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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: tvrasika

Sorry Swati but I don't think Shaan is the best husband or whatever... even he would say he is not😆 He has many great points but he has not yet understood what marriage means, what it means to be a husband. Otherwise he would not have told not to 'interfere' with others' lives😡 Budthal😡 Neither is he an 'other' to Khanak nor is her involvement in his life 'interference'. Let us not rush and crown Shaan before he is ready... he will come around but let us not indulge him. He has been spoilt enough.

yes my views are exactly the same
But shaan definitely has the potentional to become the best husband
Unfortunately right now he is not..At present in my view he is good husband but not the best....
( no offence meant to dear swati or shaan )
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: sshriyaa84

yes my views are exactly the same
But shaan definitely has the potentional to become a good husband
Unfortunately right now he is not..At present in my view he is just an average husband ...
( no offence meant to dear swati or shaan )

shriya being wrong/right at moments is human.....nothng out of d world....bt tell me wt if shaan hv nt supported hr ...hv send hr bak after 6mth of their pact
khanak would hv leading life of a widow in dhulwadi.......her odhani.....all white/blackkkk........
he's definitly thr who gave nw meaning to her life....standing by all odds......ul agree tht thy r north-south poles as far as personalty n life style is concerned n despite being snobbish n brett at a time he changed a lot wid her....n still changing.............
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: drswati

shriya being wrong/right at moments is human.....nothng out of d world....bt tell me wt if shaan hv nt supported hr ...hv send hr bak after 6mth of their pact
khanak would hv leading life of a widow in dhulwadi.......her odhani.....all white/blackkkk........
he's definitly thr who gave nw meaning to her life....standing by all odds......ul agree tht thy r north-south poles as far as personalty n life style is concerned n despite being snobbish n brett at a time he changed a lot wid her....n still changing.............

In this aspect i agree with u
that he gave her a new lease of life..
but thenthe main reason is he fell in love with her..
.and ther is some amount of selfishness in my view he wanting to have her since he is loving her...
remember when he was not in love with her he did not follow her and tried to get her back by himself., but acted upon being told.
.so I agree he has given a new meaning to her life and has supported
her but
those things have happened only after he accepted her as a friend and found tht she was very good innocent fun loving girl meaning no harm to him or his family
t...so i guess he has a little bit of selfishnes.. and his love is not fully unconditional..
khanak on the other hand supported his decison of marrrying natasha knowing fully well what life would offer to her in the future( a life of an abandoned woman at village ) yet she accepted it with full heart just bearing in my mind if he is happy I am..
so now u can guess who is the better one.
.Shaan has a long way to go but defintely in th making sof a vrry good husband..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Swati,
Sorry... i don't want this thread to turn into a big argument. am just stating my view.

Is Shaan a good guy? He is. No one would say otherwise.



Is he 'the most loving husband'? That's the topic here na. I think he is not. Because he has not understood what 'husband' means... not the full meaning of it. Men take a long time to get used to that role.. and to having a 'wife' in their life.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: sshriyaa84

no shriya its nt awarding 1st/2nd rank to thm...
shaan s love is unconditional as he might hv gone behind khank bt he did tht........even worked in cafe against hs nature........cumon who vl wash dishes
n khanak too ws thr jus 4............6mth n so sh ws all set to go bak even wsnt knwing her love 4 hm
it ws shaan who made her realise n making her to be wid hm...
n thts surely nothng wrong if shaan started favoring her wn he felt tht way4 her...........
same wid khanak.........sh also started caring hm tht much only getting frn wid hm
nn shriya........wn hetal n mangal were thr he shifted her in hs room.....at tht time he ws in relation wid natasha...............indeed bold step..........he did all tht so tht hetal couldnt get nethng to speak to hr......even removed natasha's photo...............argued for her wid boo/madz
remem.........is ghar me khanak ko bhi utna samman milega jitna khushboo bhabhi ko milta hai is ghar ki bahu hone ke naate................n bhabhi uska nam khanak hai.....k..h...a..n...a...k.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: tvrasika

Swati,
Sorry... i don't want this thread to turn into a big argument. am just stating my view.

Is Shaan a good ound.guy? He is. No one would say otherwise.



Is he 'the most loving husband'? That's the topic here na. I think he is not. Because he has not understood what 'husband' means... not the full meaning of it. Men take a long time to get used to that role.. and to having a 'wife' in their life.

no point of battle ground would love to see ur views...............bt pl tell me practicaly hw diff 4 hm to be upto sum1 fm a rural area........he changed a lot to b like her................fought wid all d odds..............
i knw khanak also did d same........bt being a man its sumthng more diff............esp he hs to fight wid hs own over smart mom/sil............
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Posted: 14 years ago
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i agree with u that shaan is a good husband and loves khanak a lot but now a days i feel that somewhere cvs r ruining his character.Agreed he is selfish from the beginning but yesterday i really got angry when he said khanak she doesn't love him,blah blah blah.First she expressed her love for u in front of the whole family only for u,then she let u come closer to her and now that all his desires r fulfilled,he doesn't want khanak to say anything to him even though he is wrong.i am not bashing shaan here.the way his character is shown now a days it seems he needed khanak only to have s** with her,once khanak fulfilled his desire,he stopped caring for her.i feel he has taken her for granted.if shaan is shown like this for few more episodes then i am sure few more people will stop watching the show.
sorry if i hurt others but this was my opinion after watching yesterday's episode.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: prithvi_veer

i agree with u that shaan is a good husband and loves khanak a lot but now a days i feel that somewhere cvs r ruining his character.Agreed he is selfish from the beginning but yesterday i really got angry when he said khanak she doesn't love him,blah blah blah.First she expressed her love for u in front of the whole family only for u,then she let u come closer to her and now thatss all his desires r fulfilled,he doesn't want khanak to say anything to him even though he is wrong.i am not bashing shaan here.the way his character is shown now a days it seems he needed khanak only to have s** with her,once khanak fulfilled his desire,he stopped caring for her.i feel he has taken her for granted.if shaan is shown like this for few more episodes then i am sure few more people will stop watching the show.
sorry if i hurt others but this was my opinion after watching yesterday's episode.

@anita..............m nt talking abt 1 epi in particular.......its abt as a whole............n even yst wn khanak said......aap phr dosto k pas ja rahe hain.............he cema bak........lo nai jaa raha
aakhr he did wt she wanted fm hm
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@ prithvi-veer
In all fairness, Shaan's feelings for Khanak don't have to do with just physical intimacy ya. wud be wrong to say that. If so, he could have forced her or manaofied her even without the ILU track.

He is just being childish and silly.

@ Swati
I agree with what u say. but we can go on and on... Shaan did this, Shaan did that. But Shaan also did this and that which hurt Khanak. so, lets give him time to become 'the most loving husband'. why rush and award him nw itself? he will get the award at his own pace.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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hey swati ur question was most loving husband..and in that sense he has to share everything even beofre asked to do so..which he is not doing now with his loving wife..
and I feel Shaans character is shaping up very well now since they are showin a real husband a real man...
intead showing as a full super husband and a human being he is shown as the one with flaws which is highly acceptable
..
and I am feaing this thread may turn itno a batttle field with exchage of words and cvs etc unnecessarily brought up here which i feel is not welcome
So I better stop with this..

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