My thoughts on Paro

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I have been watching this show from start and read the excellent views here. Seeing some of the posts lately I couldn't stop myself to write something about Paro. We are happy that Paro is not portrayed as a weak character, not the type who would sit and cry as soon as she is faced with a problem. But we can't turn away from the truth that Paro's character is surreal. Neither modern nor traditional thoughts help us to associate with Paro. She is so pure at heart, a person who knows only to give and expects no returns. Her loyalty knows no bounds. She was loyal to Takur until she found the truth. She doesn't know how to hurt others, she has a such a clean heart. She feels the pain that others are going thru, that is Paro. As a 6 yr old, she felt the pain of the boy & gave her doll away. She felt Maithili's pain & tried to help her.
What am I rambling about ? I was confused and irritated as many of you and sad that Paro's character is getting butchered, it is so embarrassing to see a girl run behind a man asking to marry her. But if we disassociate ourselves from reality and think of Paro's POV only as a character, she is staying true to herself. She has never hurt anyone but she has hurt Rudra. Rudra who has been her saviour, her protector and who had stood up for her when she was in trouble. Everytime she tries to find answers her bolenath points a finger at Rudra. No, she still is not in love with him but she understands she is chosen as his soulmate, as a friend whose responsibility is to heal his wounds and help him come back to life as he helped her when she needed it. That is why the doll is shown to her first. She feels strongly for the hurt she gave him, would do anything to get his forgiveness but why and now she got the answer. She is destined to be the friend who heals his pain. And to be a soulmate for him and care for him, there is only one way and that is to marry him. She needs to be with him to help him. Paro has always taken the path which bolenath has chosen for her, the right path for her and she will never step back however hard it may be. Her character is so pure, she would go to any extent to marry him not because she wants a marriage but because she feels she is the person who is destined to help him. We being mortals are going to be irritated to see Paro humiliate the women clan :) but she is like Meera whose life is only for Krishn. We have seen female leads one of a kind and Paro comes in that list. Duniya mein doosra hai hi nahi.

P.S -- my first view in this forum, thanks for bearing my thoughts.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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DITTO my thoughts @TM.

Will put down what I posted as comments on Diya's post.

Gudiya Konnection!

Quite a fast paced episode and the doll revelation though not very dramatic was most unexpected.

It also explains Paro's eagerness and immediate decision to go to Rudra with the sindoor at the awards ceremony.

Actor playing Sumer was truly brilliant with every dialogue and scene. I loved that he knows he is not worthy of 13 lacs plus a beautiful woman which is huge very huge for someone like him. His mother could never find him a girl who would get him 13 lacs of dowry.

Paro and her confusion was another step forward. Paro does not know what it means to be in love. She has been questioning herself quite often. First it happened in Dilsher's room and then the googly that Rudra threw at her with Sumer's proposal triggered more feeling of what he really means to her beyond just a rakshak, a hero and her admiration for his BSD bravery. Even before seeing the doll she did not want to marry Sumer. And then Rudra's behaviour confuses her all the more...him not allowing Sumer anywhere near to her. Then telling her I know you won't marry him. Don't marry that scum. Just go away from here. That was weird from a guy who just threw a proposal a few minutes ago. It explains exactly why Rudra made that marriage offer to Sumer. The previous day in Dilsher's room, he questioned her after he saw how much effort she was putting into getting his father healed. He did not want to build that closeness anymore not just with him but his father too. He had to put a stop. Send her away. Strike a deal, she wanted forgiveness for which she would do anything...and he would use it as a means to push her away. Also make her HATE HIM for it.

And Paro caught on to it. She questions him, "would you really forgive me if I were to marry Sumer?" He hesitates and then answers yes. And then his holding her shoulders goes on with his usual rant on pretty women.

He has seen that admiration in her eyes for him and she can see that he has feelings for her. They both are at the threshold of an emotion they both don't want to name. Paro is more open about it and is on her way to ACCEPTING it as the WILL of Bholenath.

He realizes and then changes his tactics to BSD style. Offering the joda to goad her into marrying Sumer. The doll falls and again she sees his vulnerable side

This is exactly what makes Paro go to him. . His telling her the doll meant so much to him and was his only consolation in his shattered and battered childhood. Again the instinct of nurturing comes forth...it's like...Bholenath gave me my answer...you are my chosen one...and look I am the one who befriended you...so I can still be you friend. I can heal you. I am ready to take on all your anger, your pain and embrace it. The sindoor is only an external element.

You see in the precap clutching the doll in one hand and sindoor in the other, she is all starry-eyed, her voice all soft a kind of joy that she found herself to be the friend he always longed for and feels close to even now.

The only worry is his public rejection of her proposal. Though I feel Paro is not too worried about that. Such things do not hurt her. he has publicly claimed her his to be wife. From Chandangarh to Birpur everyone knows they were supposed to be married. So what's the big deal if it is an awards ceremony. How the CVs are then going to play it out is yet to be seen.

About her being the witness and he providing protection has definitely being forgotten by the CVs. They need to address it. Like he speaking to his seniors that he is not ready to provide that to her. It may just play out tonight. Hopefully Major speaks to him about it. That she is his responsibility however much he hates it.

dd

One more thing though I so wanted Paro to accept Sumer's proposal (just so that Rudra faces the reality of losing her) it would go against her character. It's not in her character to just go on and marry every second guy coming her way. Her values now remain intact. Her loyalty is something way beyond Rudra can imagine. And now with this public proposal, it reaches to a point of taking the chance of even being publicly humiliated.

If I have to sum up her character Paro is a very saintly woman of today. All pure white. Plus she has patience which is her very big virtue, nerver give up attitude (kitchen scenes).Extremely selfless... It's all about give give give, without expecting anything in return. You could say too good to be true for a man like him. But only something so white can heal something so dark as Rudra.

On M&M's post...

Thanks dear...So true...however educated or even if not, its hard to digest how Paro thinks and does things. Hence we have to disassociate ourselves from the real world thinking women to accept Paro's character which is actually surreal (created by ST)...or else we would always be in conflict being the women we are today. Paro is blemish-free.

And yes her asking forgiveness from Rudra is exactly for that reason as you say- she hit him on the head and escaped. That was a wrong act for her. Because when she got to know Rudra was right her act turned to be wrong in HER OWN eyes.

Whereas the act of danda hitting of the goons was rightly done, because those men were in the wrong. Its such simple thinking.

Rudra cant win against something so pure. How could he possibly?





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Posted: 11 years ago
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You make a good argument. BUT self respect and knowing her own self worth was the one single quality that differentiated from every other female lead around.
And right now i feel as if she is uncaring for her own self respect!

I love Khushi, but I don't want Paro to turn in to another Khushi who will forget her self worth and self respect in order to please others! 🥱

They managed to have a good balance till now! But since this latest track its just off! 😕
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ddFan2012

DITTO my thoughts @TM.

Will put down what I posted as comments on Diya's post.

Gudiya Konnection!

Quite a fast paced episode and the doll revelation though not very dramatic was most unexpected.

It also explains Paro's eagerness and immediate decision to go to Rudra with the sindoor at the awards ceremony.

Actor playing Sumer was truly brilliant with every dialogue and scene. I loved that he knows he is not worthy of 13 lacs plus a beautiful woman which is huge very huge for someone like him. His mother could never find him a girl who would get him 13 lacs of dowry.

Paro and her confusion was another step forward. Paro does not know what it means to be in love. She has been questioning herself quite often. First it happened in Dilsher's room and then the googly that Rudra threw at her with Sumer's proposal triggered more feeling of what he really means to her beyond just a rakshak, a hero and her admiration for his BSD bravery. Even before seeing the doll she did not want to marry Sumer. And then Rudra's behaviour confuses her all the more...him not allowing Sumer anywhere near to her. Then telling her I know you won't marry him. Don't marry that scum. Just go away from here. That was weird from a guy who just threw a proposal a few minutes ago. It explains exactly why Rudra made that marriage offer to Sumer. The previous day in Dilsher's room, he questioned her after he saw how much effort she was putting into getting his father healed. He did not want to build that closeness anymore not just with him but his father too. He had to put a stop. Send her away. Strike a deal, she wanted forgiveness for which she would do anything...and he would use it as a means to push her away. Also make her HATE HIM for it.

And Paro caught on to it. She questions him, "would you really forgive me if I were to marry Sumer?" He hesitates and then answers yes. And then his holding her shoulders goes on with his usual rant on pretty women.

He has seen that admiration in her eyes for him and she can see that he has feelings for her. They both are at the threshold of an emotion they both don't want to name. Paro is more open about it and is on her way to ACCEPTING it as the WILL of Bholenath.

He realizes and then changes his tactics to BSD style. Offering the joda to goad her into marrying Sumer. The doll falls and again she sees his vulnerable side

This is exactly what makes Paro go to him. . His telling her the doll meant so much to him and was his only consolation in his shattered and battered childhood. Again the instinct of nurturing comes forth...it's like...Bholenath gave me my answer...you are my chosen one...and look I am the one who befriended you...so I can still be you friend. I can heal you. I am ready to take on all your anger, your pain and embrace it. The sindoor is only an external element.

You see in the precap clutching the doll in one hand and sindoor in the other, she is all starry-eyed, her voice all soft a kind of joy that she found herself to be the friend he always longed for and feels close to even now.

The only worry is his public rejection of her proposal. Though I feel Paro is not too worried about that. Such things do not hurt her. he has publicly claimed her his to be wife. From Chandangarh to Birpur everyone knows they were supposed to be married. So what's the big deal if it is an awards ceremony. How the CVs are then going to play it out is yet to be seen.

About her being the witness and he providing protection has definitely being forgotten by the CVs. They need to address it. Like he speaking to his seniors that he is not ready to provide that to her. It may just play out tonight. Hopefully Major speaks to him about it. That she is his responsibility however much he hates it.

dd

One more thing though I so wanted Paro to accept Sumer's proposal (just so that Rudra faces the reality of losing her) it would go against her character. It's not in her character to just go on and marry every second guy coming her way. Her values now remain intact. Her loyalty is something way beyond Rudra can imagine. And now with this public proposal, it reaches to a point of taking the chance of even being publicly humiliated.

If I have to sum up her character Paro is a very saintly woman of today. All pure white. Plus she has patience which is her very big virtue, nerver give up attitude (kitchen scenes).Extremely selfless... It's all about give give give, without expecting anything in return. You could say too good to be true for a man like him. But only something so white can heal something so dark as Rudra.

On M&M's post...

Thanks dear...So true...however educated or even if not, its hard to digest how Paro thinks and does things. Hence we have to disassociate ourselves from the real world thinking women to accept Paro's character which is actually surreal (created by ST)...or else we would always be in conflict being the women we are today. Paro is blemish-free.

And yes her asking forgiveness from Rudra is exactly for that reason as you say- she hit him on the head and escaped. That was a wrong act for her. Because when she got to know Rudra was right her act turned to be wrong in HER OWN eyes.

Whereas the act of danda hitting of the goons was rightly done, because those men were in the wrong. Its such simple thinking.

Rudra cant win against something so pure. How could he possibly?






dd, awesome thoughts. And you are right, public rejection might hurt her but she is not going to step back from what she thinks is right. Yeah Rudra will have to stoop down to this purity some day.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: princessunara

You make a good argument. BUT self respect and knowing her own self worth was the one single quality that differentiated from every other female lead around.

And right now i feel as if she is uncaring for her own self respect!

I love Khushi, but I don't want Paro to turn in to another Khushi who will forget her self worth and self respect in order to please others! 🥱

They managed to have a good balance till now! But since this latest track its just off! 😕


Sunara, I perfectly understand what you are feeling and this was my first thought as well. Though I had liked KKG, I couldn't digest many things which she did. And my first thoughts seeing the past 2 episodes were, here goes another character into the drain. But that is what I was saying we are different from Paro. We don't think like her. I don't think Paro is doing anything which is against her self respect. And she is not doing it to please anyone, she is doing this only because she feels his pain. She feels it as if it is hers and wants to bring him out of it. She feels that connection strongly with him and for her, her bolenath has always been the guidance in life. She has been struggling to find out why she wants to be with him and her finding the doll she gave to Rudra 15 yrs back and his words that it was the only medicine for his wounds was the seal to her belief that she is the one destined to help him. Actually in real life itself there are people who strongly believe in destiny and Paro is surely one of them. If she stays around without marrying, it is going to be a social issue so the only way out to help him is marry him because she strongly feels she is his soulmate destined by God to be with him. That is what I was telling, as a woman yes I am going to be embarrassed at Paro's way of dealing with this but as Paro no, she is pure at heart..her intentions are pure and she is doing this for Rudra, whom she feels connected to. She didn't lower herself for anyone else, only for him because she feels she belongs with him.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Beautiful post and I agree..

Their is a certain divinity in her character which is beautiful .. She is almost pious like a noble soul who believes her path has been ordained by her bholenaath ..
In my opinion this is how the character has been written and the current storyline is culminating to that .. Though the flow is a little jerky ..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Guinea

Beautiful post and I agree..

Their is a certain divinity in her character which is beautiful .. She is almost pious like a noble soul who believes her path has been ordained by her bholenaath ..
In my opinion this is how the character has been written and the current storyline is culminating to that .. Though the flow is a little jerky ..


I agree. Even I want to see the tighter script they had some days back. I will wait to see how this public proposal plays out but seeing her character I feel she has always stood strong on what she thinks is right. When they give a perfect script and suddenly it starts being shaky, we feel betrayed as fans but guess that is how it has always been in this industry. No show has ever been perfect.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: princessunara

<font size="2" face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" color="#0066cc">You make a good argument. BUT self respect and knowing her own self worth was the one single quality that differentiated from every other female lead around.</font>

<font size="2" face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" color="#0066cc">And right now i feel as if she is uncaring for her own self respect!</font>

<font size="2" face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" color="#0066cc">I love Khushi, but I don't want Paro to turn in to another Khushi who will forget her self worth and self respect in order to please others!🥱</font>

<font size="2" face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" color="#0066cc">They managed to have a good balance till now! But since this latest track its just off!😕</font>






Exactly my thoughts
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Posted: 11 years ago
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hi big surprise for u all...
Intense passion: Sanaya Irani (Paro) to kiss Ashish Sharma (Rudra) on screen in Colors' Rangrasiya
Things are about to heat up in Colors' Rangrasiya (Tequila Shot Productions) with Paro (Sanaya Irani) expressing her love for Rudra (Ashish Sharma)... physically.

As seen so far, Rudra proposed his cousin Sumer's marriage with Paro, something which took her by shock.

In the upcoming episodes, she will go on to propose marriage to Rudra at an award function held by BSF.

The proposal will infuriate Rudra and he will say a straight no' but Paro will not accept the rejection and go on to lock lips with Rudra publicly (whistle whistle).

The lip-lock will definitely be a high point in the story.

"The entire lip-lock sequence is a desperate attempt to up the dipping numbers. In fact, both Sanya and Ashish were against the sequence but then producer Saurabh Tewari managed to convince them to have a tiny smooch scene," confirmed a source.

This scene will definitely be a visual treat for all the Rudra and Paro fans.

We tried contacting both Sanaya and Ashish but they remained unavailable for comment.

Don't miss this small screen stars going all bold. The episode will air sometime tomorrow.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: nishayoosef

hi big surprise for u all...
Intense passion: Sanaya Irani (Paro) to kiss Ashish Sharma (Rudra) on screen in Colors' Rangrasiya
Things are about to heat up in Colors' Rangrasiya (Tequila Shot Productions) with Paro (Sanaya Irani) expressing her love for Rudra (Ashish Sharma)... physically.

As seen so far, Rudra proposed his cousin Sumer's marriage with Paro, something which took her by shock.

In the upcoming episodes, she will go on to propose marriage to Rudra at an award function held by BSF.

The proposal will infuriate Rudra and he will say a straight no' but Paro will not accept the rejection and go on to lock lips with Rudra publicly (whistle whistle).

The lip-lock will definitely be a high point in the story.

"The entire lip-lock sequence is a desperate attempt to up the dipping numbers. In fact, both Sanya and Ashish were against the sequence but then producer Saurabh Tewari managed to convince them to have a tiny smooch scene," confirmed a source.

This scene will definitely be a visual treat for all the Rudra and Paro fans.

We tried contacting both Sanaya and Ashish but they remained unavailable for comment.

Don't miss this small screen stars going all bold. The episode will air sometime tomorrow.


I am sure this is not going to happen. It might be one of those April fools article. If this happens I bow down to the Cv's and quit :)

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