If Laila is so bad, why did he spend 8 years with her? - Page 6

Originally posted by: gaymsk

whenever rudra tok abut paro it luks like he think all r including him r less compare to her , his mind does function like dis ---

1. mohini , she is so bad , has a poisonous theekhi jabaan , luk my paro she is soft spoken n sweet

2. my father , he is so bad , used to fed me jale huye aaloo , luk my paro she can make aaloo widout burning dem n her daal is word's best daal 😆

3. me(rudra) , i m so jaanwar , i cant deserv paro , she is so pure n naive

4. lailaa,she is hurting my paro , so she is bad 😳

dis is rudra's thought process 😆

I agree. He did not think or care abt Laila's goodness before because he did not belive in goodness. He used her for his needs but even after 8 years could not get attached to her because he knew that she was evil like others and he did not care as he had not really witnessed real goodness in people...after meetig PAro he saw the contrast. He started believing in goodness and started respecting PAro for that. That is why now he realizes how evil Laila is.

Originally posted by: Marvel-freak

Now that's a question paro should ask rudra. His telling her she's bad, but then why did rudra confide in Laila? Why did he spend so much time with her?

Wouldn't this eat any women (wife) alive?

A man keeps telling his wife his ex is bad, but that same man felt comfort in going to that women, surely the women wasn't that bad, she did give him the comfort and support.

Edit: I repeat I do understand rudra has a traumatic past, and it's understandable, I do sympathize with him, but he needs to understand, how something like this is not easy for a wife to grasp.

my view, what i get from his words, is..
He was also not good..
He was a heartless man, who doesn't wish to have any commitments..
The relation he had with her is not love, but just to fulfill his necessity..
He never thought he will ever in his life, fall for a girl..
If i make my point clearly, she was just a pro*****te for him..

They had a clear agreement between them not to expect any relation beyond that..
He never concerned for her feelings..
She may be bad, but had a junoon for rudra..
By the way, Rudra is not justifying him..
But at any cost, he wants his paro safe..
May be, he know her well that she is bad, bcz, she was acting as a khabari gor BSD, so she might have developed connections with such bad people.. Enough boldness to deal with them.. With all ingredients of a spy girl...

Rudra had said that initially he went to Laila and later she followed him where ever he went like the Birpur case. Being a khabri she used to follow him. As they have already mentioned in the scenes that he used to get irritated with her presence asking " tu yahan bhi aagayi ". So its clear that the relationship was need based as shown to the viewer's.

I think Laila became crazy! She could not have been this person for 8 years if Rudra was able to stay with her for so long! She was a better person before the marriage track happened. She went a bit schizophrenic after she found out about his marriage. her whole character changed.

Zarurat thi baisa😉
sirf ZARURAT😛

Its a good question you ask and one to ponder over.

yeah, would have liked if they'd shown laila to have more depth before going so negative with the haldi poisoning, because he didn't just go to her for his needs, he used to talk to her, confide in her, work with her, eat with her even. and he would have had choices i'm assuming, so why her for 8 long years? maybe she used to be a nice person once, or had a sad past too and could empathise with him. wish they had explored all this properly, would have been so interesting.

I think there is a difference between a one night stand and repeatedly seeking out and going to the same person for 8 years. Say what he may, fact is there was a relationship built on lust if not love.

I guess for him at that time there was only one thing that even came close to love... which was Laila but I think he knew Laila was like that but since he never had any other girl in his life he didn't have to worry about Laila taking her viciousness out on anyone.