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I know I'm very late in making this post but I didn't get the time.
So, here's what I think about yesterday's episode
The part written in pink is Paro's dream.
The part written in blue is Rudra-Paro convo.
The part written in grey is Paro-Laila-Rudra convo.
The part in black are my views.
1. No sacrificing:
Paro said that she asked Rudra's past so that he could move on and they could start afresh.
Paro telling Laila that she is a guest, (temporary), she should not work (stay away from her house's matters) and that she should get well soon (so that she can go out of the house).
Hence, this shows that Paro is not thinking of sacrificing her relationship, instead, she wants Rudra to choose between Paro and Laila.
2. Paro's insecurities:
a) Rudra's feelings for Laila:
Laila told Paro that the reason for Rudra not talking to Laila correctly and the reason behind him forcing Laila to get out of the house is that he loves Laila but he doesn't realize it. If it were not so then why did Rudra feel uneasy in Laila's company.
Rudra told Laila to leave the house. Paro asked why was he so much concerned for Laila leaving the house.Why did Laila's exit from the house matter to him? Was he really affected by Laila but didn't want to accept it?
Although Rudra confessed that he doesn't love Laila but Paro could not believe how Rudra could be in a relationship with Laila for 8 years and still had no feelings for her.
A little lessening of Paro's pain:
Rudra said that he didn't want Laila out of the house because he was affected by Laila's presence, instead, he wanted her out of the house because he was concerned for Paro that she was in pain and he told her that she mattered to him and not Laila.
After hearing this, Paro might have felt that Rudra really doesn't love Laila. She might have seen it in Rudra's eyes.
b) Is Paro really Rudra's wife?:
Laila told Paro that she is new while Laila was with Rudra for a long time. Laila also told Paro that she is insignificant.
Paro told Rudra that she was not affected by Laila's presence and Rudra became shocked by hearing this. Rudra knew that Paro was in pain but if this wasn't the reason then what was. Paro told Rudra that the thing that pains her is that she isn't really his wife. If she is then why doesn't he admit it. If she isn't his wife then she has no right to tell Laila to leave the house.
Even though Rudra had confessed that he didn't love Laila, still he also hadn't admitted that he loved Paro or that he considered her his wife.
3. The way to end Paro's pain:
We already saw in the earlier episodes that even though Paro knew that Laila loved Rudra, she was still happy for her coming home as it lead Rudra to call Paro his ''wife''. Hence, Paro just wants Rudra to accept her his wife with all his heart. This is the only way she will become satisfied. If Rudra accepts her then she will have something which Laila doesn't have, ''a relationship with a name''.
4. Reason for her satisfaction:
Paro will become satisfied if Rudra accepts Paro as his wife because she knows that if Rudra accepts her then he will never let her go. But if he doesn't accept her then even if Laila goes out of the house, will that really mean that he has broken all the connections with Laila. Atleast, by having Laila here, everything will happen in front of her. Rudra didn't make any promises with Laila but still he stayed with her for 8 years. If he wanted, he could have left her for another woman but he didn't. And Paro knows that if Rudra finally accepted Paro as his wife form the bottom of his heart then he will stay faithful and loyal towards her.
5. ''The Laal Dhaga'':
Paro indirectly asked Rudra for a ''mangalsutra'' to truly make her his wife because she didn't want to be bound to him by just a ''nishaani''.
6. Kicking Laila out of the house:
Paro didn't say that she was happy for Laila being in the house, she just said that it would be wrong if she tells Laila to leave the house as Laila's life is in danger. And even if she tells her to leave, then for which reason, To save her relationship?. If Rudra doesn't consider her his wife, then which ''relationship''.
7.Reason behind Rudra trying to talk to Paro?
Rudra does not want Paro's forgiveness because he knows whatever happened was before he met her. But he knows she is hurt by this truth and he cannot see her in pain. This is the reason why Rudra keeps on trying to talk to Paro.
8. Does Paro feel betrayed?:
Paro does not feel like she is betrayed because she knows whatever happened was before Rudra met her. She is hurt because even though she is Rudra's wife but only for this world as Rudra hasn't accepted her as his wife. Hence, she is trying to avoid him as she thinks that if she isn't his wife then what right does she have on Rudra.
I'm glad to see Paro as a mature woman and at the same time a human being as well(by showing some insecurities) and also for not sacrificing her relationship for Laila.
I'm sorry for a long post. I look forward on reading everyone's view on this. 😊
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