My thoughts on Paro - Page 3

Originally posted by: Ipkkndcrazy1

I think Paro didnt do any of these things after any analysis! And self is the last thing that comes to her mind! Like mentioned in many posts here and elsewhere... there cannot be a woman in the real world like Paro, she is a fictional character who can stand strong after all the disasters of this magnitude that has happened in her life, that too back to back...All she knows is to go with destiny, give herself to others, nurture, obey...and do what she feels is right at that point! Whatever else, that comes up in the forum is what we would like her to do! This is the way the CVs wanted her to be and she has stayed the same way from the beginning till now!

Originally posted by: khankiran

dear I have read your post..yeh I agree about kushi...i hate those tracks when they degrade khushi specially that sheetal track...but here case is different...to love some one and confess is nothing shameful...i am saying specially as girl..its right of every one whether a girl or boy to live your life with someone you wanted...she is not doing anything wrong as per her character...when you love someone.

first thing you lost is your self...then where is the question of selfrespect..the thing is that they have not shown her pov...her realization...her turning point...and the second thing there must be major reason behind her public confession..and cv are there for...and I hpe they would do something to satisfy you..INSHAH ALLAH

Originally posted by: ishta345

@kaadal, sorry for butting in, but it just crossed my mind that if you're saying that you liked KKG but couldn't digest the things she did, perhaps you didn't at that time hold the same view that you hold for Paro today? And that is "we are different from Paro". Perhaps if we would have thought the same about Khushi, that "we are different from Khushi" we could have rationalized her outlook to life too?

This is in no way any criticism but a genuine attempt to understand how a chunk of the viewers react to a show. I sincerely believe that if viewers had not identified so passionately with Khushi and Arnav and their love story, and viewed it as a show and not a reflection of their own lives in some manner, there could have been a possibility that that show could have turned out much better than it eventually was, The "why's" over this statement of mine will have to be left to another post.

Originally posted by: DiyaS

I like your analysis ... very well written. Paro is a very pure character ... we don't see this purity in real life, hence it is difficult to fathom her thoughts and her feelings. She believes in Bholenath implicitly, and is content to give the reins of her life into His hands. So if she gets an ishara that implies Bholenath's will, she will follow it. A very fatalistic way of thinking ... very Hindu in its roots. And the good thing is that her faith gives her strength and courage to follow her heart without caring about the repercussions, or what anyone will think about her.

Also she is able to read Rudra very clearly ... having lived with him for the last eight weeks, and seen his tough side as well as his weak side ... she knows what he is doing and why. She understands his weakness about not trusting beautiful women, and hence his aversion to getting close to her ... of course, he keeps repeating it a zillion times, so no one could actually miss it 😆

Originally posted by: Ipkkndcrazy1

Nicely put! I can see a lot of people who have been passive, including me, expressing themselves on the forum these days. That itself shows what a path breaking show RR has turned out to be! Playing with our heart, touching it to the extent to make it react and respond...

keep writing...u do well with words!

Originally posted by: Hope

Nice Post. Well said. I keep telling everyone around me the same thing.

Paro is different then many of us. She is sureal, yes but she does exist. I for one feel she is staying true to her character. She share this habit of act first and think later like Rudra. These two are very strong characters and they intend to go to any lengths to get what they want. Be it him forcing her into marrying him which is a punishment for him to or her agreeing to marry him instead of signing the papers. They both stand by their beliefs and go to any lengths for that.

Paro, was shocked when Rudra proposed her marriage to Sumeer. If it was any other girl (Like us) there would have asked Rudra to go to hell. But it was Paro here. She wants his forgiveness and if she says no Sumeer that means she is accepting that her repentance is a facade.

The option Rudra gave her were such that she loses either way. She was trying to understand the situation and why Rudra did it when he saves her from Sumeer. Then when he spoke to her she knew he didn't mean what he was saying. She did ask him if that is what he wants, when she got the first chance to speak to him. She questioned him if he will be happy. Let me stop here before I write an essay. All I want to say is, Paro is being Paro but we are expecting her to be us.

I know I am writing the same thing as many did but I simply want to make it clear to those feeling Paro character being buthered that she is not. She is always the person who spoke her mind irrespective of the place. Be it bluntly telling Singh that she wants to stay with Rudra or fighting with Mohini for Maithili. TM, Fab job with the post.