Couldnt appreciate Paro..

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Posted: 11 years ago
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When she argued with Rudra abt the reason behind Mala's betrayal..
Acc to Paro, Mala should be given a benefit of doubt because she was not aware about the evil side of Tejawat when she fell in love with him,, I found this thought process to be very shallow,,😡😕
In saying that she completely ignored Rudra's pain,, she completely ignored that 10 year old kid..

Like Rudra said, So what?? Is Paro expecting a lill adolescent boy to be fine with the fact that her mother wants to run away and marry another man just because she fell in love with him,, I am not going into the details about the strained relationship between Rudra's parents,, but does that gives her any right to abandon her son who is completely oblivious to the dynamics between a man and a woman ..

In such extra marital affairs induced both by the mother or the father , where do their children stand????
Ok Mala wanted to move on from a loveless marriage , fair enough , but atleast dont justify it by undermining Rudra's tormented childhood... Logic kaha gayaa yar..????

I still dont know what compelled Mala to tke such a huge step ,, my post is in retaliation to what Paro said ,
Her apologizing to Rudra later still did not strike a chord with me,, because the deal was already sealed,,,

I started to like Paro since past 2 weeks but now everything is back to square one,, May be,,😕

Bad job CVs...

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hmmm .. I will go with that paro is a tubelight.. 😆 Uski deemag ki bati der se jalti hain.. Lolz
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Posted: 11 years ago
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The side paro has seen of thakuriyan is totally different from what rudra thinks of her as a mother. For her thakuriayn is a mother figure ...full of love , compassion . It is but natural that she would defend her ...
Her timing of saying what she said could be wrong but defend her she will ...

I also beleive that because paro does not see the thakuriyan the way rudra sees her ...she will bring the son and mother closer.
Edited by Guinea - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Guinea

The side paro has seen of thakuriyan is totally different from what rudra thinks of her mother. For her thakuriayn is a mother figure ...full of love , compassion . It is but natural that she would defend her ...

Her timing of saying what she said could be wrong but defend her she will ...

I also beleive that because paro does not see the thakuriyan the way rudra sees her ...she will bring the son and mother closer.



Ditto! I'm finding it hard to see why people don't see this part of the story
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Paro also apologized to him later for that reaction in spur of a moment , so it's all sorted...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jaz1990



Ditto! I'm finding it hard to see why people don't see this part of the story


Ppl can see a scene the way they wish to see it 😊 I think their is a definate reason why paro was virtually bought up by thakuriyan like her own daughter ...this will make rudra forgive his mother and also make paro bring the mother son closer.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I think the timing was wrong... You can or cannot justify Mala depending on your perspective... I am sure Paro's experience with her made her defend Mala... but what harm her betrayal did to rudra was the crux of the moment... The moment he opened up to her about his pain is not the time to talk about mala's right or wrong...
I also thought it was a very thoughtless remark when Rudra finally found courage to share his pain...She could have done that later... But then again, she apologized... she said things without thinking too much... things like this happen in life !!! I am glad she apologized...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Guinea

The side paro has seen of thakuriyan is totally different from what rudra thinks of her as a mother. For her thakuriayn is a mother figure ...full of love , compassion . It is but natural that she would defend her ...

Her timing of saying what she said could be wrong but defend her she will ...

I also beleive that because paro does not see the thakuriyan the way rudra sees her ...she will bring the son and mother closer.


At a time when Rudra opened his heart to Paro, all he needed was her support and comfort. Even if she did want to defend Mala, she could have - should have - waited. Rudra wasn't confiding in her so she could act as Mala's lawyer. He just wanted her to understand his pain and be there for him.

And as if the fact that Mala didn't know of Tejawat's true colours when she married him excuses her cowardly behaviour. Please.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Guinea

The side paro has seen of thakuriyan is totally different from what rudra thinks of her as a mother. For her thakuriayn is a mother figure ...full of love , compassion . It is but natural that she would defend her ...

Her timing of saying what she said could be wrong but defend her she will ...

I also beleive that because paro does not see the thakuriyan the way rudra sees her ...she will bring the son and mother closer.

Agree with your reply
Didn't find anything wrong in Paro reaction
Anyone instant reaction would be same as Paro when they will come to know that whom they consider Motherly figure since childhood is the mom of your husband
She has known Thakurainsa since many years and has a good impression of her
Later when she realized she asked for forgiveness

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Posted: 11 years ago
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okay i am making a not so popular post again
why was paro happy ??
because takurain masa she loves is going to be her MIL , irrespective of the fact that she left her son crying for years
takurain may be a wonderful person in paro's eyes , but then the revalation should shock paro , her reaction should be something is wrong , or what happened , anything but be happy
because not just rudra is sad , someone she loved caused it
also she should be upset at her husband hating someone she loves
so her reaction was shallow
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