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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ebook-reader


Whatever Laila might be, she was not a prostitute. She was a normal young girl with dreams of happily ever after with a man who loved and respected her. In spite of all the protestations, Rudra did give her enough ammunition to fall in love with him.

And just because she slept with him doesn't mean she is a "bad" woman. Why do we have to make a vamp out of a woman who had slept with a man before marriage? And why do we need to elevate another because she had been chaste?

If Rudra knew what he was doing with Laila is unacceptable in any "respectable" society, he shouldn't have started it and if he had started it, I wish he was man enough to stand up and accept it.


I didn't like Rudra's treatment of the "Other Woman". She was the only woman in his life before "The other woman" made an appearance in his life and now it is only fair he gives Laila the closure and the respect she deserves for being in a relationship even

Don't judge a woman by her chastity and definitely not by her profession. Her profession doesn't make her an "easy" target. It doesn't mean she's easy. It definitely doesn't mean she is available. A woman deserves respect. Society, circumstances often drive women to fall from the pedestal, deviate from the accepted roles conferred on women.




This. Exactly.

However, did you expect the CVs not to fall into the trap of the Madonna (Paro) and the wh**e (Laila)? I absolutely did. And this makes me sad. Because if they hadn't done this, our society with high (double) standards of morality would be scandalised. It was a classic fetch-the-TRPs move.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hi Exprimere!

I don't know but yes I expected Rudra to be different. 😆😆 More fool of me for not see it coming. Everything has to be black & white on TV. I think we encounter too many grey shades in our everyday life. I wish they had not turned Liala an out an out vamp out to seek vengeance. I also wish Cvs would stop making a fool of her. I don't like the fact that they keep on showing her as this vindictive character. Yes, she was hurt but do you have to constantly show her as demented ? I think in real life no matter how much it breaks your heart, you sever all connections, lock yourself in a room and cry. No go around like a virago trying to wreck your ex's relationship. Can we not make everything melodramatic?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Since this is a fictional show it would have been courageous of the cvs to attempt a differing pov and let the viewers face societys hippocracy.You never know Rudra may be gentler to Laila lets wait and see on monday.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ebook-reader

Hi Exprimere!

I don't know but yes I expected Rudra to be different. 😆😆 More fool of me for not see it coming. Everything has to be black & white on TV. I think we encounter too many grey shades in our everyday life. I wish they had not turned Liala an out an out vamp out to seek vengeance. I also wish Cvs would stop making a fool of her. I don't like the fact that they keep on showing her as this vindictive character. Yes, she was hurt but do you have to constantly show her as demented ? I think in real life no matter how much it breaks your heart, you sever all connections, lock yourself in a room and cry. No go around like a virago trying to wreck your ex's relationship. Can we not make everything melodramatic?


Demented? 😆

Yeah... well. It is necessary to switch off logic while watching, actually. Because you see, when Rudra becomes emotional before Paro after knowing her a total of 2 weeks (definitely not 8), then it's- awww, so cute, so vulnerable, so perfect! If he does that with Laila, whom he's been going to for years- Rudra is going soft, sis, not my type.

I don't think they make shows (or movies) for the practical crowd, who favour heads before hearts. Without the melodrama, people would complain- but nothing's happening in the show!

So, yeah. We're not really the target audience. #DealWithIt
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i think lila is pissed off that he never gave her the right of a wife despite being with her for 8 years but in 8 weeks he is ready to marry a girl he hates
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: rani-lucki

i think lila is pissed off that he never gave her the right of a wife despite being with her for 8 years but in 8 weeks he is ready to marry a girl he hates


No. I think (acc to the show) she does believe Rudra loves Paro. Hence she is shocked when he protects her each time. She never had a problem not being committed to R and vice-versa. She's angry that he used her and threw her away (which he kinda did), saying that he didn't believe in love. Laila logic: if he can marry Paro, he certainly can love, care, commit.

She doesn't think Rudra hates Paro. At least, not post haldi.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Of course she is pissed off. In fact if she was not pissed off it would have been extremely abnormal. However, the reason why I am so annoyed is because they show her going around hatching plots to harm/ kill her ex's partner. This si so ridiculous! Who does that in real life? Carry daggers and poison and looking out for opportunities to finish off your ex's latest. 😆 I say Laila should be royally pissed off for as song as it is needed. But can the CVs give her some self respect? A teeny weeny bit?

@Ex

Yeah, who could forget the golden advice Dekhna hai to dekho. 😆 Rudra can come undone only in the arms of the "right" woman. Laila meant nothing. Every man must sow his wild oats before settling down. He did nothing out of the norm. 😆 As soon as the right woman came along Rudra was a reformed man. Isn't this our secret fantasy?Reforming a bad boy with our love?So CVs are inadvertently fulfilling our fantasies at the cost of Laila.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nice post...may be Laila is not that bad...she is right on her place..i have no complains to Laila .but when anyone would try to harm Paro..it will make automatically annoy me to that person...
but still i agree with your POV.. Laial is being the only woman in Rudra life since 8 years so its difficult for her to see Rudra with another girl snd accept the truth that her "Janwar" is actually gonna get merry to someone else
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I felt sad for Laila tis time Yaar
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Exprimere


Also, I was let down that Laila's big kaatnewali speech translated into acid attack. It's the most basic way to harm a girl EVER. Like the idea is trivial (what it can do to the victim, isn't trivial, no). Comparatively Mohini's plans are grand. I want those intelligent plans from Laila, too. Something that would convince me that she is "tez".

As for R trying to calm her down, it would have been a good move. But he's had an opportunity to tell Laila the whole truth in the past. He didn't. And I also think viewers will cry foul if he displays his gentle side to anyone but Paro. So no chance of that.

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that was easy and irresponsible , they should not promote such things on TV , i believe showing such cruelty on TV is also a form of promotion at least i am glad it was not very explicit acid scene
i know isnt that wierd he behaving good with paro is acceptable , but not with his 8 yr companion
though what she did yesterday called for that push , no questions there
what can i say ebookreader , tiny winy respect is all i asked for too in the beginning of the track , now after this acid scene that is out of window
Edited by tttttt1 - 11 years ago

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