Laila is such a fool

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Posted: 11 years ago
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This woman Laila about whom all we know is that she is a khabri, is the biggest fool of all time. She has been letting Rudra use her body for EIGHT years. Doesnt she have any brains to figure out this relationship is only about sex ? She must know that on some level. No woman waits for this long for a man. So why will she now raise hell when Paro has vome into Rudra's life ?

To me Laila has seemed a kothewali from day 1 and definitely not a girl someone takes home to meet their mother.

Laila should not be entertaining any thoughts about marrying Rudra. She should know better. To me she comes across as an over made-up kothewali.

What do you all think ?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well it's not rudra's mistake because he has already made clear to laila that don't expect any relationship with this.. And as far as laila is concern she is the first who always throws advances towards our majorsa😳.For rudra he is still far from the feeling of love he does not know what a love means ..because he himself has never received any love from his mother and father...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I'm not sure you can have an eight year relationship with someone - even if it is only physical - without any emotional connect. If Rudra can - it says something about him and not in a positive way. I would not like Rudra paying any romantic attention to Laila, now that he is attracted to Paro - but at the same time I would like Rudra to accord Laila the basic courtesy and respect that is owed to someone who spent eight years loving him and caring for him.
Edited by ipkrr - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Laila is a khabri 😲
i dint knw
which epi was it shown?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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she is supposed to be a khabri, although I dont know what khabar she has delivered till date !!
Edited by shreya_rc - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Laila a Kothewali she might be ...a fool even,,,but Human she is ..
and a woman at that...so feel she can ...and will...

8 yrs of give and take ...8 yrs of meals exchanged conversation concern and sex and sometimes sex has been for comfort...and repeatedly he has come back for more...so I would say that is a relationship and one that Rudra also bought into...

for having used her and now using Paro...its more telling of Rudra than Laila...
again with the way Rudra has been behaving ...why is it that he has to have the partner that "mother approves of"
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I know rudra made no commitments but a 8-yr old relationship will have its repurcussions. Frankly speaking,I feel sorry for laila. She noticed how she's been the only woman in his life and must have thought that this bond will remain forever,even if there was no marriage in their destiny. And now suddenly she's being dumped...anyone in her place would have felt hurt. It doesn't help matters that she actually loves rudra and stopped mingling with anyone else ever since she met him. The problem is no one is at fault here,noone can be blamed for this situation
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Laila has made no bones about the fact that she knows how foolish it is to keep letting Rudra come back to her. And yet, she does so. Because she is obviously in love with him. And somewhere she hopes that he'll come around some day.
I quite agree with ipkrr, how does anyone have a physical relationship for 8 years and not feel any emotional connect? Rudra in his own gruff way, is nice enough to her.
And he has made it abundantly clear, that it is not Laila whom he can't commit to-- he can't commit to anyone at all.
And Laila is okay with the no-strings attached relationship that he offers her, because she wants to be a part of his life in whatever capacity she can be.
And let's not forget that Rudra goes to her whenever he's troubled or needs solace.

Under the circumstances, I really fail to see how we can stand on some sort of moral high-ground and judge her for taking what she wanted. She has every right to feel pissed off, hurt and jealous. She sees Paro as a usurper who has come in and is taking her place in Rudra's life.


As for your label of 'kothewali', you make it seem as though a kothewali isn't allowed to fall in love, dream of marriage, entertain hopes of commitment, or feel rejected and heartbroken just by virtue of her profession.
Do elaborate upon the kind of girl Rudra should 'take home to his mother'.
And given that Rudra was equal participant in that relationship, is he the sort of boy you want to introduce to your father?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Semanti

Laila has made no bones about the fact that she knows how foolish it is to keep letting Rudra come back to her. And yet, she does so. Because she is obviously in love with him. And somewhere she hopes that he'll come around some day.
I quite agree with ipkrr, how does anyone have a physical relationship for 8 years and not feel any emotional connect? Rudra in his own gruff way, is nice enough to her.
And he has made it abundantly clear, that it is not Laila whom he can't commit to-- he can't commit to anyone at all.
And Laila is okay with the no-strings attached relationship that he offers her, because she wants to be a part of his life in whatever capacity she can be.
And let's not forget that Rudra goes to her whenever he's troubled or needs solace.

Under the circumstances, I really fail to see how we can stand on some sort of moral high-ground and judge her for taking what she wanted. She has every right to feel pissed off, hurt and jealous. She sees Paro as a usurper who has come in and is taking her place in Rudra's life.


As for your label of 'kothewali', you make it seem as though a kothewali isn't allowed to fall in love, dream of marriage, entertain hopes of commitment, or feel rejected and heartbroken just by virtue of her profession.
Do elaborate upon the kind of girl Rudra should 'take home to his mother'.
And given that Rudra was equal participant in that relationship, is he the sort of boy you want to introduce to your father?


you have to remember, relationship with a banjaaran does not signify the status of a girlfriend.. it is more like a mistress. kunwar-sas dont marry kothevaalis, they marry other high class girls. =fact of life, (bollywood gyan.)

yes, laila is his friend/partner and as such, has constructed an imaginary life with him..and her jealous/cheated/victimized feelings are perfectly understandable..
Edited by pink.lotus - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Rudra doesn't owe her a marriage but he owes her the truth and an explanation which in this case hasn't been provided.

And let's admit it most of us women get into such relationships in the hope that someday the man will change. So anyone's bound to feel upset.

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