Paro's reaction towards Major- Laila Relationship - Page 4

Originally posted by: napstermonster

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">Hi! Great topic, so if you'll allow me, I'll also re-post something I wrote about this. I stand by this:</font>

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The idea that her marriage is causing another human being such incredible suffering, so much pain that it has manifested in violence would be unbearable for Paro. She is particularly sensitive, after her own experience, to people being happy, and to women's suffering. This is true, whether or not she is a willing bride in the first place. Assuming she loves Rudra and wants to marry him in the future, Laila's pain will give her pause, she will be conflicted.


Given how empathetic she is, I can see Paro trying to back out or run away if she knew about Laila's eight year wait. I don't think the issue of Rudra and Laila being lovers would give her pause in a disgusted, judgmental way. Her stance on adoption is hardly the social norm for a typical village girl--she seems oddly progressive, and would not necessarily see Laila as "tainted" goods if she was convinced Rudra loved her, and Laila loved him--and SHE, Paro, was the kabab mein haddi--which in a sense she totally is.


Remember her question to Rudra--there must be someone you dreamed of, who you wanted to marry too? She would imagine Laila as that someone if Laila manages to reveal her status AND get to Paro in a manipulative, woe-is-me manner. Her compassion for everyone around Rudra flows like water--for Dilsher, for Maithli, for Sunehri. Not for Rudra, not yet--but for the others--shefeels too much.


Paro is too compassionate for her own good, a trait Rudra has a slap on the cheek as proof of. She goes out of her way to help anyone who is suffering--again something Rudra wishes he could change, since she does so at her own expense. And Laila, evil as her actions were, is hurting, and with genuine cause. Paro would try to help. Its basically hardwired into her. I dont think she would marry Rudra if she believed she was taking someone else's haq from them.</font>

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I agree that it would take a lot to convince her of Laila's ...umm... sanity now, but all Laila has to tell her, really, is the truth. That eight year long wait, coupled with a focus on how Rudra was FORCED to marry Paro for her safety is all it would take. Yes, Paro is much more sensible than we have seen a heroine to be so far--but when it comes to other people's suffering, she lets common sense out the window (again i refer you to--second day in haveli, bringing up adoption..SLAP...)</font>

Originally posted by: napstermonster

Hi! Great topic, so if you'll allow me, I'll also re-post something I wrote about this. I stand by this:

The idea that her marriage is causing another human being such incredible suffering, so much pain that it has manifested in violence would be unbearable for Paro. She is particularly sensitive, after her own experience, to people being happy, and to women's suffering. This is true, whether or not she is a willing bride in the first place. Assuming she loves Rudra and wants to marry him in the future, Laila's pain will give her pause, she will be conflicted.


Given how empathetic she is, I can see Paro trying to back out or run away if she knew about Laila's eight year wait. I don't think the issue of Rudra and Laila being lovers would give her pause in a disgusted, judgmental way. Her stance on adoption is hardly the social norm for a typical village girl--she seems oddly progressive, and would not necessarily see Laila as "tainted" goods if she was convinced Rudra loved her, and Laila loved him--and SHE, Paro, was the kabab mein haddi--which in a sense she totally is.


Remember her question to Rudra--there must be someone you dreamed of, who you wanted to marry too? She would imagine Laila as that someone if Laila manages to reveal her status AND get to Paro in a manipulative, woe-is-me manner. Her compassion for everyone around Rudra flows like water--for Dilsher, for Maithli, for Sunehri. Not for Rudra, not yet--but for the others--she feels too much.


Paro is too compassionate for her own good, a trait Rudra has a slap on the cheek as proof of. She goes out of her way to help anyone who is suffering--again something Rudra wishes he could change, since she does so at her own expense. And Laila, evil as her actions were, is hurting, and with genuine cause. Paro would try to help. Its basically hardwired into her. I dont think she would marry Rudra if she believed she was taking someone else's haq from them.

I agree that it would take a lot to convince her of Laila's ...umm... sanity now, but all Laila has to tell her, really, is the truth. That eight year long wait, coupled with a focus on how Rudra was FORCED to marry Paro for her safety is all it would take. Yes, Paro is much more sensible than we have seen a heroine to be so far--but when it comes to other people's suffering, she lets common sense out the window (again i refer you to--second day in haveli, bringing up adoption..SLAP...)

Originally posted by: Exprimere

At this point, I don't think she cares. But when she starts to feel attracted, (which is quite a few episodes far away, I think) she will take her time to commit.

Then, Rudra will have to do a lot of running about. Her reaction is also directly proportional to what Laila is upto, at that point.

So let's see. Your guess is as good as mine.

Originally posted by: Exprimere

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Dear Napster,

I love how we manage to flesh out characters with such post topics, predictions, stories and all that jazz.

Now picture this: Laila plots to kill Paro again. With a super sophisticated plan this time like... um... poisoning her imli and namak? What's more, Paro would be like: poor Laila. She loves Rudra! I should-nay, must- sacrifice my own love for the greater good!

SATYANASH moment.

What I'm trying to say is, let's just keep our expectations low. Even if the CVs did have grand plans for characters, they are bowing down to the TRP janta, I guess.

So I'll just lie low now and spring up when I have to justify Paro in whatever she does. Woh bhi toh karna hi padega! *sigh*

Ciao!

Originally posted by: serialjunkie

I can only respond from my sensibilities

If Paro develops genuine feelings for Rudra and realizes that she has those feelings AND most importantly, expresses those feelings to Rudra, then she has every right to resent Laila, if Rudra continues his liaison with Laila. I don't think Major is going back again to Laila's house unless and until CVs have something else in mind. Major has fallen in love big time.

why else should it bother her?

In my opinion, if she plans to uphold this wedding and its truthfulness, including conjugal rights to Rudra, then she has a right to feel mad, otherwise, its a travesty on both sides and neither of them should have any expectations from the other. Very well said.

Given Paro is depicted as a do-gooder, who does not hold grudges, its possible she will not spare any time on Rudra-Laila past. That would be magnanimous on her part.😛

Originally posted by: lrlpam

Paro may not have guessed abt the physical relation but she has surely understood that they were in some sort of a relationship. I think she'll probably get even more disgusted at her jallad (thus ignoring his good deed of saving her from the poison,as usual) for dumping his lover for a baseless marriage and give him a moral lecture,probably again appealing to the devta in him to consider that woman's love.

Originally posted by: Tennessean

What is her reaction going to be when she finds out about this equation ? Is Paro Bai Sa going to take a step backwards on the trust front? Or will it be a minor hiccup in the Rudra- Paro relationship?