If Laila is so bad, why did he spend 8 years with her? - Page 5

Originally posted by: incandescent

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="2" color="#666666">He did say it during the haldi confrontation to Laila that he considered her to be a friend. So he did have some feelings for her, even if it wasn't romantic.</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="2" color="#666666">But the issue is that he didn't explain that bit too Paro. Paro insisted that Laila should stay in their house and his family agreed, but it wasn't wise on his part to give in. It was obvious that he didn't trust her around Paro, he knew she was dangerous...and yet he left Paro unprotected.</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="2" color="#666666">Maybe he was unable to say it before his confession about the fling to Paro...but he should have said it afterwards. Explain why he thin
ks Laila is bad. What her true intentions are.</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="2" color="#666666">We can assume that it's the haldi incident that made him realize Laila's true colors. But it's not explained by the cvs. Therefore, we are left to wonder and make our own assumptions.</font>

But Paro saw Laila trying to attack her, it was not as if she was unconscious or anything.So there is nothing left for Rudra to explain to her that she already does not know.Laila tried her apology drama when she returned and Paro being Paro...took things at face value.And Rudra relented only because Paro said that she wont ever be able to forgive him if Laila leaves.May be he should have been more careful and thought 'what if she tries to harm Paro again' but he overall always was skeptical.
There are some assumptions here but I do not think Rudra has given any reason to term him as some sought of hypocrite or sexist who would indulge in all sexual activities he wants but think of those women as bad or characterless...there is only that maryada dialogue which was unnecessary or could have been worded better.But nothing was ever said directly

Originally posted by: msin

Yes paro should ask rudra why did he go to the same woman... He should have played around with other women...

he started dis after det haldi incident , by his logic those who try to hurt paro de r bad 😆

Beacuse.. he didn't care if she was bad or not.. it didn't affect him then as for his his life didn't have anything worth caring for.. Now he has something good in his life and he wants to protect it. Now he can see what she is... and though in a way i too feel its rather cold of Rudra.. I can't blame him only.. He had told her that he is moving on.. but Laila is trying to destroy an innocent person in all this ...

Originally posted by: gaymsk

he started dis after det haldi incident , by his logic those who try to hurt paro de r bad😆

So thats right logic na...murderers are bad you know 😆

i think his opinion about himself is the main reason for such a long alliance , he though himself to be a bad man , a janwar , hence went to a woman who is bad and wants a janwar , so that there is no guilt of hurting a good woman nor a chance of any kind of attachment .

Originally posted by: LOLitaPawar

But Paro saw Laila trying to attack her, it was not as if she was unconscious or anything.So there is nothing left for Rudra to explain to her that she already does not know.Laila tried her apology drama when she returned and Paro being Paro...took things at face value.And Rudra relented only because Paro said that she wont ever be able to forgive him if Laila leaves.May be he should have been more careful and thought 'what if she tries to harm Paro again' but he overall always was skeptical.
There are some assumptions here but I do not think Rudra has given any reason to term him as some sought of hypocrite or sexist who would indulge in all sexual activities he wants but think of those women as bad or characterless...there is only that maryada dialogue which was unnecessary or could have been worded better.But nothing was ever said directly

whenever rudra tok abut paro it luks like he think all r including him r less compare to her , his mind does function like dis ---

1. mohini , she is so bad , has a poisonous theekhi jabaan , luk my paro she is soft spoken n sweet

2. my father , he is so bad , used to fed me jale huye aaloo , luk my paro she can make aaloo widout burning dem n her daal is word's best daal 😆

3. me(rudra) , i m so jaanwar , i cant deserv paro , she is so pure n naive

4. lailaa,she is hurting my paro , so she is bad 😳

dis is rudra's thought process 😆