Originally posted by: Semanti
Laila has made no bones about the fact that she knows how foolish it is to keep letting Rudra come back to her. And yet, she does so. Because she is obviously in love with him. And somewhere she hopes that he'll come around some day.
I quite agree with ipkrr, how does anyone have a physical relationship for 8 years and not feel any emotional connect? Rudra in his own gruff way, is nice enough to her.
And he has made it abundantly clear, that it is not Laila whom he can't commit to-- he can't commit to anyone at all.
And Laila is okay with the no-strings attached relationship that he offers her, because she wants to be a part of his life in whatever capacity she can be.
And let's not forget that Rudra goes to her whenever he's troubled or needs solace.
Under the circumstances, I really fail to see how we can stand on some sort of moral high-ground and judge her for taking what she wanted. She has every right to feel pissed off, hurt and jealous. She sees Paro as a usurper who has come in and is taking her place in Rudra's life.
As for your label of 'kothewali', you make it seem as though a kothewali isn't allowed to fall in love, dream of marriage, entertain hopes of commitment, or feel rejected and heartbroken just by virtue of her profession.
Do elaborate upon the kind of girl Rudra should 'take home to his mother'.
And given that Rudra was equal participant in that relationship, is he the sort of boy you want to introduce to your father?