in exchange for his life. But that is the thing.
Mhare khushi ,mhare khwaab ,mhare jeevan se bhi zyaada,sabse zyaada aapse pyaar karti hoon major saab,aur karti rahungi.
Her love is unconditional. So what if her heart breaks ,she would have memories to dwell upon.She could sacrifice her happiness,her smiles, everything knowing that soon her major saab was going to become alright.
Isn't Paro selfish ? Leaving him just because of a promise she made ? Hmmph. But how is it selfish when all you wanted to do was stay behind ? To somehow freeze that time spent ,savouring every moment with him. To wake up every morning without seeing his face was agony, reminiscing about the times she spent with him was bitter sweet.
And overriding this pain, she decides that a promise is a promise. Maybe she shouldn't have been hasty enough to make that promise knowing that one day it would have to be fulfilled. But it was her major saab they were talking about who was fighting for his life and she only did it as a last minute resort.
And this dialogue comes to my mind-
'Pyar ka matlab sirf pyar ka izhaar karna nahi hota ...
pyar bina kuch kahe bhi, pyar hi hai ... pyar qurbani
bhi hai ... pyar ek doosre ke liye chup rehna bhi hai ...
pyar ka matlab sirf pyar ko pana nahi hai ... pyar kisi
aur ki khushi ke liye, apni khushi mitana bhi hai'
Love doesn't mean expressing love all the time,it can also be sacrificing one's happiness for his. Unconditional,love for the sake of loving, no other reason whatsoever.
Some might argue that if Paro loved Rudra,how does that explain her promise to Bholenath when she oh so easily decided to leave her husband,someone she loved with all her heart in exchange for his life. But that is the thing.
Mhare khushi ,mhare khwaab ,mhare jeevan se bhi zyaada,sabse zyaada aapse pyaar karti hoon major saab,aur karti rahungi.
Her love is unconditional. So what if her heart breaks ,she would have memories to dwell upon.She could sacrifice her happiness,her smiles, everything knowing that soon her major saab was going to become alright.
Isn't Paro selfish ? Leaving him just because of a promise she made ? Hmmph. But how is it selfish when all you wanted to do was stay behind ? To somehow freeze that time spent ,savouring every moment with him. To wake up every morning without seeing his face was agony, reminiscing about the times she spent with him was bitter sweet.
And overriding this pain, she decides that a promise is a promise. Maybe she shouldn't have been hasty enough to make that promise knowing that one day it would have to be fulfilled. But it was her major saab they were talking about who was fighting for his life and she only did it as a last minute resort.
And this dialogue comes to my mind-
'Pyar ka matlab sirf pyar ka izhaar karna nahi hota ...
pyar bina kuch kahe bhi, pyar hi hai ... pyar qurbani
bhi hai ... pyar ek doosre ke liye chup rehna bhi hai ...
pyar ka matlab sirf pyar ko pana nahi hai ... pyar kisi
aur ki khushi ke liye, apni khushi mitana bhi hai'
Love doesn't mean expressing love all the time,it can also be sacrificing one's happiness for his. Unconditional,love for the sake of loving, no other reason whatsoever.
All this may sound so extreme and unbelievable for a third person but that is life,one does not know what googly it might throw at you and what is destined as well.
So this is Paro's situation💔. And her confession was her baring her soul in front of him. She had to make him realise how much he meant to her,how much value he had in her life and her eyes shine with the transparency and strength of that love she bore for him.
Was there ever a confession like this ? My hands trembled,felt hot tears running through my cheeks wanting to somehow freeze time for these two 😭 How does Sanaya manage to do this every single time ? *standing ovation from my side*
PaRud scenes were again bitter sweet for me,my mind a torrent of emotions and I'm sure you all felt the same. Maithli taking Paro and Rudra's arthi knowing what is about to come ,rushing from there before the tears could spill out,was heart wrenching. Geethanjali,take a bow. 👏
Very emotional episode and touching. Thank you Sanaya and Ashish for playing Paro and Rudra and making everything so lifelike for us. No one else could have done it better.
So this is Paro's situation💔. And her confession was her baring her soul in front of him. She had to make him realise how much he meant to her,how much value he had in her life and her eyes shine with the transparency and strength of that love she bore for him.
Was there ever a confession like this ? My hands trembled,felt hot tears running through my cheeks wanting to somehow freeze time for these two 😭 How does Sanaya manage to do this every single time ? *standing ovation from my side*
PaRud scenes were again bitter sweet for me,my mind a torrent of emotions and I'm sure you all felt the same. Maithli taking Paro and Rudra's arthi knowing what is about to come ,rushing from there before the tears could spill out,was heart wrenching. Geethanjali,take a bow. 👏
Very emotional episode and touching. Thank you Sanaya and Ashish for playing Paro and Rudra and making everything so lifelike for us. No one else could have done it better.
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Kumkum Bhagya
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