A Protector can never be a Abuser

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Paro , you are a beautiful innocent charming positive free-spirited loyal trustworthy couragious fearless Girl , plss remain the same , dont become my shadow by blindly trusting someone just because you know that person from childhood ; I have faced the biggest betrayal of my life because I trusted someone and that has made me a heartless and bitter man forever today ... Plss Paro dont follow these footsteps of mine and open your eyes to see the reality before its too late 😭😭


These above words were from Rudra to Paro today in indirect tone when he gave example of how his mother broke his trust in childhood and how in future he can see Thakur doing the same with her ...



Today I neither saw a abusive man harassing a woman nor any Jallad forcibly trying to claim his authority on a woman ... Today I only saw a man pouring out his emotions in front of a woman whom he really respects a lot since he does see a shadow of his own personality in her and knows that she will forever remain loyal to someone she trusts and this is what will end up giving her the biggest betrayal of life 😭😭


While applying the oinment on Paro's burnt hands , Rudra could sense that Paro will even give up her life but will never betray someone she claims to trust since childhood and so the only option left in front of him was to pour out his real emotions and almost beg her to see and realise the truth before its too late 👍🏼...


Rudra grabs both hands of Paro with sheer respect today almost trying to hint that he will b grateful to her if she actually tries to understand his POV and emotions today 😭 ; Someone who never showed his emotions to anyone including his own father , today opens his heart to Paro about his mother just with the hope that she realises that someone we trust since childhood , need not b always right ... That person can well b our biggest enemy ...


Did Rudra do this only to save his BSD job or to get her signatures ?? 🤔 .. I guess no ... He did this because he can see the extreme to which this girl can go to prove her loyalty and trust towards Thakur and so now its become necessary for Rudra to make her understand that she is actually trusting the wolf in disguise ... Rudra has developed a new found respect for Paro now after the hand-burning incident because he too carries the same kind of passion and madness when it comes to loyalty towards his country and today he sees Paro too carrying similar madness and loyalty factor towards Thakur , reason why he feels the need to make her realise the bitter truth in a rather calm and composed manner 👍🏼 ...



Rudra today sees his own mirror image in Paro .. The way he can give up his life for his country , same way Paro too can give up her life to prove her loyalty towards Thakur and her villagers ... But the only difference here is about right and wrong , something which Paro failed to recognise here and so Rudra does not want all this sacrifices and pain of Paro that she has been taking to save Thakur goes in vain once the truth comes out ; Rudra does not want Paro to suffer from the same bitterness of betrayal that he has been suffering since childhood and thats why he simply wants to save Paro from this deep bitterness of betrayal .. That why he pleads to her today ... "Plss Paro...wake up before its too late" 👏👏👏


Paro on the other hand can feel Rudra's pain and could even guess that he is still waiting for his mother's return whether he accepts it or not but she is turning a blind eye towards her own realisation regarding Thakur and Rudra's words , though I m sure after today's episode , she will definitely think now ... A Jallad who is suppose to b a manipulator according to her , will never pour his heart out in front of his witness ... So something is definitely not right somewhere ..This is what I expect Paro to think tomorrow during the Haldi ceremany ...


Overall a powerpacked episode where CVs rightly answered every single query of Rudra's characterisation and the abusive behaviour he shows at times ... He simply wants to safeguard and protect Paro from that big bad world of bitterness and betrayal that he has seen over the years

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Jaz1990 thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I haven't read it but I will read and den respond lol! Seriously great post
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I loved that scene today, it wasn't fake at all what he told her is rightfully so. You can just blindly trust someone in life even if that person is your mother, father, brother or sister if they're wrong you admit it because blind trust can only leave you as a broken soul in the end and that is want Paro is soon to face.

No Rudra is no abuser at all it will be harsh to say such things I admit he was wrong in scaring Paro off in such manner but he's no abuser. He actually cares for her and he will always he there to protect her from all evil even from his girlfriend who's planing to destroy Paro... Rudra comes to know Laila has put poison in Paro's haldi the way I see things going Rudra will end up throwing her in the shower and clean the haldi off of her himself. I hope no one label that as sexual abuse because that's a serious matter there even if he will be forcefully touching her, it's for a good reason.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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🤗..Thank you for giving such beautiful words to my feelings...you said it all!! Every word a pleasure to read, every thought a treat to absorb...thanks!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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A very banal query: If he wants her to believe him, why doesn't he take the first step by believing her to be innocent? Now that he knows that she believes the Thakur blindly and asks her to open her eyes to reality, will he do the same? Rudra says that Paro should stop believing the Thakur blindly, isn't he too guilty of blindly pronouncing her complicit? And wanting her to admit her complicity in the crime? They are both guilty of BELIEVING in something that is not true.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jaz1990

I haven't read it but I will read and den respond lol! Seriously great post



glad u liked it 😃
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well said Jyoti. The scene was just awesome. Rudra opening up his emotions in front of her is an achievement for Paro. I hope she begins to understand him and ponder over his words.
jyoti06 thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Swetz-

I loved that scene today, it wasn't fake at all what he told her is rightfully so. You can just blindly trust someone in life even if that person is your mother, father, brother or sister if they're wrong you admit it because blind trust can only leave you as a broken soul in the end and that is want Paro is soon to face.

Exactly .. Rudra has gone through this bitter experience in life and he knows the after effects of such pain and betrayal .. he just wants to protect Paro from the similar kind of pain and betrayal she might face in future ..

No Rudra is no abuser at all it will be harsh to say such things I admit he was wrong in scaring Paro off in such manner but he's no abuser. He actually cares for her and he will always he there to protect her from all evil even from his girlfriend who's planing to destroy Paro... Rudra comes to know Laila has put poison in Paro's haldi the way I see things going Rudra will end up throwing her in the shower and clean the haldi off of her himself. I hope no one label that as sexual abuse because that's a serious matter there even if he will be forcefully touching her, it's for a good reason.

Yes some of his actions were a bit too on your face and for any girl , its scary too .. but the underlying intention of Rudra has always been noble .. that is to protect Paro from the upcoming disaster .. more than his own BSD honour , he seems worried about the upcoming betrayal that Paro might face in the hands of Thakur if she does not believe this truth in time ..


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: eveline

🤗..Thank you for giving such beautiful words to my feelings...you said it all!! Every word a pleasure to read, every thought a treat to absorb...thanks!!



I just read your post too .. we both share similar thoughts when it comes to Rudra and his inner turmoil 🤗😃 ...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Awesome post.
Lovely analysis.
Yes I agree with your post.
Today we saw Rudra pleading in front of Paro to not blindly believe someone because he knows when she finds out the truth it is going to hurt badly as he has been through something similar.
The whole scene was very well written, presented and acted. So all in all a very good job by everyone.

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